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Tooting Carmen
10-25-2013, 01:41 AM
Would you feel threatened or upset by it, indifferent, or would you find the idea erotic?

armenianbodyhair
10-25-2013, 01:42 AM
I wouldn't care as long as they were not cheating on me.

Proctor
10-25-2013, 01:49 AM
My cousin is dating a bisexual, he seems fine with it.

arcticwolf
10-25-2013, 01:50 AM
Hahahaha If my g/f turned out to be bi?

Isn't that a dream of every man?

I don't get it, how is that a negative in any shape or form?

Am I in a fucking alternate Universe right now, WTF? :laugh:

Lux Aeterna
10-25-2013, 02:16 AM
I wouldn't mind at all. And I'd be okey with him sleeping with other men, since I can't offer dick myself, not a real one anyway ;)

Neanderthal
10-25-2013, 02:18 AM
Disgusted.

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 02:21 AM
I wouldn't mind at all. And I'd be okey with him sleeping with other men, since I can't offer dick myself, not a real one anyway ;)
ditto

Colonel Frank Grimes
10-25-2013, 02:24 AM
A bisexual girlfriend is ideal. She might suggest what all men dream of.... a threesome between you, her, and another hot chick.

McCauley
10-25-2013, 02:27 AM
No, I would invite another attractive bisexual girl over for dinner.

arcticwolf
10-25-2013, 02:28 AM
A bisexual girlfriend is ideal. She might suggest what all men dream of.... a threesome between you, her, and another hot chick.

Someone gets it!

I was beginning to lose my faith in common sense! :laugh:

McCauley
10-25-2013, 02:29 AM
I wouldn't mind at all. And I'd be okey with him sleeping with other men, since I can't offer dick myself, not a real one anyway ;)

That's just weird as hell. It's not a two-way street in my opinion, bi girls are ok but bi guys are the same as gay dudes.

Hadouken
10-25-2013, 02:39 AM
i wouldnt mind at all ;)

there is a big reason why that is pretty obvious :biggrin:

Oneeye
10-25-2013, 02:40 AM
Hahahaha If my g/f turned out to be bi?

Isn't that a dream of every man?

I don't get it, how is that a negative in any shape or form?

Am I in a fucking alternate Universe right now, WTF? :laugh:

THIS, LOL.

Jägerstaffel
10-25-2013, 02:48 AM
That's just weird as hell. It's not a two-way street in my opinion, bi girls are ok but bi guys are the same as gay dudes.

That doesn't make sense. They aren't "the same" if they like women as well.

inactive_member
10-25-2013, 02:49 AM
Would you feel threatened or upset by it, indifferent, or would you find the idea erotic?

If your partner turns out to be a bisexual then she or he will miss out on sex with a person of the same gender. That's what I read or heard somewhere. Unless one is prepared to live with a thought his or her partner is seeking or thinking about the same sex relationship , then it'd be okay. There's a possiblity for a threesome sex but that'd would be a wicked relationship. ;)

I don't know how I will feel. I wouldn't be indifferent though.

Pjeter Pan
10-25-2013, 02:49 AM
Would ask to watch her with another girl.

Elsa
10-25-2013, 03:14 AM
But you wouldn't mind let your man enjoy your female friends, would you? :P

I mean doesn't love mean to do everything to make the loved one happy and enjoy his happiness more than your own? :laugh:

I wouldn't mind. :shrug:

Pjeter Pan
10-25-2013, 03:14 AM
How do you know? Some like it in the ass.
She's speaking from experience

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 03:15 AM
How do you know?

I've seen things.


Some like it in the ass.

yeah, some gay guys do... but not bi guys.

Han Cholo
10-25-2013, 03:16 AM
Nope, I would not like it. A threesome does not necessarily have to be "bisexual". I tolerate homosexual (lesbian and gay people) because I can understand they might not be attracted to the opposite sex due to different factors (congenital, envinoremental, pathological, be it whatever) and that everyone need relationship or sex but I think being bisexual is just unjustified and overly perverted. Being bisexual is literally fucking everything that moves, the stretch between bisexuals and more serious sodomites like zoophiliacs or pedophiliacs is blurred.

arcticwolf
10-25-2013, 03:17 AM
I wouldn't mind. :shrug:

You sound like a perfect girl! Does Loki know how lucky he is? :laugh:

Pjeter Pan
10-25-2013, 03:18 AM
yeah, some gay guys do... but not bi guys. that makes no sense, we need arberori.

Loki
10-25-2013, 03:19 AM
You sound like a perfect girl! Does Loki know how lucky he is? :laugh:

I do, yes :)

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 03:20 AM
that makes no sense, we need arberori.
whatever, I go to gay clubs one a monthly basis. I'm just telling you what I noticed.

Carlito's Way
10-25-2013, 03:21 AM
not sure, i think i wouldnt like it if she ended up cheating on me with a girl or better yet leaving me for one :laugh: that would only mean the dildo did a better job than I did in bed haha fuck it, straight women are better

Mazik
10-25-2013, 03:22 AM
yeah, some gay guys do... but not bi guys.

nah, it's not that uncommon that bi guys both give and take! :)
Speaking of open bi guys I know.. one even had a relationship with a guy.

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 03:24 AM
nah, it's not that uncommon that bi guys both give and take! :)
Speaking of open bi guys I know.. one even had a relationship with a guy.
there's a difference between bi guys and ''bi'' guys.

Loki
10-25-2013, 03:34 AM
there's a difference between bi guys and ''bi'' guys.

http://memecrunch.com/meme/2OG8/therefore-aliens/image.png

Jägerstaffel
10-25-2013, 04:19 AM
there's a difference between bi guys and ''bi'' guys.

What does this mean?

It certainly isn't any stretch of the imagination to think that a bisexual guy would like anal sex as well as oral sex with a male. Is it less gay to just get a blowjob? Excuse me if I'm misinterpreting what you're saying.

Incal
10-25-2013, 04:26 AM
It would be the happiest day of my life.

American_Hispanist
10-25-2013, 04:44 AM
having a hot bisexual gf is the dream of every hetero male!!!!

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 08:21 AM
What does this mean?

It certainly isn't any stretch of the imagination to think that a bisexual guy would like anal sex as well as oral sex with a male. Is it less gay to just get a blowjob? Excuse me if I'm misinterpreting what you're saying.
ok, here goes nothing.
when gay guys are coming out of the closed they usually say they're bisexual. but a few months/years later, lo and behold they're full blown homosexuals. you can tell who these ''bisexuals'' are because for them, unlike actual bisexual men, it's not 'exit only'.

amerinese
10-25-2013, 08:30 AM
ok, here goes nothing.
when gay guys are coming out of the closed they usually say they're bisexual. but a few months/years later, lo and behold they're full blown homosexuals. you can tell who these ''bisexuals'' are because for them, unlike actual bisexual men, it's not 'exit only'.

So what about straight guys who get nailed by women with a strap-on? I think we had a thread about that on ABF one time, discussing whether or not they were gay. Some thought no, others thought they were just homos in denial.

Queen B
10-25-2013, 08:38 AM
I would mind.
• First of all, because I find the though of my ''man'' having intimate relationship with other men, disgusting
• I would ''accept'' losing my bf for a better woman than me, but losing it over a dick? No!

Smaug
10-25-2013, 08:40 AM
I'd ask her to call a hot friend and make a threesome.

McCauley
10-25-2013, 08:40 AM
So what about straight guys who get nailed by women with a strap-on? I think we had a thread about that on ABF one time, discussing whether or not they were gay. Some thought no, others thought they were just homos in denial.

No they're definitely gay.

amerinese
10-25-2013, 08:43 AM
No they're definitely gay.

Yeah, you would think, right? Like acting out a repressed sexual fantasy of being with a man.

Queen B
10-25-2013, 08:44 AM
So what about straight guys who get nailed by women with a strap-on? I think we had a thread about that on ABF one time, discussing whether or not they were gay. Some thought no, others thought they were just homos in denial.
Straight = nailed with strap-on -> He is not straight

Thor2009
10-25-2013, 08:52 AM
My GF is bisexual, but only interested in romantic relationships with guys.
Though she did have one girlfriend before, and goddamn was she hot.

I'm not bothered by it at all, and to be honest, I think it is pretty cool.
The possibilities are endless.

Mans not hot
10-25-2013, 09:02 AM
If my future girlfriend is bisexual, that's fine by me. I like threesome. ;)

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 09:19 AM
So what about straight guys who get nailed by women with a strap-on? I think we had a thread about that on ABF one time, discussing whether or not they were gay. Some thought no, others thought they were just homos in denial.
maybe they just like having their prostate stimulated? IDK.

amerinese
10-25-2013, 09:21 AM
maybe they just like having their prostate stimulated? IDK.

This was proposed by some, but it was rebutted... this could be done by a woman with her finger... not a strap-on dong.

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 09:22 AM
This was proposed by some, but it was rebutted... this could be done by a woman with her finger... not a strap-on dong.
not necessarily, size does matter ;)

Loki
10-25-2013, 11:13 AM
not necessarily, size does matter ;)

We'll take your word for it :p

Loki
10-25-2013, 11:24 AM
So what about straight guys who get nailed by women with a strap-on? I think we had a thread about that on ABF one time, discussing whether or not they were gay. Some thought no, others thought they were just homos in denial.

Taking it up the ass = gay.

Mortimer
10-25-2013, 11:28 AM
i wouldnt care. just if she leaves me for a girl would be as bad as if she leaves me for a guy.

amerinese
10-25-2013, 11:30 AM
i wouldnt care. just if she leaves me for a girl would be as bad as if she leaves me for a guy.

Well you can look at it two different ways. Either like that, or like you "turned her gay"...

Herr Abubu
10-25-2013, 11:43 AM
What does that mean - is it normal for Eastern European men to be bisexual?

yes

Dombra
10-25-2013, 11:48 AM
:naughty: She might bring friends

Herr Abubu
10-25-2013, 11:53 AM
I'm fine with it. But, if we were in a romantic relationship, she'd be heterosexual in practice.

larali
10-25-2013, 12:30 PM
I guess it wouldn't matter as long as I never found him in a toilet stall with some man at work....his fantasies are none of my business, as mine are none of his ;)

Aunt Hilda
10-25-2013, 12:36 PM
We'll take your word for it :p
what do you mean you take my word for it?! it's a well known fact. FACT!

Lux Aeterna
10-25-2013, 12:44 PM
what do you mean you take my word for it?! it's a well known fact. FACT!

Fact, anything below 15 x 13 cm and I'll kick him out of the bed :rolleyes: :laugh:

Mortimer
10-25-2013, 12:45 PM
Fact, anything below 15 x 13 cm and I'll kick him out of the bed :rolleyes: :laugh:

really? they you wont enjoy my micropenis

Loki
10-25-2013, 12:50 PM
really? they you wont enjoy my micropenis

She would. She's just trying to talk tough here.

cally
10-25-2013, 12:52 PM
I'd begin to feel I've lost him or i'm not good enough if he's thinking of doing other men.

Moonbird
10-25-2013, 12:59 PM
I would never accept a boyfriend who's bisexual. I'm almost allergic to feminine men. The thought that he would have kissed other men is too repulsive to even imagine.

Han Cholo
10-25-2013, 02:32 PM
Fact, anything below 15 x 13 cm and I'll kick him out of the bed :rolleyes: :laugh:

Not if he pulls it all inside quickly.

Lucifer
10-25-2013, 02:49 PM
i'd chain her to a tree untill she changes her mind :(

Black Wolf
10-25-2013, 02:50 PM
I would not mind having a bi gf at all! Threesomes with another babe MMMMMM!

Tooting Carmen
10-25-2013, 03:00 PM
I notice a double standard here: the men seem to be excited at the prospect of their girlfriends being with other women, but the women seem to be put off by the prospect of their boyfriends being with other men.

Black Wolf
10-25-2013, 04:59 PM
I notice a double standard here: the men seem to be excited at the prospect of their girlfriends being with other women, but the women seem to be put off by the prospect of their boyfriends being with other men.

Because that would be gay as fuck yoooooooooooo!

Black Wolf
10-25-2013, 05:02 PM
Fact, anything below 15 x 13 cm and I'll kick him out of the bed :rolleyes: :laugh:

Well I am happy to see that I easily pass your standards lol! ;)

Jägerstaffel
10-26-2013, 02:50 PM
Taking it up the ass = gay.

I don't understand this. So using one part of your body to do something sexual with the same gender is more "gay" than another part of your body?

I don't understand why people tend to think bisexuals are lying about their sexuality.

alfieb
10-26-2013, 02:51 PM
If I were in a serious relationship with a girl I intended to marry, her 'coming out' as bisexual would be a bad thing.

If I were fooling around with a girl in something I didn't intend to be long term, it would be a great thing.

Tooting Carmen
10-26-2013, 02:53 PM
Also, are there any men or women here who would get it on with someone of the same sex in order to turn on their partners?

alfieb
10-26-2013, 02:55 PM
Also, are there any men or women here who would get it on with someone of the same sex in order to turn on their partners?

Absolutely not.

Not only would I not "get it on" with a dude, but I wouldn't partake in a M-M-F ("bad") three-way.

amerinese
10-26-2013, 03:06 PM
^^

http://blog.lib.umn.edu/deg/campfire/images/ThatsSexist.gif

amerinese
10-26-2013, 03:09 PM
Also, are there any men or women here who would get it on with someone of the same sex in order to turn on their partners?

Not me.

Would you get it on with a woman, in order to turn on a man who you were attracted to?

alfieb
10-26-2013, 03:10 PM
^^

http://blog.lib.umn.edu/deg/campfire/images/ThatsSexist.gif

Why would any sane guy want to see another guy inside of his girl? If that's sexism, then sexism for life.

Tooting Carmen
10-26-2013, 03:10 PM
Not me.

Would you get it on with a woman, in order to turn on a man who you were attracted to?

I'm bi anyway, so it wouldn't be an issue.:D

amerinese
10-26-2013, 03:14 PM
Why would any sane guy want to see another guy inside of his girl? If that's sexism, then sexism for life.

I have no idea. That's just degrading shit that you see in gangbang porn, meant to objectify and demean women.

Now there was one time that me, my friend, his girlfriend, and her female friend, all had activities in the same room, but it was strictly 1-on-1 M-on-F activities, and we weren't in the same bed or anything... they were in the floor, we took the bed. Even that is weird in retrospect, but we were young, horny, and didn't have an extra room.

amerinese
10-26-2013, 03:14 PM
I'm bi anyway, so it wouldn't be an issue.:D

How about a sheep, to turn on your human partner?

Tooting Carmen
10-26-2013, 03:15 PM
Classic clip: http://www.metacafe.com/watch/1291047/american_pie_2_lesbian_little_gay_scene/

Tooting Carmen
10-26-2013, 03:16 PM
How about a sheep, to turn on your human partner?

Bestiality is wrong - the animal has no say.

alfieb
10-26-2013, 03:17 PM
I have no idea. That's just degrading shit that you see in gangbang porn, meant to objectify and demean women.

Now there was one time that me, my friend, his girlfriend, and her female friend, all had activities in the same room, but it was strictly 1-on-1 M-on-F activities, and we weren't in the same bed or anything... they were in the floor, we took the bed. Even that is weird in retrospect, but we were young, horny, and didn't have an extra room.

Sexism aside, I wouldn't mind watching my girl violate another girl with an inanimate object, but the idea of having a girlfriend or a wife is that your brand of sausage is the only one she eats.

amerinese
10-26-2013, 03:17 PM
Bestiality is wrong - the animal has no say.

How about a 90-year-old man in a wheelchair, who isn't suffering from dementia and thus can provide consent, to turn on your age-appropriate human partner?

Tooting Carmen
10-26-2013, 03:19 PM
How about a 90-year-old man in a wheelchair, who isn't suffering from dementia and thus can provide consent, to turn on your age-appropriate human partner?

Too nauseating.

mr. logan
10-26-2013, 03:19 PM
I would try some experimental stuff and then bye bye.

amerinese
10-26-2013, 03:20 PM
Too nauseating.

Yep, I agree. Now we can share empathy on the subject.

Oneeye
10-26-2013, 04:12 PM
I have no idea. That's just degrading shit that you see in gangbang porn, meant to objectify and demean women.

Now there was one time that me, my friend, his girlfriend, and her female friend, all had activities in the same room, but it was strictly 1-on-1 M-on-F activities, and we weren't in the same bed or anything... they were in the floor, we took the bed. Even that is weird in retrospect, but we were young, horny, and didn't have an extra room.

The only groups I've been in were F-M-F. Even having another guy in the same room gives me insta-flaccid.

It's pretty awesome when women are turned on by the thought that you were turned on watching them do stuff with their female friends. I don't think that counts as gay. However, a guy doing anything with another guy is more likely doing it for himself than his old lady, imo. I've never heard a woman irl even hint that she would enjoy that.

Oneeye
10-26-2013, 04:16 PM
Fact, anything below 15 x 13 cm and I'll kick him out of the bed :rolleyes: :laugh:

Honestly I expected minimum requirements closer to this from you:

http://static.fjcdn.com/pictures/Must_7e30fe_170205.jpg

amerinese
10-26-2013, 04:17 PM
The only groups I've been in were F-M-F. Even having another guy in the same room gives me insta-flaccid.

It's pretty awesome when women are turned on by the thought that you were turned on watching them do stuff with their female friends. I don't think that counts as gay. However, a guy doing anything with another guy is more likely doing it for himself than his old lady, imo. I've never heard a woman irl even hint that she would enjoy that.

At one point, my friend and his GF who were on the floor, started laughing at me and this girl, because we were pounding away and shaking the bed, making too much noise. It was something of a mood killer, lol.

Oneeye
10-26-2013, 04:18 PM
At one point, my friend and his GF who were on the floor, started laughing at me and this girl, because we were pounding away and shaking the bed, making too much noise. It was something of a mood killer, lol.

Sounds they were just jelly over your stamina, broski.

Lena
10-26-2013, 04:27 PM
I would mind.
• First of all, because I find the though of my ''man'' having intimate relationship with other men, disgusting
• I would ''accept'' losing my bf for a better woman than me, but losing it over a dick? No!

I agree with you completely, my friend. Not only that I'd mind it, but my self defense mechanism would kill all feelings for him instantly.

Odin
02-01-2018, 06:32 PM
I won't care.

Mingle
02-01-2018, 06:34 PM
I wouldn't think much of it. I would expect us to be exactly the same as we were before she told me she was bi.

Tom Cat
02-18-2018, 02:33 PM
Hell, make a sandwich out of me, ladies. ;)

Bobby Martnen
02-20-2018, 07:49 AM
As long as she was willing to marry me and have my CHI1LDREN, I wouldn't care.

Tooting Carmen
10-18-2018, 09:36 PM
bump

Papastratosels26
10-22-2018, 06:27 PM
I would scared

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The Lawspeaker
10-22-2018, 06:39 PM
As long as she doesn't cheat on me, I'd find peculiar but I'd be fine with it.

Tráthnóna saggezza
10-28-2018, 09:51 PM
I would not like it, it's not very manly in my eyes.

Sacrificed Ram
10-28-2018, 09:55 PM
I will become very happy with futures ménage à trois.

Zuh
10-28-2018, 09:57 PM
Ironic double moral standards

Hetero guys : having a bisexual girlfriend hot!!!
Hetero females : having a bisexual a boyfriend disgusting!!

Ayetooey
10-28-2018, 10:00 PM
I dated a bi girl before and it was awful, never again.

Ruggery
11-04-2018, 03:50 AM
Do not continue with this because the chances of your girlfriend being unfaithful or even abandoning you for another person can multiply twice (even if she denies it), imagine that you will always be thinking that she will be unfaithful, not just with an attractive guy, but also with any attractive woman that appears.

This problem not only has heterosexuals with bisexual women but also lesbians when they date bisexual women.

Tooting Carmen
01-12-2019, 03:21 AM
bump

Regnera
02-02-2019, 01:32 AM
I won't mind

Ruggery
02-02-2019, 02:02 AM
I won't mind

You are liberal?

Zuh
02-02-2019, 03:02 AM
I wonder what open mind means? I have a supposedly straight friend with girlfriend who told me once he was open minded once i told him my sexuality.

Dna8
02-02-2019, 03:03 AM
I would be devastated, frankly. Not because my gf turned out to be gay/bi, but because she cheated on me.

Útrám
02-02-2019, 03:31 AM
Bi-sexual women like attention from men more than affection from women.

Ruggery
02-02-2019, 03:36 AM
Bi-sexual women like attention from men more than affection from women.

Are you sure about that?

Borealis
02-02-2019, 03:38 AM
I would not be happy with it no.

Útrám
02-02-2019, 03:38 AM
College lesbians agree with me.

Borealis
02-02-2019, 03:39 AM
Im not convinced female bisexuals exist anyway.

Regnera
02-02-2019, 06:34 AM
You are liberal?

Mainly liberal,but not like some lefties,I be myself and respect others' views.

Iloko
02-04-2019, 08:56 AM
'tis alright with me, I actually find it kinda kinky if I do say so myself

dosas
02-04-2019, 08:58 AM
Bisexual men=100% homosexuals with one foot out of the closet.

Tooting Carmen
02-04-2019, 12:49 PM
Bisexual men=100% homosexuals with one foot out of the closet.

Bullshit.

Catarinense1998
02-04-2019, 12:53 PM
Honestly, I do not know how I'd react. It's must very odd.

Zeus
05-27-2019, 09:17 AM
I would not care in the slightest. I already think my girlfriend is bicurious anyway, I couldn't care less tbh lol - in fact, it would be kind of cool to talk about girls that we both like, even though we already kind of do that.

Armenian Bishop
05-27-2019, 09:23 AM
I'd be fine with a Bisexual Girlfriend, in a longterm relationship. :coffee:

PaleoEuropean
05-27-2019, 10:04 AM
Would you feel threatened or upset by it, indifferent, or would you find the idea erotic?

Intolerable I am old school in a lot of ways and that's one.

farke1
05-27-2019, 10:09 AM
I wouldn't mind, as long as it didn't affect the dynamic of our relationship. If she had polyamorous desires, regardless of who it's with, that'd be a deal-breaker.

Oghuz
05-27-2019, 10:19 AM
if your woman turns out to be bisexual then things can get very interesting.

Bigsaul
05-27-2019, 10:22 AM
Bi girls are freaks in bed. They often have a man's sex drive in a woman's body which is super hot

Mortimer
05-27-2019, 10:25 AM
I could date a bisexual woman if she has the orientation but doesn't act on it

TheOldNorth
05-27-2019, 10:20 PM
The girl I'm currently interested in is openly bi, I think that might be the ultimate demise of my chances though

Csanád
05-27-2019, 10:22 PM
The girl I'm currently interested in is openly bi, I think that might be the ultimate demise of my chances though

You're interested in the wrong woman then.

TheOldNorth
05-27-2019, 10:22 PM
Bi girls are freaks in bed. They often have a man's sex drive in a woman's body which is super hot

I might've not slept with her, but the bi girl I know is very sexual even in open conversation like a man would be, so I think you're probably right

TheOldNorth
05-27-2019, 10:23 PM
You're interested in the wrong woman then.

"how can I change things that I feel?" fleetwood mac

Longbowman
05-31-2019, 11:12 PM
not ideal.

itilvolga
05-31-2019, 11:25 PM
I would fall out of love with him probably, idk i don’t wanna talk cocksurely that much tbh.

TheOldNorth
05-31-2019, 11:30 PM
as long as she didn't cheat on me, sometimes I think it might be a little fun, because she might understand some of my likes and desires better

TheOldNorth
05-31-2019, 11:31 PM
as long as she didn't cheat on me, sometimes I think it might be a little fun, because she might understand some of my likes and desires better

oops I double responded to this, sometimes I forget which threads I respond to

Catarinense1998
05-31-2019, 11:32 PM
I don't know how would I react. Since she doesn't betray me, I'm ok with it.

Tooting Carmen
03-22-2021, 12:51 AM
bump

Celestia
03-22-2021, 12:52 AM
I would lose my attraction toward him tbh

Tooting Carmen
03-24-2021, 01:20 AM
I would lose my attraction toward him tbh

How come?

Longbowman
03-24-2021, 01:25 AM
How come?

A female friend and I were discussing this today: most women look for a dominant, masculine partner, and having sex with men is not considered masculine, especially if you are the receptive partner. I imagine it would be deeply unarousing for most women to see or picture their man play an overtly submissive sexual role.

Celestia
03-24-2021, 01:28 AM
How come?

exactly what LBM said

Longbowman
03-24-2021, 01:29 AM
Just as how [most] men want an innocent, feminine woman, and hearing their wife or girlfriend had been a dominatrix or camgirl would shatter that picture.

Tooting Carmen
03-24-2021, 01:29 AM
A female friend and I were discussing this today: most women look for a dominant, masculine partner, and having sex with men is not considered masculine, especially if you are the receptive partner. I imagine it would be deeply unarousing for most women to see or picture their man play an overtly submissive sexual role.

What if he was the active one though?

Tooting Carmen
03-24-2021, 01:33 AM
Just as how [most] men want an innocent, feminine woman, and hearing their wife or girlfriend had been a dominatrix or camgirl would shatter that picture.

Ever heard of S&M?

Longbowman
03-24-2021, 01:33 AM
What if he was the active one though?

Probably slightly better, but it's still not considered especially masculine. Most people also feel a bit uncomfortable with the idea their partner could be attracted to someone of the other gender (biphobia, if you will). Doesn't fit in to the perfect, cookie-cutter conservative family image. That might seem saccharine to you, but it's what people idealise.

Parça do Neymar
03-24-2021, 01:34 AM
Honesty is the foundation for trust in any relationship, I'd rather learn about this beforehand, if she suddenly tells me she's bisexual I'd be upset, yes. And, honestly, I would start to believe there's something wrong with our sexual life.

Longbowman
03-24-2021, 01:34 AM
Ever heard of S&M?

Most men are not into S&M, those that are usually don't want to be passive, those that do usually don't want their wife or girlfriend to do that to other people.

Of course, there are always men who think whores are hot and want to have their balls smacked with a paddle. They are, however, the minority.

Ruggery
03-24-2021, 03:32 AM
exactly what LBM said

Well, thank goodness your partner is not Greek. xD

Celestia
03-24-2021, 04:24 AM
Well, thank goodness your partner is not Greek. xD

Oh do they have a reputation about that?

викторслава
03-24-2021, 05:03 AM
well what would be the point of being bisexual while being in a relationship?

Ruggery
03-24-2021, 05:13 AM
Oh do they have a reputation about that?

The ancient Greeks thought that homosexual relations between men were a symbol of masculinity, I have no idea if modern people continue to think that way.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_ancient_Greece

Celestia
03-24-2021, 05:14 AM
The ancient Greeks thought that homosexual relations between men were a symbol of masculinity, I have no idea if modern people continue to think that way.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_ancient_Greece

Ohhhh haha I missed the joke the first time around :p

Latinus
03-24-2021, 05:17 AM
I would ask her to invite her hot best friend to join us...

InfamousAngel99
03-24-2021, 10:12 PM
As long as I didn’t find out in a way that involved him cheating, I wouldn’t care. As long as my partner is interested in me and has male genitalia, I don’t care what their sexual orientation is.

Geni
03-24-2021, 10:13 PM
No reaction . ...i go...

Linebacker
03-24-2021, 11:13 PM
Think I have said it on the forum before but I have been with bisexual women already.

Didn't care much. I am a guy with high self-esteem so I don't get jealous easily.

PaleoEuropean
03-24-2021, 11:18 PM
Girlfriend to me is like hooking up a couple times so it wouldn't matter. I don't have serious relationships.

Celestia
03-24-2021, 11:26 PM
Girlfriend to me is like hooking up a couple times so it wouldn't matter. I don't have serious relationships.

:O
This is completely off topic, but I’ve never understood mindsets like this because I’ve only ever had serious relationships. Do you just end up getting bored or is it something else?

PaleoEuropean
03-24-2021, 11:29 PM
:O
This is completely off topic, but I’ve never understood mindsets like this because I’ve only ever had serious relationships. Do you just end up getting bored or is it something else?

Yea and I just like doing my own thing. I am a very social person, but fairly superficial when it comes to most relationships including friendships. I am too free spirited. It's not like I do it for trophies or anything, I just can't seem to grow up and settle down.

Celestia
03-24-2021, 11:32 PM
Yea and I just like doing my own thing. I am a very social person, but fairly superficial when it comes to most relationships including friendships. I am too free spirited. It's not like I do it for trophies or anything, I just can't seem to grow up and settle down.

I think you’ve mentioned this before but you’re an ENTP aren’t you? You remind me very much of an ENTP friend of mine. Super nice guy but could never stay put in one place.. especially relationships haha

PaleoEuropean
03-24-2021, 11:36 PM
I think you’ve mentioned this before but you’re an ENTP aren’t you? You remind me very much of an ENTP friend of mine. Super nice guy but could never stay put in one place.. especially relationships haha

yea I am :P, it's a gift and a curse really. I think a lot of the more social people are that way but get themselves into situations where they cheat and stuff because they don't know themselves. I am the kinda person that likes to be able and pick up whenever I want. If it's genetic I can see how my ancestors ended up in America xD. I would have made a good cowboy or Edit: Pioneer not settler.

-Scar-
01-05-2022, 08:25 PM
Dump her.

Erronkari
01-05-2022, 09:24 PM
If she is faithful to me I don’t care if in her mind she feels attraction to other women.
She is my WIFE, not girlfriend.

SilverKnight
01-11-2022, 08:23 PM
I would dump her on the spot and tell her to repent from her sins.

Perunovsin
01-11-2022, 08:35 PM
I think I could live around gay people if they cut their dicks and hands off, and sewn their mouth shut, seriously ... meaning male ones ofc, females are pretty cool, talked once with a bisexual girl in bed about plotting to fuck a hot redhead girl nextdoor together, was a pretty cool aftersex experience, also, at least half of women I slept with were bisexual, maybe all of them, who knows