Do you guys care about a girl's sexual past?

[Neanderthal]

Ambivalent. In reality I do not, but the stigma associated with sluts could turn our relationship into a hell

[Neanderthal]

I had this particular experience with this woman who was promiscuous, at the beginning of our relation I knew she was very opend minded, so to speak only I didn't really know how much.

Well the fact is that she was really attractive and showed too much interest on me so, I said why not?...I started it all as an adveture because I knew she was "easy" but we continued seeing each other for some months and without really being aware if it I started to fall inlove witth her. You can think you could control it but not always, sometimes love happens and you cannot stop it....big mistake! never feel something for this kind of women or you gonna get into your way to a monumental emotional bashing.

I ended up dumping her but it was painful because I had this feeling for her, I already cared for her and my attachment to her made it very painful but if you have the minimal self respect and selfsteem there are things that you simply cannot cope with.

I know this guy who had a strong relationship with a young dame, yet he got into an affair with a female colleague of his, which was also in a relationship and she had slept over with many of the cool folks at the campus, including this guy's best mate.

At first they thought it was nothing but a mechanical act, a sexual relief, because maybe both were passing through hard times in their respective relationships concerning the release of sexual impulses, but time proved them wrong and a bond started to bind them together.

It was incredibly painful, since they both had their reasons to try to put up a distance between each other, yet it was futile, they just needed to be together to realize there was a very deep bond between them two; They had to face a very hard decision that could be life changing and very destructive for involved third parties

[Shkembe Chorba]

People are different. Furthermore, you respect a personality, not a number, so why should be a problem?

[Odin]

Depends on the girl.

[Tom Cat]

I'm certainly no saint when it comes to my sexual past. So why should I harshly judge a woman who gained some experience inside a bedroom?

My wife and I have both been tainted by many previous relationships; some of which involved affairs with married individuals who made promises they didn't keep. So what. At least we didn't spend our lives hiding from all that life presented us with, right or wrong.

We've both paid our dues with heartache and shame. And now when we gaze into each other's loving eyes, it is with tender understanding. We accept the fact that we can't erase our questionable pasts. But we don't have to meet with the approval of those who have never walked one step in our shoes either.

Think before you judge others.

[Ülev]

Telegony (pregnancy)

[Bobby Martnen]

And this is why women will keep their sex lives hidden, because men will brand them as sluts as soon as they are not the chastised virgins they want them to be. And no, women aren't goddamn locks, and men aren't keys. Stop it with that stupid metaphor already.

Why do you care about a woman's sex life anyway? How does it change her? She can still be faithful, sweet, and family-oriented despite her sexual past. I'm not a feminazi, but this is one thing that really bothers me. As if a woman's sex life will somehow shape yours.

Some religions require virginity.