How come women aren't scared of lesbianism in the way that lots of men are scared of homosexuality?

**TheOldNorth** · 11-13-2019, 10:08 PM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

Once two men have sex with each other there's no going back !

out of context this looks like you had gay sex and enjoyed it, but knowing you this is meant to say don't or you'll go to hell or whatever

**Richmondbread** · 11-14-2019, 01:19 AM

Originally Posted by TheOldNorth

out of context this looks like you had gay sex and enjoyed it, but knowing you this is meant to say don't or you'll go to hell or whatever

It's part of the slippery slope.

**Richmondbread** · 11-15-2019, 01:41 AM

I had a possible run in with a roving homosexual. 10 years ago when I was in a bit better shape, I was riding my bike and at a stoplight. This big pick up truck pulls next to me. I hear this voice say "hey buddy ,nice ass!" It was a man. I thought nothing of it, except no one else was around. I figured maybe they were just joking. Then he said it again and more loudly: "yoohoo, buddy, I like your ass!". Okay, so that made me very nervous and uncomfortable. I had to go home and take a shower because I felt violated. I was just wearing blue jeans and a t shirt. I was not asking for it!

**Ruggery** · 11-15-2019, 02:39 AM

Originally Posted by Ylla

Also women are naturally caring, nurturing and sweet, so for a woman to fall in love with another woman is understandable but masculine on masculine is difficult for people to comprehend. Maybe this is why lesbians don't get as much hate.

That is partly true, the majority of homosexual beatings are directly to men, while this almost never occurs with homosexual women.
However, at the religious level, both are rejected.

**Zroota** · 11-30-2019, 06:37 AM

Originally Posted by Ylla

Also women are naturally caring, nurturing and sweet, so for a woman to fall in love with another woman is understandable but masculine on masculine is difficult for people to comprehend. Maybe this is why lesbians don't get as much hate.

This is a very stereotypical view of women. Men can be like that too, but society expects men to toughen it up and hide their caring or sensitive ways. Being sweet and nurturing is more of a personality thing anyway and it doesn't define gender. And this is coming from someone who grew up with a nurturing grandmother and an aloof, 'tough' grandfather. But I know of kids who had the opposite experience (more nurturing male figures in life).

But we're speaking from a male's perspective here. Straight women are usually accepting of homosexuals and would tend to be close friends with gay guys. Why? Because gays possess both feminine and masculine characteristics that women admire and find comfort in. In other words, they get the best of both words when they befriend homosexual men, as there is no competition from other women and there's no sexual tension. Furthermore, you're somehow implying that two women in love are feminine and soft, like those in lesbian porn. Have you seen some lesbians in real life? Some people here pointed them out in the first page -- They're hardly "feminine" and would have traits typical of that stereotypical jock in the school gym. Though of course, feminine lesbians do exist.

Male and male friendship is even stronger and more compassionate I'd argue. Whereas with girls, their relationships with each other can get catty and gossipy. A lot of young (straight) men, at least those in my ethnicity (can't speak of others), tend to be in a tight-knit pack. They would dance together, hug each other and get affectionate at parties. So to say "lesbians are more accepted because society views female bond as beautiful" is bunkum. Maybe they should look up the term of 'bromance' and the vulgar slang 'bros before hos' (https://time.com/4978727/bromance-male-friendships/).

P.S. As a gay man myself, I cannot comprehend people who use baffling adjectives to describe us. You say we're "masculine on masculine". Well, others would describe as very feminine and unmanly. Can people make up their minds on us already?

**Rumata** · 11-30-2019, 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by Shelati

This is a very stereotypical view of women.

True. So many heartless bitches among females.

**AAJUPP** · 11-30-2019, 05:07 PM

Every man has a secret gay fantasy.

I slept with alot of married guys that are secretly gay

**~~JamesBond007~~** · 11-30-2019, 05:21 PM

I slept with two lesbians and orgasmed inside one and they could be raising my baby right now as we speak. I experimented with gay sex with one man but that just convinced me that I was not gay.