Originally Posted by
Voskos
the two might be related, ironically. You think that people should marry similar people , therefore, since you see yourself as different from ordinary (which i doubt personally) , you feel the need to marry outside of your ethnicity because if you marry a Bulgarian you somehow transgress that rule of yours (that people should marry coethnics/similar to them etc). You are a similar case to that croat nationalist woman who married a hungarian, because she sees herself as outside of the norm.