Do you guys care about a girl's sexual past?

[Hadouken]

me personally even though i care about her sexual past i still would marry a non virgin girl too

i mean good luck finding a virgin nowdays who will be also a good match to you .... especially at my age the odds are very low lol

however i dont want a girl that spread her legs too often especially without being in a relationship

i have no room to call a girl being a slut because i have had sexual experiences myself which were 99% without being in a relationship and also pretty naughty lol

BUT i am a man and it IS a difference ....i know girls dont like to hear that but it is the truth you cant compare men and women when it comes to this

[LightHouse89]

I don't care about the past + an intelligent female will never discuss her sexual past with anyone of the opposite sex, whether she is interested in him or not.



it is a big deal, not a deal breaker, but its still a big big deal.

I thin kits disgusting and if she never mnetioned it then maybe for the best. But if she said O by the way I have been with 10 men before you. That would be enough. A former girlfriend of mine compared me with a former boyfriend of hers and that pissed me off, I did not last with her and eventually told her I wasnt interested. Today I am single and glad. She struck me as a slut with many things which is a turn off. Luckily my parents never met her that would be embarrasing.

[Pjeter Pan]

Yes lol there's this girl in my school with 40+ kills

[Acquisitor]

it still annoys me that a girl who loves to fuck around is a slot, a guy who loves to fuck around is a stud

[Unome]

Men and women are not equal.

Man who has 100 sex partners = Stud.
Woman who has 100 sex partners = Slut.


Promiscuous women do their best to hide the past, and lie, and still pretend they have 0 or 1 or 2 sex partners only. But women cannot lie very well. It is pretty easy to see how many men a woman has slept with. For example, if a woman has tattoos then probability is very, very high, almost guaranteed 100% that she is promiscuous and been around the block. She doesn't even need to say anything.

Also the more sex partners a woman has, the more she becomes jaded and misandrous (man-hating). Because she blames men for her own actions (sleeping around a lot), instead of herself.

So promiscuous woman and long-term relationship is just… no, don't do it, ever. Don't start a family with these types of women.

[LightHouse89]

And this is why women will keep their sex lives hidden, because men will brand them as sluts as soon as they are not the chastised virgins they want them to be. And no, women aren't goddamn locks, and men aren't keys. Stop it with that stupid metaphor already.

Why do you care about a woman's sex life anyway? How does it change her? She can still be faithful, sweet, and family-oriented despite her sexual past. I'm not a feminazi, but this is one thing that really bothers me. As if a woman's sex life will somehow shape yours.

I think its disgusting for men and women to be too permisquicous period. Its okay if you have been in 1 or afew relationships and they didnt work. I have only been with 2 women, 1 for a long time and yes had sexual relations with her. I thought I would marry her after high school but when college came around she wasnt interested in me anymore and went for some pot head loser in college who got her pregnant etc... and she dropped out of ofcourse and is living a miserbale life. Hey I didnt go wrong she did. Now if I met a girl who is similar to me and my life experience I am more open minded in that way. However these slutty girls I have met at social clubs are not worth my devotion or time. They dance with random men and other women its really disgusting to me. I go to these venues because my friends drag me along and say 'I need to get laid'....I am really fine with holding it off and not as driven as them I guess. I just dont have an interest in behaving like that.

I would rather go to the beach or nature walk with a girl as oppose to drinking and making myself look like a moron at a night club in some strange area of town. I guess I believe in Romance and I am one of those guys

[LightHouse89]

it still annoys me that a girl who loves to fuck around is a slot, a guy who loves to fuck around is a stud

I avoid those types of women and do not view the men as that wonderful either. Anyone who lakcs self control is a peasant to me [female or male]. I beleive relationships are better as they lead to something and have meaning. Promiscuous sexual relations lead to nothing but bastard children.

[Acquisitor]

I avoid those types of women and do not view the men as that wonderful either. Anyone who lakcs self control is a peasant to me [female or male]. I beleive relationships are better as they lead to something and have meaning. Promiscuous sexual relations lead to nothing but bastard children.

what if you feel like fucking and don't have a relationship ? giving yourself a handjob gets annoying after a while, so imo there is nothing wrong with a sex buddy.

sex is quite important, its raises the mood, makes one more happy and so on. If one can't find a suitable partner for a relationship then there is nothing wrong with it.

and besides, to each his own, lets not judge anyone

[Hanibalas Lekteris]

what if you feel like fucking and don't have a relationship ? giving yourself a handjob gets annoying after a while, so imo there is nothing wrong with a sex buddy.

sex is quite important, its raises the mood, makes one more happy and so on. If one can't find a suitable partner for a relationship then there is nothing wrong with it.

and besides, to each his own, lets not judge anyone

The problem with your logic is that people like to own stuff, including other people (remember this thing called slavery?).
Which is why a "sex buddy" is a hypocritical concept at best.

[Hadouken]

The problem with your logic is that people like to own stuff, including other people (remember this thing called slavery?).
Which is why a "sex buddy" is a hypocritical concept at best.

no man

you can easily be "friends with benefits" with a girl and not involving too much emotions