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Aura
11-22-2012, 10:58 PM
I learnt many things that I wish never learn them again also the opposite. I learnt that guys don't know what they want, also we girls dont know what we want. I learnt to be more open to receive love and give love.I learnt how the imperfection to make perfect, I learnt that I never stopped loving,I just stopped showing it :)

your turn.. :)

Sikeliot
11-22-2012, 11:01 PM
I learned not to go for guys who say "I'm not sure if I'm into guys much but I want to give it a try..."

Clawgauth
11-22-2012, 11:04 PM
I Learned that betrayal is for cowards.

Virtuous
11-22-2012, 11:09 PM
I learned that if a girl truly wants to stay with you she would find a way, without exuses, bullshit and lies.

Partizan
11-22-2012, 11:10 PM
I learnt, you should act based on your partner's culture.

EagleAtHeart
11-22-2012, 11:11 PM
I learnt that guys don't know what they want

Actually, guys know what they want: sex.

If a guy tried to tell you otherwise it means he got bored with you and wants to sleep with other women

This generation, we're exposed to so much sexuality from a young age, and also with internet porn - where everyday a new object of sexual desire arises, it's pretty much impossible to expect fidelity

This goes for women too. Although I don't think they are driven by sex as men, but the entire female ego is built around other people's opinions. Women need to feel desired or their self-esteem suffers.

Anywho, that addresses my opinion on the topic. What I learned from past relationships was to not put all your eggs in one basket. I don't think people are programmed anymore for 1 girl + 1 boy for 60 years.

Aura
11-22-2012, 11:13 PM
Actually, guys know what they want: sex.

If a guy tried to tell you otherwise it means he got bored with you and wants to sleep with other women

This generation, we're exposed to so much sexuality from a young age, and also with internet porn - where everyday a new object of sexual desire arises, it's pretty much impossible to expect fidelity

This goes for women too. Although I don't think they are driven by sex as men, but the entire female ego is built around other people's opinions. Women need to feel desired or their self-esteem suffers.

Anywho, that addresses my opinion on the topic. What I learned from past relationships was to not put all your eggs in one basket. I don't think people are programmed anymore for 1 girl + 1 boy for 60 years.

sad but true!

Queen B
11-22-2012, 11:18 PM
I learned how it is to be dearly loved and love with all your heart.
And even if our paths in life are different, we still love each others deeply, not necessarely in a romantic way.

I learned that a ''forced'' break up is more painful than any kind of betrayal.

Veneda
11-22-2012, 11:32 PM
I have learned that I am much stronger than I thought I was.

arcticwolf
11-22-2012, 11:37 PM
Absolutely nothing! :D

Virtuous
11-23-2012, 12:06 AM
Absolutely nothing! :D

That's the spirit :P

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:10 AM
That's the spirit :P

Dude, it's not like there's a deficit of pussy out there! :D One door closes another one opens. I really don't get the whole drama with girl leaving. I help them pack and pay for their ride too!

I'm just not into theatrics and drama much. :laugh:

AkisGreece
11-23-2012, 12:16 AM
Not taking things so seriously?

Btw,i'm not a big fan of long time relationships...at least i'll die happy and fulfilled.

Aura
11-23-2012, 12:16 AM
Dude, it's not like there's a deficit of pussy out there! :D One door closes another one opens. I really don't get the whole drama with girl leaving. I help them pack and pay for their ride too!

I'm just not into theatrics and drama much. :laugh:

try to love once.

Midori
11-23-2012, 12:18 AM
try to love once.

He is a Buddhist, hence no attachments, gnomesayin'? :writing_thinking:

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:18 AM
try to love once.

No, but thanks anyways. :laugh:

Aura
11-23-2012, 12:22 AM
He is a Buddhist, hence no attachments, gnomesayin'? :writing_thinking:

he is weak and coward

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:26 AM
he is weak and coward

Hahahahaha

Why did your ego get bruised by my statements? :D Do not worry there is enough suckers out there that are under the spell, am just not one of them! Rest easy, you'll get one! :laugh:

Veneda
11-23-2012, 12:27 AM
Absolutely nothing! :D

Therefore no one will bring you a beer during the football match :D

Virtuous
11-23-2012, 12:33 AM
Dude, it's not like there's a deficit of pussy out there! :D One door closes another one opens. I really don't get the whole drama with girl leaving. I help them pack and pay for their ride too!

I'm just not into theatrics and drama much. :laugh:


Ugh, sometimes I think it's much better like that...

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:34 AM
Therefore no one will bring you a beer during the football match :D

I'm ok with that! :thumb001: You know what I'm gonna order something to eat. What should I get Italian wrap or Spinach and Artichoke? :D

Aura
11-23-2012, 12:35 AM
Ugh, sometimes I think it's much better like that...

Malta sweetheart, he is looser :P dont listen him

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:36 AM
Ugh, sometimes I think it's much better like that...

You don't have to think even sometimes! :D It's as true as sun coming up in the east! :thumb001: LOL

Virtuous
11-23-2012, 12:37 AM
You don't have to think even sometimes! :D It's as true as sun coming up in the east! :thumb001: LOL

Yeah but, one does not simply contain his swarthy med feylings you know? :D

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:37 AM
Malta sweetheart, he is looser :P dont listen him

Yes I am loose and even looser! :D

Veneda
11-23-2012, 12:38 AM
I'm ok with that! :thumb001: You know what I'm gonna order something to eat. What should I get Italian wrap or Spinach and Artichoke? :D

Raw meet :D

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:39 AM
Yeah but, one does not simply contain his swarthy med feylings you know? :D

Shit bro, feelings will get you in trouble, you have to be what the Poles call zimny dran! Remember there are two options you are either pussy whipped or you are not. :laugh:

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:40 AM
Raw meet :D

I like my my meat warm, tender and moaning! :p

Aura
11-23-2012, 12:42 AM
Shit bro, feelings will get you in trouble, you have to be what the Poles call zimny dran! Remember there are two options you are either pussy whipped or you are not. :laugh:

Ok got it, glad that your heart have been broken.

Veneda
11-23-2012, 12:44 AM
I like my my meat warm, tender and moaning! :p

meow :p

Partizan
11-23-2012, 12:45 AM
Another thing I've learnt, if you know how to canalize your frustration after breaking up, you can be successful at your studies.

Virtuous
11-23-2012, 12:49 AM
Shit bro, feelings will get you in trouble, you have to be what the Poles call zimny dran! Remember there are two options you are either pussy whipped or you are not. :laugh:

indeed brotha, indeed.

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:50 AM
Ok got it, glad that your heart have been broken.

That is really cold honey! How could you be glad someone has gone through hell of a heartbreak? You are vicious and snaky! :D

Here is the deal pumpkin, I never make the same mistake twice! :laugh:

Aura
11-23-2012, 12:55 AM
That is really cold honey! How could you be glad someone has gone through hell of a heartbreak? You are vicious and snaky! :D

Here is the deal pumpkin, I never make the same mistake twice! :laugh:

ahhh that's sweet :D you have to stand up and love again, at least you haven't been that coward :P

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 12:58 AM
ahhh that's sweet :D you have to stand up and love again, at least you haven't been that coward :P

I do love with all my heart! Actually I am madly in love with and can't live without, miss like crazy my beloved .............. dogs! Not good enough for ya? :D

Veneda
11-23-2012, 01:01 AM
I do love with all my heart! Actually I am madly in love with and can't live without, miss like crazy my beloved .............. dogs! Not good enough for ya? :D

Say hi to B & L from me :)

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 01:03 AM
Say hi to B & L from me :)

You've got it! :thumb001:

Aura
11-23-2012, 01:03 AM
I do love with all my heart! Actually I am madly in love with and can't live without, miss like crazy my beloved .............. dogs! Not good enough for ya? :D

You have the right to be mad of her, I totally understand your feelings :D

Veneda
11-23-2012, 01:04 AM
You've got it! :thumb001:

Thanks :)

Graus
11-23-2012, 01:17 AM
Not much, when it comes to relationships, I keep on making the same mistakes over and over again. But then I am not that emotionally invested in those relationships to begin with

Visigodo Español
11-23-2012, 01:29 AM
Actually, guys know what they want: sex.

If a guy tried to tell you otherwise it means he got bored with you and wants to sleep with other women

This generation, we're exposed to so much sexuality from a young age, and also with internet porn - where everyday a new object of sexual desire arises, it's pretty much impossible to expect fidelity

This goes for women too. Although I don't think they are driven by sex as men, but the entire female ego is built around other people's opinions. Women need to feel desired or their self-esteem suffers.

Anywho, that addresses my opinion on the topic. What I learned from past relationships was to not put all your eggs in one basket. I don't think people are programmed anymore for 1 girl + 1 boy for 60 years.

Actually, based upon my own experiences alone, I can tell you that women nowadays are just as bad, if not worse than men in regards to sex drive and promiscuity. It's just that in ancient times, a woman would be publicly humiliated or beaten should she exhibit any acts of infidelty. With feminism backing women, they are free to act as whores whilst the institutions justify their disgusting behavioral tendencies.

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 01:36 AM
You have the right to be mad of her, I totally understand your feelings :D

I have no feelings! That flat bread I ordered is really good btw. What are you doing this Friday night? I'll tell you my whole life's story! :D

Mortimer
11-23-2012, 07:53 AM
i learned if you dont bed them after a week they dont value you

Mraz
11-23-2012, 07:59 AM
Avoid foreign girls who have brothers :O

Osprey
11-23-2012, 08:13 AM
Actually, guys know what they want: sex.

If a guy tried to tell you otherwise it means he got bored with you and wants to sleep with other women

This generation, we're exposed to so much sexuality from a young age, and also with internet porn - where everyday a new object of sexual desire arises, it's pretty much impossible to expect fidelity

This goes for women too. Although I don't think they are driven by sex as men, but the entire female ego is built around other people's opinions. Women need to feel desired or their self-esteem suffers.

Anywho, that addresses my opinion on the topic. What I learned from past relationships was to not put all your eggs in one basket. I don't think people are programmed anymore for 1 girl + 1 boy for 60 years.

It was easily done before and it can be easily done again, if people adapt, care and have the discipline.

Mary
11-23-2012, 08:13 AM
Patriarchy.

Osprey
11-23-2012, 08:16 AM
Actually, based upon my own experiences alone, I can tell you that women nowadays are just as bad, if not worse than men in regards to sex drive and promiscuity. It's just that in ancient times, a woman would be publicly humiliated or beaten should she exhibit any acts of infidelty. With feminism backing women, they are free to act as whores whilst the institutions justify their disgusting behavioral tendencies.

Atleast it seperates the truly good from pretending whores, even if it costs the nation, genetically and spiritually

Aura
11-23-2012, 11:58 AM
Patriarchy.

I guess thats because you wanted that!


I have no feelings! That flat bread I ordered is really good btw. What are you doing this Friday night? I'll tell you my whole life's story! ok, I hope it doesn't have to do with your dogs :D

Arthas
11-23-2012, 01:09 PM
I haven't had a relationship yet. Forever alone! :(

dralos
11-23-2012, 01:21 PM
I haven't had a relationship yet. Forever alone! :(
bro you're young dont worry,you will get hot babe:thumb001:

Arthas
11-23-2012, 05:39 PM
bro you're young dont worry,you will get hot babe:thumb001:

I don't have hope but you never know what the future holds...

Γέλως
11-23-2012, 05:42 PM
I learned that gurls don't have penises...

Osprey
11-23-2012, 05:47 PM
I learned that gurls don't have penises...

Next time, try Pallantides. He'll have one.

Aura
11-23-2012, 09:59 PM
Tonight I saw him with a girl, and I just couldn't....:(

Hurrem sultana
11-23-2012, 10:00 PM
I learned,if a guy really wants to ,he will make it..anything.I also learned not to do things i feel not comfortable with and to listen to my inner voice!

Peyrol
11-23-2012, 10:03 PM
I learnt many things that I wish never learn them again also the opposite. I learnt that guys don't know what they want, also we girls dont know what we want. I learnt to be more open to receive love and give love.I learnt how the imperfection to make perfect, I learnt that I never stopped loving,I just stopped showing it :)

your turn.. :)

I learnt: ''Never leave the Katana unsupervised''. :(


...seriously, about people or human relations absolutely nothing, but i learnt a lot of interesting stuffs about french side of Occitania (Provença, Delfinàt, etc).

Anatolian Eagle
11-23-2012, 10:04 PM
Absolutely nothing! :D

Same here xD

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 10:13 PM
I guess thats because you wanted that!

ok, I hope it doesn't have to do with your dogs :D

No it does not! LOL

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 10:19 PM
bro you're young dont worry,you will get hot babe:thumb001:

Don't lie to him! Don't give him false hope! Just give it to him like it is! He'll meet someone, in a year she will cheat on him, get pregnant with another guy, but tel him it's his. He'll get married, she will sleep around with everybody, he'll support her and the children she'll have with other guys. In the end she will throw him out of the house and divorce him. She will get the house, the cars, the bank accounts, alimony, child support, and 75% of his pension. He'll end up living under a bridge, working 4 jobs and cursing life every hour of the day!

That's reality! :laugh:

Baldur
11-23-2012, 10:20 PM
To never trust a girl again.

dralos
11-23-2012, 10:21 PM
Don't lie to him! Don't give him false hope! Just give it to him like it is! He'll meet someone, in a year she will cheat on him, get pregnant with another guy, but tel him it's his. He'll get married, she will sleep around with everybody, he'll support her and the children she'll have with other guys. In the end she will throw him out of the house and divorce him. She will get the house, the cars, the bank accounts, alimony, child support, and 75% of his pension. He'll end up living under a bridge, working 4 jobs and cursing life every hour of the day!

That's reality! :laugh:
quit that cheap polish vodka,its outdated:D

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 10:39 PM
quit that cheap polish vodka,its outdated:D

You think this is fantasy? Sucker! :D

Aura
11-23-2012, 11:25 PM
Sometimes the most important life lessons are the ones we end up learning the hard way.

Aura
11-23-2012, 11:29 PM
When guys lie, they say they love you. When girls lie, they say they don’t.

Partiasn
11-23-2012, 11:29 PM
Actually, based upon my own experiences alone, I can tell you that women nowadays are just as bad, if not worse than men in regards to sex drive and promiscuity. It's just that in ancient times, a woman would be publicly humiliated or beaten should she exhibit any acts of infidelty. With feminism backing women, they are free to act as whores whilst the institutions justify their disgusting behavioral tendencies.

I would say that women are more or less serial monogamist. That means the are loyal only as long as there is not a better deal out there. When there is say bye bye to her, because she is on to greener pastures.

But rest assured YOU will get the blame for the unfaithfulness because as we know from her prospective she stuck, with you as long as she could.

This is pretty much why “relationships” with the vast majority of women in western society is a waste of time and money on the mans part.

Aura
11-23-2012, 11:30 PM
One of the most amazing feelings in the world is having someone fall in love with you who you thought you never had a chance with.

Partiasn
11-23-2012, 11:32 PM
When guys lie, they say they love you. When girls lie, they say they don’t.

Love is more a Girl Thing.

Compassion is more a Guy thing.

Guys really don't "Love" like that.

Aura
11-23-2012, 11:37 PM
Love is more a Girl Thing.

Compassion is more a Guy thing.

Guys really don't "Love" like that.

Not really, I know guys who were blindly and crazy in love...

Osprey
11-23-2012, 11:41 PM
is this a 'Oh my hurt feelings, Aura' thread or a thread with any relevant topic and discussion....

arcticwolf
11-23-2012, 11:43 PM
is this a 'Oh my hurt feelings, Aura' thread or a thread with any relevant topic and discussion....

Dude you really need to get in touch with your feminine side! :laugh:

Osprey
11-23-2012, 11:43 PM
When guys lie, they say they love you. When girls lie, they say they don’t.

So you love me?
Should i go crazy with excitement :D

Leon_C
11-23-2012, 11:44 PM
My dating life is a Catch 22, only a crazy person would be attracted to me, and only a crazy person would date a crazy person and I am not a crazy person.

Aura
11-24-2012, 12:02 AM
So you love me?
Should i go crazy with excitement :D

yes I love you

answer the thread now :)

Alenka
11-24-2012, 12:08 AM
I learned that love is just a feeling. As such, it's just a cherry on top to all the hard work that a lasting relationship takes.

arcticwolf
11-24-2012, 12:11 AM
My dating life is a Catch 22, only a crazy person would be attracted to me, and only a crazy person would date a crazy person and I am not a crazy person.

It sounds really complicated dude! Can you say that one more time, now in English please? :D

Partiasn
11-24-2012, 04:18 AM
Not really, I know guys who were blindly and crazy in love...

I think what I'm trying to say is women seem to fixate love on closer circles to themselves than men.

Men have things like love of country, love of brothers, love for culture, which has a broader range, than love of one person.

I think men do love single individuals but it does seem to have an element of compassion to it. Even in the realm of romantic love.

Or maybe this is just my personal take on it.

Hurrem sultana
11-24-2012, 09:54 AM
One of the most amazing feelings in the world is having someone fall in love with you who you thought you never had a chance with.

tell us more about your experience :D

Mans not hot
11-24-2012, 10:10 AM
I learned that if you act like a door mat, you will be treated like a door mat. I also learned that I do not like being a door mat.

Aura
11-24-2012, 07:14 PM
tell us more about your experience :D

I can't :(

dralos
11-24-2012, 07:15 PM
aura how many trannies did you hit these year:D

Aura
11-24-2012, 07:39 PM
aura how many trannies did you hit these year:D

Aman sa psycho qe je:S, I wish he was tranni actually.
anyway answer the topic and tell us for your miserable romance life :)

Hurrem sultana
11-24-2012, 07:40 PM
Never fight for a guy,ignore him and he will most probably come back:D

dralos
11-24-2012, 07:43 PM
Never fight for a guy,ignore him and he will most probably come back:D
your nigger will move to the next blonde girl he meets:)

dralos
11-24-2012, 07:43 PM
Aman sa psycho qe je:S, I wish he was tranni actually.
anyway answer the topic and tell us for your miserable romance life :)
nothing is miserable in my life,everything is going good for now,thats why i fight miserable people like you tranny lover:D

Hurrem sultana
11-24-2012, 07:44 PM
your nigger will move to the next blonde girl he meets:)

Now seriously stop trolling every thread

Aura
11-24-2012, 07:45 PM
Never fight for a guy,ignore him and he will most probably come back:D

sometime this misfire :S

Germanicus
11-24-2012, 07:46 PM
"What did i learn from my last relationship"

2 things really:

1/ Never have a joint bank account with a woman.

2/ The only woman you can trust and who will NEVER let you down is your mother, all the rest will try to bury you when it all turns to shit.

Hurrem sultana
11-24-2012, 07:46 PM
sometime this misfire :S

I am talking about a situation when he leaves or starts playing "hard to get".At least in my case every time i moved on they came back

AkisGreece
11-24-2012, 07:48 PM
"What did i learn from my last relationship"

2 things really:

1/ Never have a joint bank account with a woman.

2/ The only woman you can trust and who will NEVER let you down is your mother, all the rest will try to bury you when it all turns to shit.

I don't know your age,but it was a mistake to marry in the first place.
I wish you make a new and fresh start...

Good luck.

dralos
11-24-2012, 07:48 PM
bosnian are you boosting your ego,you know this aint the thread for that:D

Hurrem sultana
11-24-2012, 07:49 PM
bosnian are you boosting your ego,you know this aint the thread for that:D

I have a new name:D

dralos
11-24-2012, 07:50 PM
I am talking about a situation when he leaves or starts playing "hard to get".At least in my case every time i moved on they came back
you know that they mayby come back bcs hotter women reject them so they have to seddle with less:D

Germanicus
11-24-2012, 07:52 PM
you know that they mayby come back bcs hotter women reject them so they have to seddle with less:D



Jesus H Christ.... i taught you better English than this Dralos my swarthy son?

dralos
11-24-2012, 07:53 PM
Jesus H Christ.... i taught you better English than this Dralos my swarthy son?
father you didnt teach me anything since you ran away with some slavic skank:D

Aura
11-24-2012, 07:55 PM
I have a new name:D

bosnian that's you?! you dont like bosnian or what? :p so share with us what have you learnt :)

Hurrem sultana
11-24-2012, 07:56 PM
bosnian that's you?! you dont like bosnian or what? :p so share with us what have you learnt :)

I wanted some change :P you didnt recognize me? :D

Be good towards guys but never too good,you have to have your own opinion and be ready to fight with him over it ...:D

Virtuous
11-24-2012, 07:58 PM
I learned that if you act like a door mat, you will be treated like a door mat. I also learned that I do not like being a door mat.

http://talkrational.org/images/smilies/star_trek_clap_clap_gif.gif

dralos
11-24-2012, 08:00 PM
I wanted some change :P you didnt recognize me? :D

Be good towards guys but never too good,you have to have your own opinion and be ready to fight with him over it ...:D
fight as much as you want but be ready to stay alone till the end:D

Behemot
11-24-2012, 08:00 PM
I learned a lot about engines ,solar panels and wind electric generators

Lux Aeterna
11-26-2012, 03:47 PM
When guys lie, they say they love you. When girls lie, they say they don’t.

Second that. Sad but true.


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A guy will tell you whatever he thinks you want to hear, but is rarely skilled enough to make it believable in the long run. Better take everything said with a pinch of salt...

Sultan Suleiman
11-26-2012, 04:43 PM
I learned that one generic blonde wanna be princes is easily replaced with another :thumb001:

Lithium
11-26-2012, 05:08 PM
I learned that love is not for dreamers, circumstances really matter.

Aura
11-26-2012, 06:17 PM
I learnt that love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one!

Ozzy
11-26-2012, 06:32 PM
Absolutely nothing.