How to get a girlfriend

[Nox123]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

[Mordid]

your desprate i can tell. stop watching the romance moives for a while

[Amapola]

Both things should not be obstacles. Try to sound self-assured even if you are not (in the case you are not, just saying, I don't know you) and treat the girl like if she's special and unique in the world. Respect her; the rest is eventually irrelevant. Although at 16, you might not find women that necessarily appreciate these traits until they grow up. A 30 years old woman speaking here.

good luck!

[Aces High]

At your age a girlfriend is the last thing you want.....get out there and live.

(Oh and a word of advice.....dont rply to any PM's etc from a user called argyle...she isnt really a girl)

[European Loyalist]

Maybe don't goosestep and randomly sieg heil in the halls at school.

[Beorn]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy


Remember that every key was built to open a particular lock.* :thumb001:

My overall advice is to get an abundance of confidence. Confidence can be acquired by challenging your lack of it.

Get out there and take it on the nose.





*It's just unfortunate that many keys can open multiple locks, and in fact most locks are left wide open.

[Γέλως]

Tell them that you are a national socialist. They will appreciate it, you'll see...

[Incal]

Get lots of money.

[Daos]

http://d24w6bsrhbeh9d.cloudfront.net/photo/257685_700b_v1.jpg

Luckily for me, I study chemistry!:thumb001:

[mymy]

Relax, be who you are and things will come naturally.
Not all girls care only about look and money. ;)

[Daos]

Not all girls care only about look and money. ;)

Yes, some really enjoy the sweet smell of chloroform...:naughty:

[leisitox]

Relax, be who you are and things will come naturally.
Not all girls care only about look and money. ;)

Really mymy? if that is true... God lord save me :D

[Bakura]

At your age a girlfriend is the last thing you want.....get out there and live.

:rolleyes:

[Nox123]

Relax, be who you are and things will come naturally.
Not all girls care only about look and money. ;)

That's what I've been doing for 16 years, but nobody has shown an interest in me so far :(

[Grumpy Cat]

You're only 16, you have lots of time.

Anyways, just strike up a conversation with a girl you like. Start from there.

[Aces High]

:rolleyes:

Its an English thang so wouldnt expect you to understand...;)

[mymy]

Yes, some really enjoy the sweet smell of chloroform...:naughty:

Maybe, i didn't try.
Or at least i think i didn't. :D


Really mymy? if that is true... God lord save me :D

Yes, really. It's true. There is no rules in love.

[Guapo]

That's what I've been doing for 16 years, but nobody has shown an interest in me so far :(

go to stripclubs with fake id

[Bakura]

Its an English thang so wouldnt expect you to understand...;)

You mean in England no one have girlfriend at 16?

[Aces High]

You mean in England no one have girlfriend at 16?

Seeing the world and having a life are more important,the rest follows.

[mymy]

That's what I've been doing for 16 years, but nobody has shown an interest in me so far :(

Why do you hurry? Maybe it's just not the time. I had first bf in 18. First kiss also. And it is not something i am ashamed of.

[Pyramidologist]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

Finding a girlfriend that young is pointless, so you shouldn't worrry. Teenagers just break up, its called 'puppy love'. I believe you need to be far older to find true love and develop a proper relationship. I'm 21 and still think i'm too young.

[RoyBatty]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

- Get a part time job like waitering,
- learn some skills,
- make some money,
- become more independent so you don't have to rely on your mommy for everything,
- learn how to deal with people,
- learn how to stand your ground,
- learn when to run from a fight,
- gain some confidence,
- decide what kind of girl you like (Shopaholic, Oprah Winfrey fan, Orange Spray Tan Worshipper, Cheryl Cole fan etc etc etc),

[PS... those choices listed were a joke]

- find out where the girls of your dreams congregate
- devise a strategy to get to know a few of these as platonic friends
(yes I know this may sound amazing but it helps if you should actually discover that you enjoy the company of women as opposed to just wanting to get into their pants)
- get to understand that their minds work differently from yours

Then.. and maybe then... you'll be ready for a gf and a potential gf may decide that you could be bf material.

[Bakura]

Seeing the world and having a life are more important,the rest follows.

But here in Yugoslavia right time to have first relationship is 16-17. Boys at that age which didn't interested in girls are consider as "black sheeps". I'm 18 and I never had girlfriend so my friends from school think that I'm gay.

[Ushtari]

But here in Yugoslavia right time to have first relationship is 16-17. Boys at that age which didn't interested in girls are consider as "black sheeps". I'm 18 and I never had girlfriend so my friends from school knows that I'm gay.
fixed.

[Hess]

you want the honest, no bullshit answer or the romantic PC answer?

if you prefer the former, then it's quite simple really- if you don't have good looks, you're fucked until after you graduate college :thumb001:


girls may talk about how they want a sensitive, intelligent, guy but I assure you that it's all pretty much crap.

[Hurrem sultana]

ok usually a guy should have sex before 17,if he is 18 and virgin something is wrong


thats society....not saying i agree(i don't agree)

[Ushtari]

you want the honest, no bullshit answer or the romantic PC answer?

if you prefer the former, then it's quite simple really- if you don't have good looks, you're fucked until after you graduate college :thumb001:


girls may talk about how they want a sensitive, intelligent, guy but I assure you that it's all pretty much crap.
lol dats bullshit....any fugly retard can get girls if they just have teh right personality.

[RoyBatty]

But here in Yugoslavia right time to have first relationship is 16-17. Boys at that age which didn't interested in girls are consider as "black sheeps". I'm 18 and I never had girlfriend so my friends from school think that I'm gay.

Sure, it can be tough if society looks at you funny. I wouldn't worry about it. People have to think whatever they want to think. Who cares what they think anyway.

Live your life, get some experience, make some money, make some female friends, see what happens. Be confident, have a plan, don't be hesitant or come across as indecisive.

AVOID WOMEN WITH SHOPPING HABITS.

[Hurrem sultana]

anyway,my first boyfriend i had at age 17,,first kiss at age 19 ...not ashamed,,i am a good girl :D

[Guapo]

lol dats bullshit....any fugly retard can get girls if they just have teh right personality like me

fixed

[Ushtari]

Watch and learn son, watch and learn...

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[Hess]

lol dats bullshit....any fugly retard can get girls if they just have teh right personality.

nah, you can have the personality of winston churchill but if you don't look good it doesn't matter (in college, at least). Unless the girl is drunk or ugly herself, that is.

[Pyramidologist]

I'm 18 and I never had girlfriend so my friends from school think that I'm gay.

I'm 21 and have never had one, either.

I only believe to start dating when you are old enough, to find true love with a soul mate, and start making babies.:) I won't be doing this until i'm about 30.:thumb001: I think having a girlfriend too young is silly, mostly nowdays its just all based around sex and lust. I only think those things are ok when you have found true love and want to start a proper family.

[mymy]

anyway,my first boyfriend i had at age 17,,first kiss at age 19 ...not ashamed,,i am a good girl :D

:thumb001:

[Magyar the Conqueror]

That's what I've been doing for 16 years, but nobody has shown an interest in me so far :(
Gee I wonder why :rolleyes:

[Bakura]

ok usually a guy should have sex before 17,if he is 18 and virgin something is wrong


thats society....not saying i agree(i don't agree)

I'm 18 and still virgin, need I go to mental institution because of that?

[Laubach]

Get lots of money.

this is the only way you get a woman?:p

[Ushtari]

I'm 18 and still virgin, need I go to mental institution because of that?
Balkan is not part of "society"

[Bakura]

Balkan is not part of "society"

I think Yugoslavia is NOT part of western world where 12 year old girls have sex.

[Benacer]

No need to rush, you are still young. :) Being desperate is the least attractive thing a girl can find in a man, trust me on that. And you can't be that bad looking, just be yourself, take risks and the right girl will show up in time. Just remember to try, it's not like they are going to fall from the sky if you just wait for it.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

I think Yugoslavia is NOT part of western world where 12 year old girls have sex.

No it isn't, Eastern European society hasn't rotten to the same level as the west.

[Hurrem sultana]

you either look like Brad Pitt or have lots of money:D:D ifi ts both then you are perfect:coffee:










just kidding

[Hess]

No it isn't, Eastern European society hasn't rotten to the same level as the west.

I disagree. Russia is exactly the same in levels of immorality as Britain or France.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

I disagree. Russia is exactly the same in levels of immorality as Britain or France.

Russia is an Aids infested hellhole full of druggies.
The rest of EE on the other hand is not so bad.
Better than places like Sweden where girls lose their virginity at 9.

[Hurrem sultana]

I'm 18 and still virgin, need I go to mental institution because of that?

No you don't its still "sweet" i think, but a girl on average would not want to date a guy in his 20s who is still a virgin,,so pozuri :)

[mymy]

I'm 18 and still virgin, need I go to mental institution because of that?


Balkan is not part of "society"

Be sure of who you are, and what do you really want. Then it will be easier to achieve it, and you will also feel better (if you know what are your goals). The both ways are okay, to be a virgin(or to be in sexual abstinence) or to take things light and enjoy in many sexual partners- if you don't have stable relation what completes you. We need to know that people are different and react on different way.

Once you find a partner who suits you well, things will become much easier. And if that person loves you, she won't care about your sexual past- no matter what it is.

Okay, Bosnian is right, a virgin man isn't what most of girls dreams about, but your special one will respect it, because she will be the right for you.

[Hess]

Russia is an Aids infested hellhole full of druggies.
The rest of EE on the other hand is not so bad.
Better than places like Sweden where girls lose their virginity at 9.

I don't know man,what specific Eastern European countries are you talking about? The situation in Ukraine and Belorussia are exactly the same as Russia. I've lived in the Czech Republic, and it's just as bad.

[Ushtari]

nah, you can have the personality of winston churchill but if you don't look good it doesn't matter (in college, at least). Unless the girl is drunk or ugly herself, that is.
lol and you seriously think a girl would rather choose teh guy of their dreams who happen to have teh most boring personality, rather than an average(even below average) looking guy with the most funny and confident personality? lulzhttps://static.flashback.org/img/smilies2/whoco5.gif

[Hess]

lol and you seriously think a girl would rather choose teh guy of their dreams who happen to have teh most boring personality, rather than an average(even below average) looking guy with the most funny and confident personality? lulzhttps://static.flashback.org/img/smilies2/whoco5.gif

I'm sorry, but that's the way it is in college. Girls will never publicly admit, but everyone knows it's true.

[Terek]

anyway,my first boyfriend i had at age 17,,first kiss at age 19 ...not ashamed,,i am a good girl :D

))) In some places virginity is still valuable)

[Ushtari]

Listen man here is the truth, what Hess and other virgins might tell you is of no importance here.

The most importing thing you need is confidence, because girls are terrified by shy guys, not only that, they are allergic to them aswell.

And looks, i dont know how you look like but if you look "normal"/"average" then you are good(you are fine even if you look below that).


i suggest you watch teh video i posted earlier(aswell as other videos from those guys) where you can see how easy it is to get girls by being playful and full of confidence.


Remember these things and go to teh next party with your friends. Dress good, get yourself a nice hair cut, use deodorant and when you see teh first hawt chikk, go up to her and grab her buubz, and when she try to slap you, you high five her:cool: (lol no you should not do that:P)

[Mortimer]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

16 is very young...are you sure you need a girlfriend at this young age?

btw, if you really want an gf, do something about your looks, work out so you will get muscles by the age of 20, buy cool clothes, style your hair, etc.
also try to come out of yourself, maybe take an course how to come out and overcome your shyness or maybe friends can help

[Hess]

))) In some places virginity is still valuable)

here?
http://lukeplant.me.uk/blogmedia/wadi_rum_1.jpeg

[Incal]

this is the only way you get a woman?:p

That's the only way to make a relationship with a woman last cause he said he's looking for a girlfriend. If you just want to have some action go to a bar and focus on the drunkest girl lol.

[Hess]

Listen man here is the truth, what Hess and other virgins might tell you is of no importance here.

assumption much? :tsk:

[Benacer]

I'm sorry, but that's the way it is in college. Girls will never publicly admit, but everyone knows it's true.

I see the complete opposite here. Plenty of ugly guys getting some very nice-looking women. I even know a guy who looks quite average and doesn't have an arm, who ended up marrying a very good-looking woman. :confused: I guess you've been around some pretty vain girls.

Looks are a bonus, of course, but I don't think it's essential at all.

[Terek]

here?
http://lukeplant.me.uk/blogmedia/wadi_rum_1.jpeg

here)

http://www.kavkazci.kz/_ph/154/2/996926550.jpg

[Laubach]

That's the only way to make a relationship with a woman last cause he said he's looking for a girlfriend. If you just want to have some action go to a bar and focus on the drunkest girl lol.

But he only has 16 years. is in the process of gaining confidence and maturity. We've been through this

[morski]

Has anyone already mentioned that option:
1. Pick a girl.
2. Contact her dad.
3. Negotiate a price(10 to 20 donkeys would suffice).

The annual Gypo bride bazaar is a good starting point:
http://static.bnt.bg/public/files/articles/201008/thumb_400x300_35722.jpg

You can hire IM to be your guide in the wonderful Gyspsy world.;)

[Incal]

But he only has 16 years. is in the process of gaining confidence and maturity. We've been through this

He'll find a girl probably.

[Bakura]

Be sure of who you are, and what do you really want. Then it will be easier to achieve it, and you will also feel better (if you know what are your goals). The both ways are okay, to be a virgin(or to be in sexual abstinence) or to take things light and enjoy in many sexual partners- if you don't have stable relation what completes you. We need to know that people are different and react on different way.

Once you find a partner who suits you well, things will become much easier. And if that person loves you, she won't care about your sexual past- no matter what it is.

Okay, Bosnian is right, a virgin man isn't what most of girls dreams about, but your special one will respect it, because she will be the right for you.

I'm still afraid to have sex, that is one of many reasons why I'm virgin. I decided to find girl for romantic realtionship, but it's difficult task for me because I live in small place and don't go out. It doesn't matter, I hope to have some more luck in future. :coffee:

[Laubach]

He'll find a girl probably.

Absolutely! At his age it is normal to feel this way. But as he grows, he will find out things are easier.

[Benacer]

I'm still afraid to have sex, that is one of many reasons why I'm virgin. I decided to find girl for romantic realtionship, but it's difficult task for me because I live in small place and don't go out. It doesn't matter, I hope to have some more luck in future. :coffee:

Well, you have to act. It's not like a random girl will knock on your door and start making out with you. :p You need to try.

[Ushtari]

I'm still afraid to have sex, that is one of many reasons why I'm virgin. I decided to find girl for romantic realtionship, but it's difficult task for me because I live in small place and don't go out. It doesn't matter, I hope to have some more luck in future. :coffee:
you wont if you keep thinking like that, i suggest you read my former post as well Son.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

I am beginning to think Nox123 is Inquiring Mind's long lost gypsy brother.


Ye i got a gcse in english (grade e) and a gcse in catering (grade d)

got a nice job at tesco's, shop floor assistant, 10k a year and im not even workin full time init

Some people don't have the gene quality to reproduce, and should be sterilised.

[Mortimer]

Absolutely! At his age it is normal to feel this way. But as he grows, he will find out things are easier.

shyness is his his biggest problem in my opinion. if he is average looking, he should be ok. better looks is of course better, but not neccessary.

[Aces High]

But here in Yugoslavia right time to have first relationship is 16-17. Boys at that age which didn't interested in girls are consider as "black sheeps". I'm 18 and I never had girlfriend so my friends from school think that I'm gay.

Theres no rule book or timeline,until i was in my mid twenties i used to avoid women like the plague.......until my wife got her hooks into me.
Travel the world and have a laugh first and dont think about girlfriends.....because before you know it one will come along and net you.

[Nox123]

I could never approach a random girl and do that, I'd just crumble and make myself look like a fool

[Ushtari]

I could never approach a random girl and do that, I'd just crumble and make myself look like a fool
thats why you need to practice, and thats where confidence comes in to the picture. If the girls rejects you(wich many will) you must simply think "NEXT".

[Benacer]

I could never approach a random girl and do that, I'd just crumble and make myself look like a fool

You have nothing to lose! Who cares if you look like a fool? It's not like you owe anything to the people who may think such. Just go and try, I know it's hard, but it's definitely not going to happen if you don't give yourself a chance. Take risks. You can't enjoy life or grasp any opportunities if you are not willing to take risks. You need to build a strong self confidence and stop thinking about what others think of you. It's what comes from the inside that matters the most, your judgment about yourself, not the one coming from other people. :) Once you are confident on who you are, looking like a fool won't matter, you'll realize that it doesn't change who you are.

[Laubach]

shyness is his his biggest problem in my opinion. if he is average looking, he should be ok. better looks is of course better, but not neccessary.

At his age it is normal to be shy and insecure. Whether it is beautiful or ugly. With maturity, he will realize that this is the least important and will gain confidence and become less shy.

He is still in phase "utopian", so to speak

[Laubach]

Being straight, you are very young and not worry so much about it. Try to enjoy life to gain experience, it will make you become less shy and will give you more ability to deal with people and, consequently, with the women

[Bakura]

Well, you have to act. It's not like a random girl will knock on your door and start making out with you. :p You need to try.


you wont if you keep thinking like that, i suggest you read my former post as well Son.

I let it to destiny. If I'm destined to have girlfriend I'll have her and if I'm not I'll never have.

[mymy]

I'm still afraid to have sex, that is one of many reasons why I'm virgin. I decided to find girl for romantic realtionship, but it's difficult task for me because I live in small place and don't go out. It doesn't matter, I hope to have some more luck in future. :coffee:

Sex is part of human nature. It belong to one of basic human needs. But, because of differences in personality and character, there are differences in way we see sex and things connected with it. In Balkan society, open talk about sex is still taboo. To be afraid is okay for the first time. And don't forget that many guys your age who say they have sex actually didn't ever had it, but they are ashamed to talk. Girls also. I know many virgins who are my age. And they are good looking and nothing wrong with them. And you wouldn't never guess when you see them, because they dress provocative, for example.

Sexual life of every individual should be personal choice. What is good for one person, isn't good for another. It is absolutely not important will you be in sexual abstinence, will you go for self-pleasure or will you change partners before you get involved in something more serious. What is more important is to find person who will really understand you, and if that person understands you and if she is aware of your personality, then there is no reason to worry if sexual life will be good, cause we express our character through our own sexuality.



you wont if you keep thinking like that, i suggest you read my former post as well Son.

Ush, the big teacher of confused Balkan boys (and others as well). Lol.

[Ushtari]

I let it to destiny. If I'm destined to have girlfriend I'll have her and if I'm not I'll never have.
Its not just about having a "girlfriend", its a lifestyle. If you practice on these things you will change your personality, to the better and will not only have a easier/funnier time interacting with girls, but with everyone!

[Germanicus]

2 rules how to get a girlfriend.


1/ You must have lots of Humour

2/ Lots of persistance

[Pyramidologist]

The guy is a fake account. He claims to be a National Socialist but types like a wigger and if you check his comment box:


what u mean similar what u ona bout

what music u like? lil wayne rocks my boat

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lil_Wayne

Do NS now listen to negro rap music?

[dralos]

anyway,my first boyfriend i had at age 17,,first kiss at age 19 ...not ashamed,,i am a good girl :D
what did you do then with your bf lol:D

[Nox123]

I'm worried that I'll neverevereverever have a girlfriend :(

So... there's this one girl who is in my tutorial class at college (see her for 15 minutes at the start of every say), we never spoke but I often see her looking at me. Could she like me? How can I talk to her?

[Benacer]

I let it to destiny. If I'm destined to have girlfriend I'll have her and if I'm not I'll never have.

This isn't hollywood, and there is no such thing as waiting for destiny to bring you someone. I can assure you that you really won't have anyone if you just stay inside of your room waiting for a loving woman to materialize in there. I apologize if you feel I am being inconvenient on this, but it's time for you to take responsibility of your life and stop blaming destiny for your inertia. If you truly want something, you have to work for it, it won't come to you out of nowhere. ;)

[Supreme American]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

Shyness is inherited but it can be managed with effort.

[Nox123]

The guy is a fake account. He claims to be a National Socialist but types like a wigger and if you check his comment box:



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lil_Wayne

Do NS now listen to negro rap music?

I was joking :S

I was trying to wind up MagyarCossack :D

[mymy]

I'm worried that I'll neverevereverever have a girlfriend :(

So... there's this one girl who is in my tutorial class at college (see her for 15 minutes at the start of every say), we never spoke but I often see her looking at me. Could she like me? How can I talk to her?

Nox, you are just very young. When i was your age, i believed no one likes me and that i'll end like old lady with the cats. Teenagers can be funny and often aren't able to see real picture, because it is time when you going through the changes, physical and psychological. But, by the time you realize things aren't really like that. For a few years, you will just laugh at this. Self confidence another thing you need to develop.

[Bakura]

Sex is part of human nature. It belong to one of basic human needs. But, because of differences in personality and character, there are differences in way we see sex and things connected with it. In Balkan society, open talk about sex is still taboo. To be afraid is okay for the first time. And don't forget that many guys your age who say they have sex actually didn't ever had it, but they are ashamed to talk. Girls also. I know many virgins who are my age. And they are good looking and nothing wrong with them. And you wouldn't never guess when you see them, because they dress provocative, for example.

Sexual life of every individual should be personal choice. What is good for one person, isn't good for another. It is absolutely not important will you be in sexual abstinence, will you go for self-pleasure or will you change partners before you get involved in something more serious. What is more important is to find person who will really understand you, and if that person understands you and if she is aware of your personality, then there is no reason to worry if sexual life will be good, cause we express our character through our own sexuality.

Yes, sex is part of human nature, but I'm afraid of sex and I know it. Once I had chance to have sex, but I was inexpressibly afraid, sweat was trickling down my face and I couldn't have erection so I refused sex.

[Pyramidologist]

I was joking :S

I was trying to wind up MagyarCossack :D

ok, but the other stuff you posted about yourself is real? You claim to work in Tesco? I tried to give you some sensible advice, but it seems you are a bit immature. You've posted to someone else, that the reason you want a girlfriend is for a blow job. I think that's very sick, that the only reason you want a girlfriend is for sex. Pretty much sums up how depraved the modern world is.

[dralos]

I let it to destiny. If I'm destined to have girlfriend I'll have her and if I'm not I'll never have.
dude don't worry,a gf isn't that important,i either don't have one and nobody can't say i'm less worty then a guy who does have one,i'm atleast making something of my future,you know those 'cool' dudes with gf's are going to end up,let me tell you probably much worser then you by far.
you shouldn't listen to sexist balkanites girls or boys bcs most of them are retarded when it comes to gf,they just think about sex and sex:D
you should just do your own thing,and you shall meet a beautiful girl with great personality,atleast that's what i'm hoping for myself too:D

[dralos]

Yes, sex is part of human nature, but I'm afraid of sex and I know it. Once I had chance to have sex, but I was inexpressibly afraid, sweat was trickling down my face and I couldn't have erection so I refused sex.
can happen to everyone,and stress is the reason bcs a boy must do everything to just to have a little pleasure and the girl becomes so demanded like she is some kind of queen:D
our society is retarded,in the old days girls were much better and less demanding
bro if you were in belgium,you would have instant succes atleast if you're darkskinned:D

[hajduk]

But here in Yugoslavia right time to have first relationship is 16-17. Boys at that age which didn't interested in girls are consider as "black sheeps". I'm 18 and I never had girlfriend so my friends from school think that I'm gay.
My first time was with a prostitute at 18( good looking and expensive ) not something to be proud of course, but at least I gained more confidence.
Try it

[dralos]

My first time was with a prostitute at 18( good looking and expensive ) not something to be proud of course, but at least I gained more confidence.
Try it
didn't people gossip about that,bcs you know how balkanites are:D

[Bakura]

can happen to everyone,and stress is the reason bcs a boy must do everything to just to have a little pleasure and the girl becomes so demanded like she is some kind of queen:D
our society is retarded,in the old days girls were much better and less demanding
bro if you were in belgium,you would have instant succes atleast if you're darkskinned:D

I was afraid because of me, not because that girl. I have feeling when two people have sex that it's like they gonna be kinda fused and become one so I don't wanna be fused with some person about which I know nothing. If I would have opportunity to have sex with a girl with whom I am in a relationship and know her well, probably I wouldn't be afraid.

[Benacer]

My first time was with a prostitute at 18( good looking and expensive ) not something to be proud of course, but at least I gained more confidence.
Try it

If you do try this, wear protection and keep your tongue inside of the mouth. :rolleyes:

[mymy]

My first time was with a prostitute at 18( good looking and expensive ) not something to be proud of course, but at least I gained more confidence.
Try it

And always wear a condom when you have sex with ladies like those!

There was a video on internet, from some Serbian village, how father payed prostitute for his son who was a virgin and whole neighborhood was there to watch, while boy was very scared. :confused:

[hajduk]

And always wear a condom when you have sex with ladies like those!

There was a video on internet, from some Serbian village, how father payed prostitute for his son who was a virgin and whole neighborhood was there to watch, while boy was very scared. :confused:

Thanks for the advice, but I dont it anymore, I have a girlfriend

[Bakura]

This isn't hollywood, and there is no such thing as waiting for destiny to bring you someone. I can assure you that you really won't have anyone if you just stay inside of your room waiting for a loving woman to materialize in there. I apologize if you feel I am being inconvenient on this, but it's time for you to take responsibility of your life and stop blaming destiny for your inertia. If you truly want something, you have to work for it, it won't come to you out of nowhere. ;)

Why should I? I'll die anyway someday.

[Gaztelu]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

The only thing you need to do is overcome your shyness. Everything else is irrelevant (although going to the gym would not hurt).

[leisitox]

Why should I? I'll die anyway someday.

you sound like me :coffee:.

[Bakura]

you sound like me :coffee:.

I think that we are very similar.

[Benacer]

Why should I? I'll die anyway someday.

Do you want to have a happy life?

[Ushtari]

Can teh real virgin please stand up

[leisitox]

Present here captain Ushtari, ready for service my lord.

[Bakura]

Do you want to have a happy life?

Not matter to me.

[Flintlocke]

Well you have to talk to girls. It doesn't matter what you say, just talk calmly like trying to calm down a wild mare or something. Tell her she's beautiful all the time, ALL THE TIME! Then there's a spot right above her cunny... you'll find out :)

Of course the quickest way to win a woman's heart is the still-beating heart of an enemy. Girls say they don't like it but it gets them wet like the Amazon. But in today's liberal world I think you're not supposed to do stuff like that :p

[Mortimer]

And always wear a condom when you have sex with ladies like those!

There was a video on internet, from some Serbian village, how father payed prostitute for his son who was a virgin and whole neighborhood was there to watch, while boy was very scared. :confused:

LOOOL.

[Bobby Six Killer]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

Get roids.

[leisitox]

Tell her she's beautiful all the time, ALL THE TIME!?
it works? seems to not attract women :coffee: IMO in my case.

[Flintlocke]

It's the way you say it that matters :)

[leisitox]

It's the way you say it that matters :)

I need some examples master :coffee:

[Bakura]

And always wear a condom when you have sex with ladies like those!

There was a video on internet, from some Serbian village, how father payed prostitute for his son who was a virgin and whole neighborhood was there to watch, while boy was very scared. :confused:

Paying prostitutes are spending money for nothing. This man supposed to buy computer or motorcycle for his son instead he threw money for bitch.

[Mortimer]

I think you can be happy without an GF, just dont force things. By my age i should already be married and having 1-2kids but im not, but im happy, i have other hobbies.

[Flintlocke]

I need some examples master :coffee:

I think you'll have more luck with the bloodied heart of an enemy :p

[Mortimer]

Paying prostitutes are spending money for nothing. This man supposed to buy computer or motorcycle for his son instead he threw money for bitch.

he forced his son to have sex and others watched, very bad thing, it can cause traumas. but i guess he wanted his son to be "man". wrong attitude.

[RagnarLodbrok666]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

Insecurity and lack of confidence are both huge turn-offs for women. I would do something to change this if I were you. Joining the coast guard or navy or something like that would push out and get rid of all of that insecurity seeping out of your brain, and would make you that much more likely to hook up with someone.

[leisitox]

Could be Flintlocke, but I think stabbing her ego and taking over her mind, and some chloroform could do the job :swl. Such a good boy.

[Richard]

lol and you seriously think a girl would rather choose teh guy of their dreams who happen to have teh most boring personality, rather than an average(even below average) looking guy with the most funny and confident personality? lulzhttps://static.flashback.org/img/smilies2/whoco5.gif

It's sex so personality is not necessary.

[Hess]

I even know a guy who looks quite average and doesn't have an arm, who ended up marrying a very good-looking woman. :confused: I guess you've been around some pretty vain girls

Maybe that guy just has something she wants, materially speaking?

I would go as far as to say that vain girls are the rule, and intelligent/principled/moral ones are the exception.

That said, It gets a little better after college

[Dilberth]

There was a video on internet, from some Serbian village, how father payed prostitute for his son who was a virgin and whole neighborhood was there to watch, while boy was very scared. :confused:

Link please:D:D

[dralos]

I think that we are very similar.
dude judging by your answers you seem kinda depressive,don't you feel any joy in life,everyone is gonna die someday but that doesn't mean we shouldn't make something of our life:thumb001:

[Benacer]

Maybe that guy just has something she wants, materially speaking?

I would go as far as to say that vain girls are the rule, and intelligent/principled/moral ones are the exception.

Sometimes a good out-going personality can stand out more than good looks. :) Maybe that's what she wants. I do agree that the good ones are a rarity nowadays, I just don't think that you need to look like a model to have someone.

[dralos]

mymy that video,you described sounds mad,plz give link LOL
and i think it's not so difficult to get a girl in balkan,bcs you're from the same country and have same mentality,i just look in their eyes and BOOM
here in belgium it's different,kinda harder

[rashka]

Just remember that when you go out on a date, make sure you took a shower, wear some after-shave, brushed and flossed your teeth and did not eat garlic or onions.

:)

[dralos]

Just remember that when you go out on a date, make sure you took a shower, wear some after-shave, brushed and flossed your teeth and did not eat garlic or onions.

:)
that's not important for balkanic women,they just need a man,that's why i like them:D

[Bakura]

dude judging by your answers you seem kinda depressive,don't you feel any joy in life,everyone is gonna die someday but that doesn't mean we shouldn't make something of our life:thumb001:

I don't feel any joy in my life, but it doesn't bother me.

[leisitox]

I don't feel any joy in my life, but it doesn't bother me.

And how you entertain yourself? Did you play skyrim¨? is awesome :thumbs up

[dralos]

I don't feel any joy in my life, but it doesn't bother me.
if you're serious then that's absolutely not healthy and can result in suicide so i would recommend talking to your parents or friends about or seeking professional help:thumb001:
we all got some dark periodes but does this happen to you alot this feeling of being alienated from all joy?

[dralos]

And how you entertain yourself? Did you play skyrim¨? is awesome :thumbs up
not just awesome but best game ever:thumb001::thumbs up:thumbs up:thumbs up:thumbs up

[Bakura]

And how you entertain yourself? Did you play skyrim¨? is awesome :thumbs up

You mean The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim? It's first time that I heard about that game. The only games that I play are Call Of Duty 4 and World Of WarCraft.

[leisitox]

not just awesome but best game ever:thumb001::thumbs up:thumbs up:thumbs up:thumbs up

Hi albanian brother :thumb001:

[leisitox]

You mean The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim? It's first time that I heard about that game. The only games that I play are Call Of Duty 4 and World Of WarCraft.

Seems that you need to expand your repertoire of games man :coffee:.

Skyrim has received universal acclaim from critics, selling more than 3.5 million copies within the first 48 hours of release.[8]

Aggregating review websites GameRankings and Metacritic gave the Xbox 360 version 95.16% and 96/100,[65][68] the PC version 94.30% and 94/100,[66][69] and the PlayStation 3 version 88.00% and 92/100.[67][70]

IGN stated that "It's a mesmerizing game that draws you into a finely crafted fictional space packed with content... [Skyrim is] one of the best role-playing games yet produced."

Spike Video Game Awards
Game of the Year The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

[dralos]

Hi albanian brother :thumb001:
hi to you too spanish brother :thumb001:
soon i've vacation,and i can't wait to play skyrim,are you using the ring of hrycine to change infinite times a day in werewolf:D
guys srry for the offtopic but skyrim is just more important then girls:D

[Talvi]

Go to a party and get wasted.

Something fun is bound to happen :D

[Bakura]

Seems that you need to expand your repertoire of games man :coffee:.

Skyrim has received universal acclaim from critics, selling more than 3.5 million copies within the first 48 hours of release.[8]

Aggregating review websites GameRankings and Metacritic gave the Xbox 360 version 95.16% and 96/100,[65][68] the PC version 94.30% and 94/100,[66][69] and the PlayStation 3 version 88.00% and 92/100.[67][70]

IGN stated that "It's a mesmerizing game that draws you into a finely crafted fictional space packed with content... [Skyrim is] one of the best role-playing games yet produced."

Spike Video Game Awards
Game of the Year The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Does this game have any multiplayer mode?

[leisitox]

hi to you too spanish brother :thumb001:
soon i've vacation,and i can't wait to play skyrim,are you using the ring of hrycine to change infinite times a day in werewolf:D
guys srry for the offtopic but skyrim is just more important then girls:D

Really, more important than chicks? YOU are my brother now :coffee:
Yes man, I use it:thumbs up, but I build a vampire class, half thief half mage with alteration and stuff :D

Im sorry for offtopics, should I open a new thread?

[leisitox]

Does this game have any multiplayer mode?

Multiplayer mode? Bethesda dont do RPG with multiplayer modes :mad:.
Is you solo vs the environment. Or you need to play with some else to be entertaining :coffee:

[Bakura]

if you're serious then that's absolutely not healthy and can result in suicide so i would recommend talking to your parents or friends about or seeking professional help:thumb001:
we all got some dark periodes but does this happen to you alot this feeling of being alienated from all joy?

Yes I'm serious and I said that it doesn't bother me. I don't feel any happiness and I don't want JUDEO-psychologists to talk me what I should do in my life. My mother knows about my condition and she can't do nothing about it like no one.

[dralos]

Really, more important than chicks? YOU are my brother now :coffee:
Yes man, I use it:thumbs up, but I build a vampire class, half thief half mage with alteration and stuff :D

Im sorry for offtopics, should I open a new thread?
offcourse it's more important,it entertains you much more then a girl who just complains but i wouldn't complain if a virgin beauty knocks on my door and wants to have some fun:D

[dralos]

Yes I'm serious and I said that it doesn't bother me. I don't feel any happiness and I don't want JUDEO-psychologists to talk me what I should do in my life. My mother knows about my condition and she can't do nothing about it like no one.
what's your gold in life

[leisitox]

what's your gold in life
YES, HOW much gold coins you have :coffee:, you dont have even for daedric armor -.-.

what's your goal in life
Fixed lol

[Bakura]

what's your gold in life

Nothing, I already said I'll die anyway and don't need help from some puny pshychologist.

[dralos]

YES, HOW much gold coins you have :coffee:, you dont have even for daedric armor -.-.

Fixed lol
i've like 21000 now,bcs i'm collecting every piece of armour or jewel and then selling it:thumb001:
and how do you know that i don't have enough for daedric armor:mad:

[leisitox]

Nothing, I already said I'll die anyway and don't need help from some puny pshychologist.

You have a condition? which one?

[leisitox]

i've like 21000 now,bcs i'm collecting every piece of armour or jewel and then selling it:thumb001:
and how do you know that i don't have enough for daedric armor:mad:

I felt it, brother. Intense connection btw skyrim´s fans :coffee:

[morski]

Someone please ban the kids...

[dralos]

YES, HOW much gold coins you have :coffee:, you dont have even for daedric armor -.-.

Fixed lol
gold is right too,i just looked it up:D

[dralos]

Some please ban the kids...
srry bro,we're staying on topic now

[dralos]

I felt it, brother. Intense connection btw skyrim´s fans :coffee:
great:D

[Hevneren]

Better than places like Sweden where girls lose their virginity at 9.

Bullshit. :rolleyes2:

[leisitox]

we're staying on topic now.
Be CONFIDENT and dont be SHY, because if you are shy is game over. Or just find a shy girl and take a risk and tada :)

[dralos]

Bullshit. :rolleyes2:
the only that's possible,is if those girls get raped:mad:
and that's not funny:mad:

[Bakura]

Go to a party and get wasted.

Something fun is bound to happen :D

You're boring with these stupid parties.

[mymy]

You're boring with these stupid parties.

You should try everything. Go and see, maybe you will like it. If don't, find another activity. If we want to kill our fears, we need to work on it.

[dralos]

You should try everything. Go and see, maybe you will like it. If don't, find another activity. If we want to kill our fears, we need to work on it.
mymy the guy is kinda depressive,he needs to find good friends with who he can laugh and chat,bcs i got the feeling the friends he has now aren't good ones

[Peyrol]

Well, I'm shy (by the italian standards), and i hardly ever had problems with girls I liked.
Shyness isn't negative qualities if is managed in the right way and at the right times.

I personally prefer a girl who is shy but intelligent and emotional than a brainless expansive one.


Oh, when you meet a girl and there is mutual attraction, you've to absolutely avoid the imagination of "mental journeys" about future conversations and about the evolution of the relationship, because it'll be always in a different way than your predictions.

[Bakura]

You should try everything. Go and see, maybe you will like it. If don't, find another activity. If we want to kill our fears, we need to work on it.

It's nice of you what you want to help me, but there's no help for me. There's no force that can save me or you or Ushtari or any other human on the Earth. We're destined to die and that is fact.

[dralos]

Well, I'm shy (by the italian standards), and i hardly ever had problems with girls I liked.
Shyness isn't negative qualities if is managed in the right way and at the right times.

I personally prefer a girl who is shy but intelligent and emotional than a brainless expansive one.


Oh, when you meet a girl and there is mutual attraction, you've to absolutely avoid the imagination of "mental journeys" about future conversations and about the evolution of the relationship, because it'll be always in a different way than your predictions.
i don't either think that shyness is a bad quality,i'm shy too,but if the girl likes me and looks in my eyes then it's on:D
the ones i don't have much success are the party animals,they're not my taste and i'm not theirs:D

[mymy]

Well, I'm shy (by the italian standards), and i hardly ever had problems with girls I liked.
Shyness isn't negative qualities if is managed in the right way and at the right times.

I personally prefer a girl who is shy but intelligent and emotional than a brainless expansive one.


Oh, when you meet a girl and there is mutual attraction, you've to absolutely avoid the imagination of "mental journeys" about future conversations and about the evolution of the relationship, because it'll be always in a different way than your predictions.

Tribuno, i think you are right about everything. You guys should listen.

And when there is mutual attraction, shyness won't stop you to make a contact. You just need positive feedback from another side and then no problems.

Oh, and btw, girls are not always how they look. We like to play ice queens when we are not sure if someone like us, in order to not look like idiots.

[dralos]

It's nice of you what you want to help me, but there's no help for me. There's no force that can save me or you or Ushtari or any other human on the Earth. We're destined to die and that is fact.
weren't you yesterday in love with mymy or am i imaging it

[dralos]

Tribuno, i think you are right about everything. You guys should listen.

And when there is mutual attraction, shyness won't stop you to make a contact. You just need positive feedback from another side and then no problems.

Oh, and btw, girls are not always how they look. We like to play ice queens when we are not sure if someone like us, in order to not look like idiots.
you girls are evil creatures,you like to play with us alot,don't you know how hard it is to confront a girl about your feelings and then being rejected.

[Bakura]

weren't you yesterday in love with mymy or am i imaging it

I like mymy, but that have not much common with this thread.

[dralos]

I like mymy, but that have not much common with this thread.
but see,you were joyful and happy yesterday:)
that was my point that you can be happy if you want:thumb001:

[Peyrol]

Tribuno, i think you are right about everything. You guys should listen.

And when there is mutual attraction, shyness won't stop you to make a contact. You just need positive feedback from another side and then no problems.

Oh, and btw, girls are not always how they look. We like to play ice queens when we are not sure if someone like us, in order to not look like idiots.

This is true. I had very bad experiences when i was 13-14 y.old about "ice queens modality" :D


Another one thing for the guy who opened the discussion: when you have a girl in front of you...realize that she's a human, not some kind of hyperuranic goddes with mental powers...both are just two humans, facing each other.
Many males, when they're shy and they speak with girls, they believe to have in front some sort of supernatural spirit/alien superior to them .... well, it isn't so.
It's only a girl.

[mymy]

It's nice of you what you want to help me, but there's no help for me. There's no force that can save me or you or Ushtari or any other human on the Earth. We're destined to die and that is fact.

Yes, we will all die. But just because of it, we should learn how to live and feel some pleasure in life. I am not sure if something except this life exist, but it is possible that this is only what we have. So, do the good things and try to enjoy in some nice moments.
I don't say i'm having enormous fan in my life right now. I'm more one of those who believe something big and great will happen to me and the best times are coming. We all passed through some hard moments, they are part of growing, and not only that, they are part of life. We all have to learn some lectures, for some people it's easy, for others is very hard. You just need to know yourself good to see what do you want from life, and then the things will be much easier and you will feel good in your own skin.

[Neanderthal]

Go out and date. Easy.

[Bobby Six Killer]

Study hard, earn lots of money, and bitches would fell for you like bees fell for honey.

[mymy]

but see,you were joyful and happy yesterday:)
that was my point that you can be happy if you want:thumb001:

Should i post more pics of my hips in order to help? :D Joking, of course!


This is true. I had very bad experiences when i was 13-14 y.old about "ice queens modality" :D


Another one thing for the guy who opened the discussion: when you have a girl in front of you...realize that she's a human, not some kind of hyperuranic goddes with mental powers...both are just two humans, facing each other.
Many males, when they're shy and they speak with girls, they believe to have in front some sort of supernatural spirit/alien superior to them .... well, it isn't so.
It's only a girl.

Indeed, you are right. We are all humans and it's important to know when we are starting contacts with opposite sex. No need for pressure.

So guys, just take everything naturally and feel the energy what can exist only between man and woman. Or boy and girl.



Study hard, earn lots of money, and bitches would fell for you like bees fell for honey.

Money doesn't help if other aspects are weak. Compatibility is important, at least for something serious.

[StonyArabia]

ok usually a guy should have sex before 17,if he is 18 and virgin something is wrong


thats society....not saying i agree(i don't agree)

Sadly that is the case, but virginity is noble and you should lose to someone that you actually love and will be forever with, not in any random joe or jill. The problem is many see Sex as Love but this indeed not the case. They are two different things. Society should in my opinion return and value the notion of virginity, and to be honest 17 and even 18 is too young to be doing sexual activities.

[Peyrol]

Sadly that is the case, but virginity is noble and you should lose to someone that you actually love and will be forever with, not in any random joe or jill. The problem is many see Sex as Love but this indeed not the case. They are two different things. Society should in my opinion return and value the notion of virginity, and to be honest 17 and even 18 is too young to be doing sexual activities.

Many moroccan/tunisian/libic girls in Italy are pregnant at 16-17 years old.

[StonyArabia]

Many moroccan/tunisian/libic girls in Italy are pregnant at 16-17 years old.

Well North Africa is heavily secular, but I am speaking in general terms I believe all socities should value virginity and see it as important. Those girls are to young have children or playing with sexuality like it's fun game. Sadly this happening across the world. The first way society crumbles is being sexual liberal in my opinion.

[heyaitsme]

you're still young so calm down a bit.. anyways you just need confidence. I know loads of ugly (well, not ugly but not particularly attractive) guys who get lots of girls

take care.

[mymy]

Sadly that is the case, but virginity is noble and you should lose to someone that you actually love and will be forever with, not in any random joe or jill. The problem is many see Sex as Love but this indeed not the case. They are two different things. Society should in my opinion return and value the notion of virginity, and to be honest 17 and even 18 is too young to be doing sexual activities.

Okay, i agree it should be with someone you love, but, please, don't forget everything is individual and you can never know if you will stay with some person forever. Some people fell in love very young, other wait for it. So, if love happens latter, does it mean you should stay a virgin till then(like in 30 or latter)? And then, we are humans with needs, and for men it's harder than for a women. People usually marry at 25-35, because of society norms, some of them doesn't even love their partners. Those things are much more complex then we take it. I still think that we should respect choice of every individual, because there are no rules.

[Neanderthal]

you're still young so calm down a bit.. anyways you just need confidence. I know loads of ugly (well, not ugly but not particularly attractive) guys who get lots of girls

take care. :icon_wink: :cool:

[Norse Sword]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

Well, your not a flaming fag, that means you have 99% of life figured out.

Be yourself, there is someone out there for everyone.

[Óttar]

I'm worried that I'll neverevereverever have a girlfriend :(

So... there's this one girl who is in my tutorial class at college (see her for 15 minutes at the start of every say), we never spoke but I often see her looking at me. Could she like me? How can I talk to her?
You are 16, so sex is still a big huge mystery to you. I suggest you demystify it. You don't want it to have a lot of power over you. Think about seeing a whore for your first time. There is no shame in it.

Otherwise, take Aces' advice. Develop the rest of your life first and then worry about byrds later.

I have girls that I see, but I've made peace with the fact that I may never have a real, hardcore, serious girlfriend. I probably will, but just accepting the very small ultimate possibility of never having a serious relationship automatically makes me give much less of a shit. Thus increasing my chances.

I know a guy who is a 25 year old virgin, he has a law degree, and will soon also have a business degree. I don't know how he does it, but when he's all set, I bet he'll have the confidence to f_ck plenty of chicks.

As for that chick, just talk to her. Be like, "Hey girl, what's up..." :cool: If she doesn't dig you, get that dirt off your shoulder, and move on.

[Flintlocke]

It's kinda more difficult going after teenage girls. They tend to be more reserved and unsure of themselves so they come out as hostile in some cases.

[leisitox]

It's kinda more difficult going after teenage girls. They tend to be more reserved and unsure of themselves so they come out as hostile in some cases.

Teenage girls are the worst :coffee:. First they are nice and stuff, then one day are hostile and then they dont remember you.

[Ashkenazi]

I would say see a prostitute but thats just morally wrong

[mymy]

I would say see a prostitute but thats just morally wrong

If there is no other choice, and if it will help him, then it's okay. Being a teenager isn't so easy and some people deal with hard times more than others. Some guys change after experiences like that because they don't have to deal with pressure of being virgin anymore. Just in that case, you all guys have to use condom, because you respect all your future girlfriends, and before everything you wish good to yourselves.

I suggest you to talk with some more experienced male before you decide to do it. I talk only from female point of view.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

If there is no other choice, and if it will help him, then it's okay. Being a teenager isn't so easy and some people deal with hard times more than others. Some guys change after experiences like that because they don't have to deal with pressure of being virgin anymore. Just in that case, you all guys have to use condom, because you respect all your future girlfriends, and before everything you wish good to yourselves.

I suggest you to talk with some more experienced male before you decide to do it. I talk only from female point of view.

He could always go to a party in a ghetto.

[Peyrol]

If there is no other choice, and if it will help him, then it's okay. Being a teenager isn't so easy and some people deal with hard times more than others. Some guys change after experiences like that because they don't have to deal with pressure of being virgin anymore. Just in that case, you all guys have to use condom, because you respect all your future girlfriends, and before everything you wish good to yourselves.

I suggest you to talk with some more experienced male before you decide to do it. I talk only from female point of view.

Mhhh...i don't think that an escort or a prostitute would be a good choice.

The guy is looking for a girlfriend (so, i presume also for a romantic relationship), not for a simple sexual experience.

[Minesweeper]

He could always go to a party in a ghetto.

Getting out alive would be way more difficult challenge.:D

[Ashkenazi]

The guy is looking for a girlfriend (so, i presume also for a romantic relationship), not for a simple sexual experience.

Losing virginity definitely gives you more confidence.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

Losing virginity definitely gives you more confidence.

If he is desperate to lose his virginity, there are plenty of animals available, such as sheep in Wales.

[Mercury]

If he is desperate to lose his virginity, there are plenty of animals available, such as sheep inWhales.

Not a good idea

http://www.darwinawards.com/darwin/darwin1999-18.html

[Peyrol]

Losing virginity definitely gives you more confidence.

That's for sure.


But it depends from the personal opinion about virginity.

[Óttar]

I would say see a prostitute but thats just morally wrong
How so? If women can have the concept of "ethical slut", I say men can practice "ethical whoring." :coffee:

[Ashkenazi]

How so? If women can have the concept of "ethical slut", I say men can practice "ethical whoring." :coffee:

True, but something about it is just wrong. It's fake sex, even faker than a one night stand.

[mymy]

How so? If women can have the concept of "ethical slut", I say men can practice "ethical whoring." :coffee:

I will say something weird now. Maybe...
Once our prof told us about positive role of prostitutes in society. Something like, they are useful because all frustration and aggression men can't show in everyday life situations(sex is way of neutralizing natural aggression and negative emotions, and many men are scared or ashamed to tell to their wives about fantasies they have), they can show on prostitutes, so they can back to their social roles without dealing with inner problems and conflicts.
The prof was woman.
I study social work. The same prof told us that social workers aren't better than prostitutes because they get payed for neutralizing people's problems and because they also sell "love" on some way, not physical, but psychological. :confused:

[Osweo]

There is a need to demystify virginity. At the end of the day, it's just a point along the spectrum of human physical contact, so thinking of it as a drastic cut off point isn't really helpful. It can be gradually worked up to, by kissing and cuddling and so on. :p And there's nothing wrong if this process of creeping along the spectrum takes even years.

I'm horrified at the suggestions involving prostitution though. And it's less about the personal morality of it than the impact on the women who are drawn into that evil business of abuse and coercion. AND the very real disease aspect. :puke: Condoms are no guard against this.

The kid in the OP needs to forget about the sex part, and just get his head round the general romance aspect. Men and women need each other, so it's a question of figuring out what sort of man he is (and fixing it if it's wrong!), and what sort of women he wants and can get. The rest is just a general maturity matter of learning how to interact with other adults.

Obviously errors will be made along the way, but these are necessary, and are there to be LEARNED from. Avoiding errors by giving up is stupid, as you'll be even more fucked up when you're older, if you haven't made the usual teenage little mistakes.

[Logan]

When I saw someone I desired to know better, I simply took a chance. You lose anyway if you don't.

I'd stop thinking about about myself, and concentrate upon one of them. ;)

[Bakura]

I would say see a prostitute but thats just morally wrong


If there is no other choice, and if it will help him, then it's okay. Being a teenager isn't so easy and some people deal with hard times more than others. Some guys change after experiences like that because they don't have to deal with pressure of being virgin anymore. Just in that case, you all guys have to use condom, because you respect all your future girlfriends, and before everything you wish good to yourselves.

I suggest you to talk with some more experienced male before you decide to do it. I talk only from female point of view.

In my opinion prostitutes are very wrong choice and he doesn't have to pay them in order to be satisfied in life. I think he's too worried about having a girlfriend, but he doesn't have to.

[Siberyak]

Start taking steroids

[Heart of Oak]

Dress smart,keep clean,smell good and go to the gym.

[poiuytrewq0987]

My advice to shy guys:

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luofusKwac1r6wm4ro1_r1_500.jpg

My advice to virgins:

Read:

http://evewithoutadam.net/files/2011/02/82-500x671.jpg

Masturbate:

http://www.loveand-sex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/girl-masturbating.jpg


Rest:

http://www.firstpeople.us/pictures/bear/1600x1200/Rest_Stop_Brown_Bear-1600x1200.jpg

Next day:

http://www.szolnokicivilek.info/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/binoculars.png

http://208.90.155.93/2009/09/02/ebns-hot-girl-of-the-day.web.jpg

Talk: "Hi, I think you're pretty! Wanna get a drink?"

After having a drink or two, you'd want to make your move:

http://amieyalen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/making-love-sex-and-love-9170289-555-368.jpg


Have a nice day!

[purple]

I dunno...be hairy?

or look like this

http://www.8mo.org/mod/images/mangali.jpg

[Bozkurt_Karabash]

Be aggressive sexually and reek of testosterone. Girls love that. Bite your lips while talking to them, and extrude some guttural sounds to make sure they hear your lust.

[poiuytrewq0987]

Be aggressive sexually and reek of testosterone. Girls love that. Bite your lips while talking to them, and extrude some guttural sounds to make sure they hear your lust.

Also convert to Turk if you want to have an advantage. Must dye hair black too. :D

There's nothing more that turns on a lady than having a Turk approach you.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VDij3e52JB8/Tf5xufGeK8I/AAAAAAAAACw/J5T0DOOLftk/s1600/handsome04.jpg

[Ashkenazi]

Just see a prostitute, get rid of the curiosity.

[Aces High]

There's nothing more that turns on a queer than having a Turkish truck driver approach you.


...

[Heart of Oak]

Use aftershave with sandal wood in the make-up, girls really like this smell...

[Minesweeper]

I'm 16, not very attractive (in my opinion) and shy

Title speaks for itself...

Use a lot of Axe, Deodorants, shower gels, etc...:cool:

[Heart of Oak]

Join the Royal Navy and have one in every port...

[dralos]

Use a lot of Axe, Deodorants, shower gels, etc...:cool:
or he just can come to balkans,it's easy there:D

[TheBorrebyViking]

Treat her good. I use to be really shy, then I got laid. After I got laid it all went away.

[lepa]

Boys have to be athletic, manly etc. For me the face is not a big problem, if he have a body. Abs are stunning hot. So if you don't have athletic body, nobody will go whit you. lol

[Chronos]

I was in your shoes too when I was your age, so here is my .02c:

How to get a girlfriend at the tender age where you are rapidly maturing and trying to figure out the world:

-read Dostoevsky (Notes From Underground, **The Idiot**, Brothers Karamazov) (make sure you read The Idiot)
-read Nietzsche's aphorisms just as you'd read the Bible on Sunday when you were a kid (Human, All Too Human; Thus Spoke Zarathustra)
-read Oswald Spengler (**The Decline of The West**, **Man and Technics**)
-read Mutual Aid, by Kropotkin, as a opposition to Darwin
-after that you will know where to look for more

You need to gain insight and intuition beyond the superficial that people talk about. It will take a few years, but once you understand...

"the spirit now wills his own will, and he who had been lost to the world now conquers the world."

[Magyar the Conqueror]

The guy is banned guys, thread's over.

[Osweo]

Aye, all future response should be directed to the aim of getting Magyarcossack a girlfriend instead. ;)

[Siegfried]

Aye, all future response should be directed to the aim of getting Magyarcossack a girlfriend instead. ;)

Magyarcossack, if you're really young, you don't need a girlfriend yet. Listen to Aces High. Freedom is better. Don't waste your years before marriage tied down.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

Magyarcossack, if you're really young, you don't need a girlfriend yet. Listen to Aces High. Freedom is better. Don't waste your years before marriage tied down.

Thats what I plan to do, be free.
I also plan to travel across Europe and sample the 'cuisine' in lots of places. ;)

[dralos]

Thats what I plan to do, be free.
I also plan to travel across Europe and sample the 'cuisine' in lots of places. ;)
lol,you don't seem judging by your post to be these kind of person:D
i would rather thought you would go and conquer all of the european countries:D

[Mordid]

Thats what I plan to do, be free.
I also plan to travel across Europe and sample the 'cuisine' in lots of places. ;)
Just let me know when you come to Poland. ;)

[Magyar the Conqueror]

Just let me know when you come to Poland. ;)

Don't worry, you will hear the sound of the Mongol Ponies and rumble of tanks before you see me ;)

[Siegfried]

Don't worry, you will hear the sound of the Mongol Ponies and rumble of tanks before you see me ;)

Lol. Mongol Ponies. I think they're kind of small for me, but I can manage. I'll get my reflex bow as well.

[Osweo]

i would rather thought you would go and conquer all of the european countries:D

He'll try the food, scrunch his nose up at it, and force the natives then to eat nothing but gulas, just like good King Stephen ate for breakfast, dinner and tea.

[Minesweeper]

He'll try the food, scrunch his nose up at it, and force the natives then to eat nothing but gulas, just like good King Stephen ate for breakfast, dinner and tea.

Gulas is the best think that came from Hungary.:)

[Bozkurt_Karabash]

Do this. It has to work. bravery is the key. Don't chimp out.

http://www.abbyswings.nude-beach-sex.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/4154849116_74876e37aa.jpg

Although this could happen to you.
http://img.chan4chan.com/img/2009-11-29/boy_arrested_cock_out.jpg

[Bakura]

I want to find girlfriend but I don't like to go out and I often even don't have money for it. I few times went out into some clubs, but it was boring for me and I never had girlfriend. Some friends said me that in order to have girlfriend I must go out, but it's boring and torture for me and I'm always shy and quiet even if I drink.

Is there some another way to obtain girlfriend without going out? Please help me, I'm thankful for any advice.

[hajduk]

www.single-baltic-lady.com/Europe
Mail one

[Bakura]

www.single-baltic-lady.com/Europe
Mail one

It's nice, but they're too far away from me.

[derLowe]

I want to find girlfriend but I don't like to go out and I often even don't have money for it. I few times went out into some clubs, but it was boring for me and I never had girlfriend. Some friends said me that in order to have girlfriend I must go out, but it's boring and torture for me and I'm always shy and quiet even if I drink.

Is there some another way to obtain girlfriend without going out? Please help me, I'm thankful for any advice.

Learn how to dance, you get to meet lots of nice fit girls in dancing classes.

(Well in Africa at least.)

[Bakura]

Learn how to dance, you get to meet lots of nice fit girls in dancing classes.

(Well in Africa at least.)

Thank you for advice, but if I'm anti-talent for something I'm anti-talent for dancing.

[derLowe]

Thank you for advice, but if I'm anti-talent for something I'm anti-talent for dancing.

Dose not matter really, any one can become at lease a "mediokritet" dancer. You just need to focus on getting to know as many girls there as you can.

Dancing comes in may forms, Ballroom Keltic Schuhplattling Salsa ect. It is statistically impossible you will be bad at all of them.

I can only do classical ballroom dancing and with that I met more woman than I knew what to do with.

[poiuytrewq0987]

I want to find girlfriend but I don't like to go out and I often even don't have money for it. I few times went out into some clubs, but it was boring for me and I never had girlfriend. Some friends said me that in order to have girlfriend I must go out, but it's boring and torture for me and I'm always shy and quiet even if I drink.

Is there some another way to obtain girlfriend without going out? Please help me, I'm thankful for any advice.

Motivation. Girls won't come to you if you're bored of them. Jesus Christ. :rolleyes:

[Bakura]

Dose not matter really, any one can become at lease a "mediokritet" dancer. You just need to focus on getting to know as many girls there as you can.

Dancing comes in may forms, Ballroom Keltic Schuhplattling Salsa ect. It is statistically impossible you will be bad at all of them.

I can only do classical ballroom dancing and with that I met more woman than I knew what to do with.

I'm too shy and awkward for that.

[Bakura]

Motivation. Girls won't come to you if you're bored of them. Jesus Christ. :rolleyes:

I'm not bored of girls, I got bored when I went into some club and stayed there like fool and without girlfriend. I think going out would be fun for me if I would go with girl.

[iNird]

You don't have to go to a club to get a GF. It's probably better not to find your gf from the club for long term but that could vary on the girl.

Don't you go to school? Have hobbies? Have friends? Or go out in general where you see people. Talking and interacting with girls is the best way and it doesn't even have to be in a social setting like a club. The biggest issue is going up to the girl and not being scared to get rejected.

If not, even facebook has made dating easier. Add them as friends, talk to them, whatever. There are so many options you have other options then going to the club or the pub.

[derLowe]

Motivation. Girls won't come to you if you're bored of them. Jesus Christ. :rolleyes:

Some girls don't like to go out all the time and party. There are different types of woman out there.

[poiuytrewq0987]

I'm not bored of girls, I got bored when I went into some club and stayed there like fool and without girlfriend. I think going out would be fun for me if I would go with girl.

Don't go alone then... go with friends, simple enough, no? Not only at clubs you can meet girls, but everywhere and I mean everywhere. Shopping malls, corner stores, bookstores, coffee shops, and so on...

[Magyar the Conqueror]

First of all, do you want a long term girlfriend, or more of a friends with benefits type thing?

[leisitox]

Really? another thread about this?...
well, just go to classes of whatever you like.. sports, videogames, drawing and meet a girl there. You would have some interesting topics to talk about.
If you want a relationship with romance.

If not, just go to dance in X(idk, whatever) party and meet random girls. Have luck and good luck.

[Bakura]

You don't have to go to a club to get a GF. It's probably better not to find your gf from the club for long term but that could vary on the girl.

Don't you go to school? Have hobbies? Have friends? Or go out in general where you see people. Talking and interacting with girls is the best way and it doesn't even have to be in a social setting like a club. The biggest issue is going up to the girl and not being scared to get rejected.

If not, even facebook has made dating easier. Add them as friends, talk to them, whatever. There are so many options you have other options then going to the club or the pub.


Don't go alone then... go with friends, simple enough, no? Not only at clubs you can meet girls, but everywhere and I mean everywhere. Shopping malls, corner stores, bookstores, coffee shops, and so on...

I don't know how to approach them appropriately. I often tried directly, but such attempts always failed, but I think that I shall maybe keep trying on such way... or maybe not? I don't know really.

[Bakura]

First of all, do you want a long term girlfriend, or more of a friends with benefits type thing?

I want a long term romantic relationship.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

I want a long term romantic relationship.

Then night clubs are not the best place to look for one.

[Bakura]

Then night clubs are not the best place to look for one.

but I don't know which place is?

[Talvi]

I'm too shy and awkward for that.

Get over it.



And then you will get a girlfriend.

[Magyar the Conqueror]

but I don't know which place is?

Do you have any hobbies or something?
Girls in school?

[Loki]

I want to find girlfriend but I don't like to go out and I often even don't have money for it. I few times went out into some clubs, but it was boring for me and I never had girlfriend. Some friends said me that in order to have girlfriend I must go out, but it's boring and torture for me and I'm always shy and quiet even if I drink.

Is there some another way to obtain girlfriend without going out? Please help me, I'm thankful for any advice.

Have you ever tried dating websites? :) They're becoming more popular, and you are more likely to find a girlfriend there than at a bar!

[leisitox]

You could find some serious GF, for sure.
No in nightclubs, thats for sure.
Go and interact with girls, they dont bite often :D
You sure will be embarassed sometimes and bored them too, but you will be used to talk to women of your age or under.

Then find some classes of whatever is your hobbie or go to activities or small groups of 3-8 people and do some quiet, lovely stuff like go to movies, play videogames, discuss about your hobbie, go to library, etc
You will find a women that you will have "chemistry" with. Easy to talk. For sure.
Or use dating sites. you choose.

[PetiteParisienne]

Aw, bless. Approaching women is difficult! It's so easy for men to seem insincere or sleazy, which is unfortunate.

I would recommend what others have mentioned: take art classes, join a book club, etc. It's good to put yourself in a situation where a quiet and productive activity can act as an immediate thing to have in common with a woman.

[leisitox]

Im sure that sometime, in some of that classes a girl will have a crush in you.
Probably she could be very shy and dont show it easily, But she will be yours :thumbs

[Bakura]

Have you ever tried dating websites? :) They're becoming more popular, and you are more likely to find a girlfriend there than at a bar!


Or use dating sites. you choose.

Unfortunately dating sites is not so popular in Serbia, there these sites use just business people which don't have time for going out.

[derLowe]

I'm too shy and awkward for that.

Woman like bold and daring men, what every you do just go for it and don't look back.

[leisitox]

Then bakura, get info about some classes about your hobbies. Meet woman that are similar to you, is better than flirting in a nightclub, torturing yourself.

The problem is boring her IMO. I bored people, specially girls :D

[Neanderthal]

Really? another thread about this?...
well, just go to classes of whatever you like.. sports, videogames, drawing and meet a girl there. You would have some interesting topics to talk about.
If you want a relationship with romance.

If not, just go to dance in X(idk, whatever) party and meet random girls. Have luck and good luck.

:icon_lol:
Have you guys hear the ol' saying ' Never trust a skinny chef '?

[derLowe]

Then night clubs are not the best place to look for one.

My experience is the same, night clubs are poor choices for that.

[leisitox]

:icon_lol:
Have you guys hear the ol' saying ' Never trust a skinny chef '?

Sorry hell, I didnt hear about that saying. What it means?

[Phil75231]

It's best if you live your own life, focus on your work, studies, hobbies and interest WITHOUT any reference to sex/romance (i.e. do this or that particular thing to impress some girl). That's a sure way to be a fake person, especially if the activity alone does not enrich your own soul all by itself.

One of the big problems this society has (and its people) is that they start with the assumption "Sex and romance is the end-all, be-all of life" - and build their whole skyscraper on that foundation. Me, as someone who has not had sex in 17 years or even been out on a date either, I can assure you that sex and romance is either (a)mere addiction to a neurochemical coctail or (b) peer pressure put on you by society to "join the normal people and get laid and get married so you can be 'in' like the rest of us". Once I broke free of that mentality at about age 28-29, and instead started focusing on my own interests and activities - it cleared my mind and soul out like you wouldn't believe of all sorts of shit. I also noticed a vastly improved quality of thought a few weeks after I decided to drop the whole sex and dating scene thing. Definitely simplified my life. Soon afterward, I realized the emphasis on sex and romance was as much a product of the media and societal peer pressure as it was my neurochemical cocktail. Accordingly my very desire for sex went down - way down. In short, I realized this was my natural sexual desire level; my previous level is a product of the media artificially inflating the emotional intensity of the desire.

Understand that I'm not asexual, although my drive is definitely weaker now than in my mid-20s (perhaps a natural decrease, perhaps because I wised up about it). It's just that putting such a high priority on sex and romance is not healthy at all and certainly not at the levels our media and society claim it is.

[Bakura]

Then bakura, get info about some classes about your hobbies. Meet woman that are similar to you, is better than flirting in a nightclub, torturing yourself.

The problem is boring her IMO. I bored people, specially girls :D

There in my school is plenty much girls, but at first look I couldn't know which is match for me.

[Bakura]

It's best if you live your own life, focus on your work, studies, hobbies and interest WITHOUT any reference to sex/romance (i.e. do this or that particular thing to impress some girl). That's a sure way to be a fake person, especially if the activity alone does not enrich your own soul all by itself.

One of the big problems this society has (and its people) is that they start with the assumption "Sex and romance is the end-all, be-all of life" - and build their whole skyscraper on that foundation. Me, as someone who has not had sex in 17 years or even been out on a date either, I can assure you that sex and romance is either (a)mere addiction to a neurochemical coctail or (b) peer pressure put on you by society to "join the normal people and get laid and get married so you can be 'in' like the rest of us". Once I broke free of that mentality at about age 28-29, and instead started focusing on my own interests and activities - it cleared my mind and soul out like you wouldn't believe of all sorts of shit. I also noticed a vastly improved quality of thought a few weeks after I decided to drop the whole sex and dating scene thing. Definitely simplified my life. Soon afterward, I realized the emphasis on sex and romance was as much a product of the media and societal peer pressure as it was my neurochemical cocktail. Accordingly my very desire for sex went down - way down. In short, I realized this was my natural sexual desire level; my previous level is a product of the media artificially inflating the emotional intensity of the desire.

Understand that I'm not asexual, although my drive is definitely weaker now than in my mid-20s (perhaps a natural decrease, perhaps because I wised up about it). It's just that putting such a high priority on sex and romance is not healthy at all and certainly not at the levels our media and society claim it is.

Sorry, but your ideology is not for me.

[leisitox]

"but at first look I couldn't know which is match for me."
Go, talk to them. Try.Try, dont jugde by looks. Well... I jugde a little :D
Some personalities can be appealing to you, you can talk to them and have a nice time, is like you are "connected" in some way and is more easier to talk to her, is beautiful.
I only "felt" that like 2 times :D, is so pleasing.
I assure that you dont like the typical popular girl with no brains.