Do you guys care about a girl's sexual past?

[Kataxu]

My age has nothing to do with my sexual morals. I haven´t had enough partners to be branded a slut by any of you so far, but if I do, it shouldn't be any of your business anyway.

i did not say so ! but you have a childish, fairytale view common in people your age

it's still telling to see how you quickly reacted to cover any doubt of being "slut" though.

[TheBlondeSalad]

BlondeSalad is the ideal specimen of what I said earlier in the Feminism thread about women's intellectual even horizon being small and that their entire self worth being based on sex and relationships.

A female's entire mind is obsessed with sex and with its tetrameters: family, relationships, children, love, psychology etc. They have little interest in anything more abstract or detached form their personal ambitions and inter-relationships.

The female is nature, the reproductive, the unconscious, the cruel, the instinctive. This is why she does not excel in any other field but sex, relationships, child rearing.

Stop making assumptions. You know nothing about me.

Also, could you please neglect me and stop replying to my threads cus all you do is offend me? K thanks

[Hierarchalist]

And this is why women will keep their sex lives hidden, because men will brand them as sluts as soon as they are not the chastised virgins they want them to be. And no, women aren't goddamn locks, and men aren't keys. Stop it with that stupid metaphor already.

Why do you care about a woman's sex life anyway? How does it change her? She can still be faithful, sweet, and family-oriented despite her sexual past. I'm not a feminazi, but this is one thing that really bothers me. As if a woman's sex life will somehow shape yours.

See my dear, given the complicated groups humans eventually develop, the need for disciplined, participating and loyal fighters and producers (later also consumers) made the inclusion of as many males as possible, into the social fabric, a matter of group survival.

Compromises had to be made, by power, and males had to be integrated by offering them an investment in the most primal thing of all: reproduction as a reaction to mortality - temporality. This made the control over female sexuality a matter of grave importance.

Without it no civilization could have progressed. It would have been torn apart by internal strife.

Vaginas were kept under lock and key for specific social reasons.
No regulation of pussy = No civilization

Now, the current rise of homosexuality as just another lifestyle, and this Deregulation of pussy(Sexual liberation), has resulted in the decline of the family, as well as the increasing influence of Christianity over the minds of the mediocre masses, meant to compensate for the growing fragmentation as well as many other phenomena, are all symptoms of decline.


Sex is becoming more about establishing and maintaining hierarchies - that is relationships based on them - and so promiscuity is a means of releasing inter-group stresses. Sex now becomes less about procreation and more about group harmony.

In species like the bonobo chimps, sex is used as a way of ensuring group cohesion. In the Bonobo do you not witness western cultural trends?

[Unome]

If a girl is not a virgin:

Sex = Yes.
Marriage = Hell no!


Marriage is off-limit to non-virgins.

[Hierarchalist]

Stop making assumptions. You know nothing about me.

Also, could you please neglect me and stop replying to my threads cus all you do is offend me? K thanks

Me thinks the lady protesteth too much

[GrebluBro]

I don't care even if she slept with 10 men if those guys were her lovers (obviously she isn't good at maintaining strong relationship)..

I can't accept if she indulged in ONS (I don't care if she did it in her very early adult life)..

[dude]

Secure men do not care about your past, however, we do expect you same level of understanding for our own past. The way I look at it, if you choose to settle down then you do not need to wonder what's out there. Many women who cheat do it because they wonder, and you know women are always wondering for something "better". As far as BJs, I think all respectable women should master that skill. Sex is an important factor in a romantic relationship, don't you think you should improve yourself especially considering how picky you are yourself?

[Acquisitor]

Another great thread about anthropology - NOT.

Right so, whenever you're about to get in a relationship with a girl, do you guys care about her past? and how many is "TOO MANY"??

I don't care about the past + an intelligent female will never discuss her sexual past with anyone of the opposite sex, whether she is interested in him or not.

Also, is oral sex a big deal in a couple? Is it really that important to you? No-bjs would be a deal breaker for you?

it is a big deal, not a deal breaker, but its still a big big deal.

[Carlito's Way]

if those guys were her past relationships then i dont really mind but if she slept around with more than 20 guys based on one night stands then that might be a problem with me since hey she has slept with more people than i have haha, if she has had like 1 or 2 one night stands then i wouldnt mind

im not perfect so why should a girl who dates me be, im sure there are women who also dont like man whores and like guys who respect themselves

[LightHouse89]

Another great thread about anthropology - NOT.

Right so, whenever you're about to get in a relationship with a girl, do you guys care about her past? and how many is "TOO MANY"??

Also, is oral sex a big deal in a couple? Is it really that important to you? No-bjs would be a deal breaker for you?



PS: No trolls please, I'm curious about your answers. I think we're all adults on here so I'm allowed to ask this question, right? If someone finds it offensive, you can delete the thread

Yes in a way it would turn me off. If she slept with half my town I wouldnt be interested. I dont think women should be interested in men either who sleep with everything that moves. I try to stay away from these types period....I dont even like talking with them out of fear I might catch a disease from being within talking distance of them hahaha.

Oral sex is important...I may be some what prude in person but I am the opposite in privacy.....not to sound like a creep but I have a wild side I just believe its best for the person I care about as oppose to sleeping with random women I dont know and dont trust. I only have been with two girls my whole life, 1 sexually the other dating on and off. Kind of got bored with her though.