How many relationships did you have?

[Mortimer]

I never had a real relationship, a long time relationship.

[Sabinae]

Longest was for...9 years.... :) I'm the long-term...stable..serious matter-of-fact :D:D
P.S. IM, Im going to correct your thread title, hope you don't mind :hug2:

[Corvus]

Only one relationship so far. It lasted 6 month.

[Vixen]

Never really had anything serious that lasted more than a few days or weeks untill I met my fiance three years ago.

I suppose I have a very casual and easy going approach when it comes to meeting people. Never in my life have I actively looked for a boyfriend or a serious relationship. I enjoyed going out to have fun and meeting new people, and if I happened to meet some one I really liked I´d just let things happen naturally... if it developed into a relatioship, great, if not that was fine too. I never had a problem with being single. I feel like I really got to enjoy my youth and I avoided a lot of drama and heartbreak at a stage in my life where I probably wasn´t ready to deal with a serious boyfriend.

[Talvi]

one real one :D and then a lot of bs that lasted for months and months but wasnt a real relatioship.

[Lithium]

I like the long term relationships - my real first love relationship lasted 3 years, the other two were just for 4-6 months.

[Rastko]

Lolz.

[Anarch]

Two. A two year relationship beginning in my last year of high school, and my soon-to-be-ex-wife of four years.

[riverman]

One long term relationship, it's over.

[Mary]

One. Still going on.

[Caismeachd]

I lived with a girl from age 17-18 with talks of marriage, after that failed I wasn't really into deeply committed relationships like that anymore, so relationships afterwards only lasted about 6 mos or less. From age 23-30 I've basically just had pointless relationships but am more eager to settle down these days. I don't like casual relationships or people who bounce around from one relationship to another meaninglessly. But it seems to be standard with American women these days. By the time an avg American woman reaches 20 she's been in more "relationships" than every male poster in this thread combined.

[Sabinae]

I lived with a girl from age 17-18 with talks of marriage, after that failed I wasn't really into deeply committed relationships like that anymore, so relationships afterwards only lasted about 6 mos or less. From age 23-30 I've basically just had pointless relationships but am more eager to settle down these days. I don't like casual relationships or people who bounce around from one relationship to another meaninglessly. But it seems to be standard with American women these days. By the time an avg American woman reaches 20 she's been in more "relationships" than every male poster in this thread combined.

That right there... :) "to not be meaningless" is the essence my being searches for :thumb001: Good points Robert! Thank you for your opinion!

[Albion]

Two in the past, none lasted more than a year. Damn, if only we had a shortage of men. :D

[Hurrem sultana]

1 or 2(the first i cant really count as relationship,complicated story :D)

[derLowe]

A few.

[Caismeachd]

It seems very common for people just to jump around in relationships. Especially young American women. They're so flighty and self centered that everything they do is practically meaningless. I guess there must be some sort of social pressure for them to act like some caricature of how they think an average man is (sleeping around meaninglessly, having open relationships, leading one person on but dumping them as soon as another shows interest etc). That's my experience anyways. I would rather be single then get wrapped up in all the drama. It's interesting how you can get into a relationship with someone and only find out the next day they already have a boyfriend they've been seeing. Or to be led on for a month with them calling you "love" only for the next day to hear "truth is I'm really still in love with my ex". It's all disgusting to me how meaningless people can make one of the only really enjoyable things in life to be anymore.

[derLowe]

It seems very common for people just to jump around in relationships. Especially young American women. They're so flighty and self centered that everything they do is practically meaningless. I guess there must be some sort of social pressure for them to act like some caricature of how they think an average man is (sleeping around meaninglessly, having open relationships, leading one person on but dumping them as soon as another shows interest etc). That's my experience anyways. I would rather be single then get wrapped up in all the drama. It's interesting how you can get into a relationship with someone and only find out the next day they already have a boyfriend they've been seeing. Or to be led on for a month with them calling you "love" only for the next day to hear "truth is I'm really still in love with my ex". It's all disgusting to me how meaningless people can make one of the only really enjoyable things in life to be anymore.

Some woman are like that but not all.

[Mary]

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[Feral]

One. Five years and counting.

[Leadchucker]

One, it started in 1966 and never stopped.

[Flintlocke]

none

[sturmwalkure]

None, so far if we don't count two long distance ones that pretty much withered out.

[Hevneren]

Three. One lasted about 4 years, the other was on and off for about 4 years, and the third one lasted about 7 months. I managed to screw that one up. :(

[PetiteParisienne]

Four, including my husband. The second one was brief.

[Drawing-slim]

Four long serious relationships.
But for the last some years i been enjoying those short relationships that i know from the start will never get serious.
Its like a guilty pleasure, a sense of freedom knowing that you dont have to worry about long run future thoughts.

[Kazimiera]

Is this just relationships or casual liaisons included?

[Queen B]

I am in my 4rd relationship.
My first lasted 2.5 years, second for 7-8 months, and last 5 years.
My current is very new, not even 3 months already.

[leisitox]

None.

[Paluga]

I had no realtionship in my whole life:( I'm so lonely,melancholic and shy, no girl would like me. Sure there were some girls who liked me by my look and asked me if I want to be their boyfriend, but this makes no sense. I want a girlfriend who loves me and not my look.

[Corvus]

I had no realtionship in my whole life:( I'm so lonely,melancholic and shy, no girl would like me. Sure there were some girls who liked me by my look and asked me if I want to be their boyfriend, but this makes no sense. I want a girlfriend who loves me and not my look.

You are 16, so no need to worry, you will get plenty of chances.

[leisitox]

I had no realtionship in my whole life:( I'm so lonely,melancholic and shy, no girl would like me. Sure there were some girls who liked me by my look and asked me if I want to be their boyfriend, but this makes no sense. I want a girlfriend who loves me and not my look.

Im 16 too and like that too. But just wait. Theres other things than chase girls like play videogames.

[Supreme American]

It seems very common for people just to jump around in relationships. Especially young American women. They're so flighty and self centered that everything they do is practically meaningless. I guess there must be some sort of social pressure for them to act like some caricature of how they think an average man is (sleeping around meaninglessly, having open relationships, leading one person on but dumping them as soon as another shows interest etc). That's my experience anyways. I would rather be single then get wrapped up in all the drama. It's interesting how you can get into a relationship with someone and only find out the next day they already have a boyfriend they've been seeing. Or to be led on for a month with them calling you "love" only for the next day to hear "truth is I'm really still in love with my ex". It's all disgusting to me how meaningless people can make one of the only really enjoyable things in life to be anymore.

I hope every post on this thread by you isn't bitter trashing against American women?

[Daos]

One that lasted for four years.

[Kazimiera]

I'd like to answer but I'm not sure exactly what constitutes a relationship here? What are the criteria to answer this question?

Is a relationship casual dating? living together? what is the time span that this relationship must last in order for it to be classified as a relationship? sure a 3 month fling cannot be considered a relationship?

[Caismeachd]

I hope every post on this thread by you isn't bitter trashing against American women?



OK I won't generalize as much.

[Arne]

I never had a real relationship, a long time relationship.
Guess why it is how it is.
Depends on how i am likely to remember of them..

[EuroAmericanProud]

Nothing more than a week or two.

[riverman]

I hope every post on this thread by you isn't bitter trashing against American women?

Lol wait you were calling me bitter earlier, is there a pattern here? Every time a male criticizes some aspect of females attitudes etc. they are "bitter"?? Well, I think perhaps you just don't want to face certain truths, frankly I'm not interested in your generalizations.

[Caismeachd]

I've dated at least 10-12 american women in the last 4 years and I've noticed certain behaviours/mentality that they have that European girls haven't had when it comes to A) approaching (American women put on some really off putting smug attitude. B) Actual date (American women constantly need to talk and for you to constantly talk to them/charm them/keep them entertained without hardly reciprocating in any meaningful way) C) Sex (American women will often have sex with you on the first date). D) Long Term prospects (Not a chance. They're so flightly and unstable that you can never expect anything stable even if they're telling you they love you). That's where my generalizations come from. Experience I guess. European girls are generally more approachable, more down to earth, don't have the smug attitude, if you do finally begin to talk to them they can carry a conversation and don't expect you to do 100% of the talking at all times. Just much more natural without all the insane drama.

[SilverKnight]

1st- Cuban - 8 mouths (2nd longest)
2nd - Filipino - 2 weeks (shortest)
3rd - American - 4-5 mouths
4th - American - 2 mouth
5th - American - 1 1/2 mouth
Current - American - Almost 1 year and living together (longest, for ever after).

[Heart of Oak]

one in every port.......

[Arrow Cross]

Zero. Independence is underrated.

[purple]

None. I am too young to think about any kind of relationship. Whoever wants to have boyfriend at 13 or 15 and thinks this is a relationship, is in great ''danger''...Let's say it that way:D

[Talvi]

None. I am too young to think about any kind of relationship. Whoever wants to have boyfriend at 13 or 15 and thinks this is a relationship, is in great ''danger''...Let's say it that way:D

I know people who have been together since they were 15...

[Heart of Oak]

I know people who have been together since they were 15...


I met my first wife at school 14 1973 we were together till she an my three daughters died in 2007....

After that i went a bit mad with relationships, until i met my present partner of today and we are happyish most of the time....
What more can you ask for...............

[Maddy]

Zero....and I'm 28

[SilverKnight]

Zero....and I'm 28

Not very common at that age, consider yourself in the "minority" when it comes to that, most people these days start dating from 15 or even younger.

I'm guessing it has its positive thing :thumb001:

[juizdelinha]

zero

[brunette]

Alot.

[Matritensis]

Two relationships,nine years each.Some gigs too,but not important.

[Han Cholo]

A few, nothing serious though.

[Mraz]

2 serious relationships, the longest one lasted 1 year,
and my last one lasted 7 months and finished
2 weeks ago. I think that I'll enjoy my tranquility
for a long while :)

[Atlas]

More than 10... and lasting from weeks to months, longer was two years.

[Slava Srbija]

I never had a real relationship, a long time relationship.

Aww man I feel sorry for you.

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[Kazimiera]

Hmmm...

Quite a number.

Some boyfriends along the way, and numerous other shorter interludes.

My first husband passed away and left me a widow at 28.

I'm married again.

[Germanicus]

I was married from 1978 till 2004. :coffee:

[MetricSystem94]

Never had a relationship, and I'm 18 years old. I think I am the only one here. Believe me, I try hard, but I don't seem good enough.

[Svipdag]

4. None very satisfactory.


"Age is a high price to pay for maturity." - Anon Y. Mous

[ricko0812]

1 very long relationship-8 years
4 very short relationships-around a couple months each.

[Artek]

Never had a relationship, and I'm 18 years old. I think I am the only one here.
You're not the only one, bro :thumb001:.

[MetricSystem94]

You're not the only one, bro :thumb001:.

If you're one, I think you can share my pain! xD

[Corvus]

If you're one, I think you can share my pain! xD

You are 18, your time will come. Don`t lose patience.
"Quality before quantity" :thumb001:

[Allenson]

At my age, too many at this point.

Some I look back fondly on, others, not so much. ;)

[MetricSystem94]

You are 18, your time will come. Don`t lose patience.
"Quality before quantity" :thumb001:

Yeh problem is I got bored waiting! I really love and never gets loved back. Anyway I don't wanna seem like I'm the new cry baby on here! :cool:

[Osprey]

One. Still going on.

Attention, O Women of Apricity, Lend me your Years.
Senator Mary has shown us the path to a long lasting relationship which is in the reach of all of us women. We should religiously subscribe to her threads and listen to her attentively and one day we'll too be free of heartbreaks and enter a REAL relationship.
''Bowing to the Crowd''

[StonyArabia]

None it's easier that way as well one needs to keep his purity. I mean there is nothing wrong with dating, but often it seems people often have sexual intercourse when they do so a sad state of affiars, so the answer would be it's better to be alone until the right time comes, or who are meant to be wed to. The only relationship one should have is that of wife or husband and it should start at marriage.

[MetricSystem94]

To be honest I'm in favour of sex before marriage. I see nothing wrong as long as they both agree to do it.

What keeps me back from being in a relationship is that most woman see looks before character.

[Virtuous]

I really love and never gets loved back.

I understand you brother, I understand you :'(....come at me bro, HUG ME.

[MetricSystem94]

I understand you brother, I understand you :'(....come to me bro, HUG ME.

A maltese group hug :thumb001:

[WitheredWhiteness]

I understand you brother, I understand you :'(....come at me bro, HUG ME.


A maltese group hug :thumb001:

can I join you bros? :D

well I'm not Maltese, but I like seeing guys hugging :D

[Virtuous]

can I join you bros? :D

well I'm not Maltese, but I like seeing guys hugging :D

No, no threesome I'm just too jelly :P.

[MetricSystem94]

can I join you bros? :D

well I'm not Maltese, but I like seeing guys hugging :D

Sure, European hug then :p

[Virtuous]

sure, european hug then :p

stop dreaming already!

[MetricSystem94]

stop dreaming already!

Dreaming of what you? I said dreaming, not nightmares xD

Kidding pal :p

[Virtuous]

Dreaming of what you? I said dreaming, not nightmares xD

Kidding pal :p

So you don't want me to rape you like when you told me about your sexual fantasy last night?

pity...

[MetricSystem94]

So you don't want me to rape you like when you told me about your sexual fantasy last night?

pity...

Are you on weed? :cool:

[Virtuous]

Are you on weed? :cool:

Maltese quality brand :cool: :thumb001:

[MetricSystem94]

Thank God it's not Made in China!

[Virtuous]

Thank God it's not Made in China!

HELL NAW

[Heart of Oak]

Mines from home.......

[Barreldriver]

Never had any long term relationships, nothin' that's lasted more than a few weeks. Mostly because I've had very few engagements to begin with, often the result of being set up with someone, by a friend, that I really don't want to be with. :p

Another issue is my irregular employment. I have a mental block so to say, resulting from how I was raised, in that I feel obliged to have steady employment afore I feel secure enough to even consider settling for anything long term, I refuse to be a burden and don't like to ask favors, even of family let alone non-kin. Another issue is being displaced from Tennessee, I have a conflict in that I still associate with my Tennessean upbringing and miss my home state but at the same time I have zero opportunity in my hometown (why I left in the first place), being in that "Rambo limbo" of sorts (displaced migrant) doesn't help things.

Then there's the aspect of flat out rejection, aside from the few short term hook ups I've had I've been turned down by the vast majority of lasses I've shown interest in.

[Aces High]

Well as you can imagine i am a sexual athlete of olympic proportions so i had thousands of women.
Must have something to do with my chisled sun beaten Hollywood style good looks....who can say..:cool:
















TBH,not many....i avoided relationships like the plague as i had too much to do and wanted to travel the world etc.

[RenaRyuguu]

2 so one was long distance and the other one was idk real life in June 2020 with my high school crush it lasted for a few months and now I want to find a third real one ya so good luck to me

[El_Jibaro]

Two long term relationships.

[Celestia]

3. I was never one to date around but when I did, it was for long-term. My shortest relationship was 2 years long lol.

[Mortimer]

2 so one was long distance and the other one was idk real life in June 2020 with my high school crush it lasted for a few months and now I want to find a third real one ya so good luck to me

Good luck. I think you are cute. Cool Jacket.

[Mortimer]

3. I was never one to date around but when I did, it was for long-term. My shortest relationship was 2 years long lol.

Im so happy you live a mums life and you settled things with the father of your kids after short break up. Kids need a mum AND a dad.

[RenaRyuguu]

Good luck. I think you are cute. Cool Jacket.

That's not me in the photo. Idk why I'd post myself. That's just someone who looks like me. Thanks for wishing me luck tho I need it

[Mortimer]

That's not me in the photo. Idk why I'd post myself. That's just someone who looks like me. Thanks for wishing me luck tho I need it

Sent me your pics in pm I will classify you and tell you where you pass best also im curious I will keep it discrete and delete it after I saw it

[RenaRyuguu]

Sent me your pics in pm I will classify you and tell you where you pass best also im curious I will keep it discrete and delete it after I saw it

I can't sorry I don't do that.

[happycow]

4. Only one of them was long term and it was with my ex wife. The others lasted only a few months.