Strange guy?

[Hurrem sultana]

So whats up with guys that seem to contact you,call you etc but expect you to keep the convo "alive"..like he will reply but not engage in the conversavation as people usually do.Uninterested it cant be,as he is the one that always starts :confused: Does anyone else recognize this*?

[Han Cholo]

He probably likes to hear more than just speak mindlessly.

[Mraz]

Maybe he grew up among females so he learnt to shut up :D

[Hurrem sultana]

Maybe he grew up among females so he learnt to shut up :D

but it makes me feel like he is bored i mean if he did not start the conversation i would think he is just bothered:confused::rolleyes:

[Mraz]

but it makes me feel like he is bored i mean if he did not start the conversation i would think he is just bothered:confused::rolleyes:


Well, ask him directly why he is that weird, at worst, he'd think you ask stupid questions.

[Ozzy]

Strange, usually I've always thought it was guys who had this problem, with disinterested women not replying.. :confused:

[Virtuous]

I am slowly learning not to give a fuck about this issue. If someone wants to talk, he/she talks, if not, can you do anything about it?

[Incal]

Nothing weird. Most people in the colder parts of Europe are kind of autistic.

[Azalea]

Hmm interesting.. Matbe he just lacks the social/verbal skills or doesn't have anything interesting to tell you?

[mysticism]

*Edit*
real answer: guys are insecure today and don't want to scare you (women) off with their personality.

[Sarmatian]

So whats up with guys that seem to contact you,call you etc but expect you to keep the convo "alive"..like he will reply but not engage in the conversavation as people usually do.Uninterested it cant be,as he is the one that always starts :confused: Does anyone else recognize this*?

First it could be cultural specific. Is he from the same country as you?

Second it could be the personal development specifics. He might be Asperger or something of that kind.

[Loki]

bosnian, cut your losses and get another guy. Plenty out there. This guy is obviously not suited for you.

[Virtuous]

Like other users here said, it could be that he's anxious/shy and he does like you, but he finds difficulty to keep a conversation going.

[mysticism]

I find really hypocritical that girls today are for gender equality and then they pull sh*t like this....not contributing to the courtship at all and expecting the guy to do all the work.

[Virtuous]

I find really hypocritical that girls today are for gender equality and then they pull sh*t like this....not contributing to the courtship at all and expecting the guy to do all the work.

amen, man.

[Hurrem sultana]

I find really hypocritical that girls today are for gender equality and then they pull sh*t like this....not contributing to the courtship at all and expecting the guy to do all the work.

what do you expect a girl to do?:confused:

[mysticism]

what do you expect a girl to do?:confused:

Be interested in the guy, have ideas to share, listen to him, react, pay for dinner sometimes...

[Alenka]

This is just a speculation, but it could simply be that this is a part of his personality. Some people are very passive in communication, don't enjoy taking control of the flow of conversation, and would prefer the other person to take care of that.

If that's indeed is a part of his personality and you, contrarily, like to talk a lot, then you two might be a good match. But if you personally also prefer others to take control of the conversation, then uncomfortable silence could be a problem.

[Loki]

Maybe he's just not really interested? This seems the most plausible explanation.

[Hurrem sultana]

Maybe he's just not really interested? This seems the most plausible explanation.

I would think that too,but he is the one that contacts me and then behaves like this:confused:

[Hurrem sultana]

This is just a speculation, but it could simply be that this is a part of his personality. Some people are very passive in communication, don't enjoy taking control of the flow of conversation, and would prefer the other person to take care of that.

If that's indeed is a part of his personality and you, contrarily, like to talk a lot, then you two might be a good match. But if you personally also prefer others to take control of the conversation, then uncomfortable silence could be a problem.

Thought about that too,next time we talk i will just leave it and see what he will do if i dont make sure the convo goes on

[Hurrem sultana]

Be interested in the guy, have ideas to share, listen to him, react, pay for dinner sometimes...

girls cant pay:D:p

[Loki]

I would think that too,but he is the one that contacts me and then behaves like this:confused:

Sounds like a player ... I really think you should move on. Why waste time on him? You're a gorgeous young lady with many options. He's obviously not for you.

[mysticism]

girls cant pay:D:p

Then you can't complain about doing the cooking and cleaning :thumb001:

[Azalea]

Lol girls paying for dinners.. You only do that when you're in a longterm relationship, not when you are just getting to know someone. Seriously bosnian, if he starts letting you pay for stuff, dump the guy and move on asp!

[Flintlocke]

Shyness, lack of social skills, something like that. If a guy only talks and doesn't grab his women at the waist, or below, he ain't worth it.

[Hurrem sultana]

Lol girls paying for dinners.. You only do that when you're in a longterm relationship, not when you are just getting to know someone. Seriously bosnian, if he starts letting you pay for stuff, dump the guy and move on asp!

No i never had a guy that would let me pay

[kabeiros]

feminism at it's best :D

[Loki]

I once had an English girl who insisted on paying ... but being a South African male I refused and paid instead.

[The Lawspeaker]

what do you expect a girl to do?:confused:

Do you want gender equality or not ? Put some effort in it as well. That's what we've got to do all the time. :picard2::cool:

[Incal]

feminism at it's best :D

Parasitism at its best I'd say. That's why it's so fucking difficult to find a decent woman these days, almost all of them are fucking spoiled, they think they deserve everything when they didn't do a goddamn thing to earn it.

[Sultan Suleiman]

Lol girls paying for dinners.. You only do that when you're in a longterm relationship, not when you are just getting to know someone. Seriously bosnian, if he starts letting you pay for stuff, dump the guy and move on asp!

Look if she want's to keep this thing of ours running she needs to start pulling (and paying on) her part. :rolleyes:

[Hurrem sultana]

Look if she want's to keep this thing of ours running she needs to start pulling (and paying on) her part. :rolleyes:

so thats the problem,its the money:D

[dralos]

what will you do if he doesnt change leave him for a nigger in sweden:D

[Flintlocke]

Look if she want's to keep this thing of ours running she needs to start pulling (and paying on) her part. :rolleyes:

Lol cheapass :P