Would you marry an infertile person?

[Su]

I wouldnt mind, all in all if he made me happy and we got on very well, I would surely marry him, what about you?

VOTE in the poll :)

[Han Cholo]

Depends. But of course I'd prefer having kids with my partner once settled.

[The Lawspeaker]

Yes I would. We could always adopt children later on and believe me: there are quite a few children dumped into care in this country whose parents are either absent or not being able to care for them and the rules for becoming a foster parent are close to absurd so a lot of children are left within the system until they are over 18.

[Queen B]

No, I don't think I would

[Hurrem sultana]

Yes if i love him i would.I mean i believe in God and it is all in his hands,if you are supposed to have kids you will

My mom could not get children for 9 years..and then she got 3 healthy kids :) my father did not leave her during those 9 years and i think i would do the same if i was in a similar situation

[Osprey]

Yes if i love him i would.I mean i believe in God and it is all in his hands,if you are supposed to have kids you will

My mom could not get children for 9 years..and then she got 3 healthy kids :) my father did not leave her during those 9 years and i think i would do the same if i was in a similar situation

So suddenly, a man's sperm will become potent after lying dormant for 9 years?

[Hurrem sultana]

So suddenly, a man's sperm will become potent after lying dormant for 9 years?

Answer the questions of the thread instead,so would you leave your girl if she found out she is infertile?

[Osprey]

Answer the questions of the thread instead,so would you leave your girl if she found out she is infertile?

No, i would not leave her.
What i meant was that your reply sounded as if you would only remain with your partner, if there was some chance of him being non potent.

[Fortis in Arduis]

My species is capable of parthenogenesis, so it isn't an issue.

If a water droplet falls on me, a mini-me pops out!
I just have to avoid having carbs after 7pm.

[Mraz]

I would probably not know if she is sterile before, so I'd be a bad person if I'd quit her once married.

[ricko0812]

I would because like that tuan belanda said there is always adoption.

[Moonbird]

Well, I couldn't do my share of the work for the preservation of the Europeans if I'd marry an infertile man. So my answer has to be no.

[Midori]

I'm not sure if I want a kid yet, so yeah I guess.

[Aces High]

No.....and btw my wife is Italian and you only have to just mention the word sex and she's pregnant........:(

[StonyArabia]

No, I would like to have to at least 8 children. This being said however she was not fertile before I knew I would not mind, and probably love her as long she makes me happy and get along well with me.

[Mortimer]

yes.

[Han Cholo]

The whole purpose of mating is to pass your genes. Women seek for men with the better traits, be it psychological or physical to reproduce with and men do the same. Choosing a partner that happens to be infertile would be defeating that purpose. It would make the main function of attraction and selection useless, as that could not be synthetized.

I don't mean I would not do it in certain case but it's definately a tough question.

[Linet]

i love babies, i want babies and i believe i would be a good mother... I don think i could marry a man that cant offer me kids....chances are close to zero to go for such a wedding...

[Kalitas]

If I really love that person, I guess the answer would be yes

[Arcaius]

hmmmmm well i believe in spreading your genes and making bigger family... so i'll say no,it's the man's job to continue his "sure name" as we say.
having kids is the epitome of marriage and serious relationship,and i think nothing can replace that

[The Lawspeaker]

hmmmmm well i believe in spreading your genes and making bigger family... so i'll say no,it's the man's job to continue his "sure name" as we say.
having kids is the epitome of marriage and serious relationship,and i think nothing can replace that

When a child is adopted it can also get the name of his adoptive father so if the name thing is a problem.. I don't see it. On the plus side: even if you then can't have more children you have contributed to th welfare of your younger citizens by looking after one or two of them that would have fallen through the net.

Instead of chasing ahead with your wildest dreams you have picked up the stragglers and given them a new live.

[Arcaius]

When a child is adopted it can also get the name of his adoptive father so if the name thing is a problem.. I don't see it. On the plus side: even if you then can't have more children you have contributed to th welfare of your younger citizens by looking after one or two of them that would have fallen through the net.

Instead of chasing ahead with your wildest dreams you have picked up the stragglers and given them a new live.

:D lol no i didn't mean it just like sure name... that's why i put it in quotes ... by sure name we mean the whole package ;) the name is not the issue ...your own flesh and blood is...since they will be the extension of you,a real life person that came from you
and ok,an adopted kid can also become too attached to you and you will love him as much as your own...but that's the very last option and i don't think can actually replace the real deal,maybe it's a bit harsh to say this,but in this moment that's how i think...

[Accountant]

Well, I couldn't do my share of the work for the preservation of the Europeans if I'd marry an infertile man. So my answer has to be no.

My thoughts exactly. I want to live forever and the closest possible thing to that is my genes living forever in this damned world :cool:. I also think it would be an insult towards my forefathers if I didn't reproduce.

[rhiannon]

So suddenly, a man's sperm will become potent after lying dormant for 9 years?

Yes. This can happen. My hubs had a vasectomy because he did not want any more kids with the ex bitch from hell. 10 years after the vasectomy, he had it reversed. Our little boy was born about 16 months later:thumb001:

Granted, we were told by the surgeon who did the repair that given our ages (we were 39 at the time of the surgery, and I DO mean WE because hubs and I are only 7 days apart in age), our chances for a successful pregnancy leading to delivery were only 20%.

I was 40 when we had Derek. Lemme tell you, the kid is an outlier, lol. He was worth all the effort in the world!!

[Mistic]

Yes I would marry someone infertile.

[~Elizabeth~]

Yes. This can happen. My hubs had a vasectomy because he did not want any more kids with the ex bitch from hell. 10 years after the vasectomy, he had it reversed. Our little boy was born about 16 months later:thumb001:

Granted, we were told by the surgeon who did the repair that given our ages (we were 39 at the time of the surgery, and I DO mean WE because hubs and I are only 7 days apart in age), our chances for a successful pregnancy leading to delivery were only 20%.

I was 40 when we had Derek. Lemme tell you, the kid is an outlier, lol. He was worth all the effort in the world!!

Congratulations. That is an inspiring story. :)

[Elsa]

I want children so probably not.

[Pontios]

If I found a woman that I really love, I would.

[YeshAtid]

Yes

[RandoBloom]

No

[Shah-Jehan]

NO

[Loki]

No, I wouldn't. I want to have children.

[Blackout]

Its hard to tell if someones infertile before marrying them. I guess if i was to find out afterwards, i would just pray for a Miracle to happen. ;)

[Ultra]

Never. I feel a need to produce offspring.

[Proctor]

It depends for me, I REALLY want to have kids, but if I truly loved the person I'm married too I'd just adopt.

[Mortimer]

yeah i would, i voted it also. but i would look for a surrogate and medical assisted breeding. i would be very sad if i were infantile, it would destroy my life, because i reall like a baby

[1stLightHorse]

There have been a number of studies connecting certain Y-dna haplogroups with reduced sperm count/poor motility, etc etc.

Y-dna extinction rates are quite high. Haplogroup subclades are disappearing all the time.

In the study i read, I'm quite certain R1b had the highest sperm count of all other haplogroups in the study, by a long way. This is how it back migrated and maintained an extremely strong presence amidst a vast majority of E, B and A in Cameroon, maintaining some 95% of male lineages in north cameroonian tribes.

[SilverKnight]

Yes, I'm kind and loving guy.

As long as we are happy together and our family we can adopt :)

[Temujin]

I don’t have a definite answer. Maybe...

[Bobby Six Killer]

I don't mind. In matter of fact having 100 cats is cheaper than raising kids lol

[justme]

If I loved him yes... But then I'd want children.

[armenianbodyhair]

I don't know. Probably.

[Odin]

Only if she is in 8-10 range.

[Annie999]

If he'd let me get pregnant with a sperm donor and love our babies as if they were really his, then I think I would.

[Gangrel]

Yes, can always adopt.

[Hoxhaism]

Fertile or not, it wouldn't make a difference, as i don't even plan to have children.
To me, love is about the person and not what they can and cant do.

[arvanite]

Fertile or not, it wouldn't make a difference, as i don't even plan to have children.
To me, love is about the person and not what they can and cant do.

Would u say that u love me?

[Paris-Brest]

Yeah, kids are overrated imo.

[RenaRyuguu]

yes sure if they are the right person I have a hard time finding people I like anyway -__-

[El_Jibaro]

No.

Having children is important, because we must secure the existence of our people and a future for wog children.