Originally Posted by
JohnSmith
IDK,,hard to tell sometimes. I will tell you a story.
I used to live by myself in an apartment and used to be thin, fit and drove a "small" car and I had gay men a couple times try to pick me up. A guy in the apartment building left a note on my door saying he liked me and wanted to get to know me. I was a bit freaked out as this person that I never saw was scoping me out. I tore up the letter and that was that.
I had a friend that was a girl and she had gay friends that would hang out with us and I did not know one of them was gay. We were hanging out one time and I noticed he was not leaving my side and kept on talking to me. Also, I went to club with the girl and that guy was there and that is when I realized he was gay as he stayed near me the whole night talking to me. I just acted dumb like I did not know.
I went to a gay bar before because some friends were going to go there to see their friend that was a bar tender and I was not aware it was a gay bar until I got there. One of my friends told me that one of the guys was checking me out.
Also, I was driving thru a McDonald's drive thru with my VW GTI and the guy at the window that worked there was begging me for my number and he said I was pretty. That was the most uncomfortable time because he was not taking no for an answer.
The point is who knows. But I am not a confrontational person so I just ignore the attention and move-on. If the person is the type of person that could be dangerous you should be careful.
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