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I want to find girls around my age(early-mid twenties) who are kind and sensitive like me. The thing is too many women I see are just cold or generally unpleasant-which I think cannot meet my emotional needs even if I were to date them(and thatd be a challenge in itself). I see these types of women on the internet here and there but rarely in real life and when I do it's often not in the right setting. What can I do about this?
bump
If you're looking for a serious relationship then you're going to need a girl who lives a serious life, so no retarded hookup apps and it'd be good to pursue intellectual and moral hobbies in person (religion is one). Talk to more people every day. Try to make new friends. You don't go looking for love, it just sort of happens, you eventually meet someone you click with and it grows organically. And please don't do online dating, that's pathetic as hell and only leads to heartbreak. People do online dating because they're either hiding something or have low confidence, neither of which are healthy to start a relationship with.
Go out more. Be more social. Find what motivates you. Join clubs if you like. Give women a chance. Give yourself a chance. Fuck the limits you have in your mind. And don't use shit like dating sites - that's for losers (in the case of men) and women who want to boost their ego watching all the dorks dying for them.
Start doing some collective sports like volleyball etc.
try a library
Which clubs? I’m not in uniQuote:
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Some organized around common hobbies. Don't the US have a shitload of such?Quote:
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Church, school, friends of friends ...
It might. I have to checkQuote:
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Radomir is a stupid duck. At least thumb down posts you actually disagree with, moron - that's what I do.
I can't help you there apparently I am not nice but I am trying to be and I usually am
So are you nice or not xDQuote:
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yes I amQuote:
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Nice girls don't exist anymore, or at least not outside of North Sentinel Island or the Omo Valley or something. The last nice girls of Europe were probably in Nenets Autonomous Okrug, but now even they look like some products of the post-post-Tumblr post-Instagram TikTok era.
Sharing interests or friends in common is what always worked for me.
Just go out more, don't intentionally seek out someone. The best relationships happen naturally.