I can't find a girlfriend with online dating!

[Arcadefire]

Most people exaggerate their academic and financial achievements and photoshop their images on those online sites lol. Perhaps you aught to do the same. I personally have not actually tried online dating... perhaps you are better off having your friends set you up with someone from the local church or something

[LightHouse89]

best places to meet someone, gym, grocery store, volunteer work, hobbies, shopping centers, porn stores [places where they sell sex toys], almost anywhere really. just grow a pair and flirt with them if they seem receptive then hit em up.

[Unome]

Dating websites are a bad choice. They are good for a hookup, one-night stand opportunity, but not a relationship.

And you should use free dating websites, none with a registration fee. Because the sites with fees are scams, and create fake profiles to lure people. In fact the majority are scams.

You probably wouldn't find a worthwhile relationship meeting a woman across them. The best bet is to join your local Catholic Church if you seek a meaningful, long-term relationship.

[Insuperable]

Go out and find your girl! Online dating sucks.

[Harley]

It is better to have someone you know introduce you to someone. Or maybe get out more in your community and meet people that way.

I usually have either dated people I met from forums(twice) or that have been introduced to me through a friend or coworker.

I tried OKCupid out of boredom once. My inbox was constantly flooded and guys there were acting emo if I didn't answer their messages right away. It became like a job. After four days, I closed my profile because that was ridiculous.

If you're going to insist on using dating sites, be interesting and do not show emoness or neediness. I hear there are an influx of TS girls and catfish people online, so beware, unless you're into that.

It would probably also be a good idea to talk to someone on cam and over the phone as well before you meet them in person.

[Lily]

Bad idea. You can't know with all the scam and fakeness.

[Prisoner Of Ice]

Work on yourself is the biggest part. Even ugly mongrels can look decent if they work out. Plus it's harder than ever to have a good job or business today. Do what it takes to get one and become successful. Otherwise you won't be marriage material to women anyway. You probably can't get a very attractive white woman who will marry you and stay true unless you are a handsome CEO at this point, so you might have to settle a bit.

[blklady2013]

Go out and have fun. People are attracted to others who are enjoying their lives! And no, it doesn't have to be one of those obnoxious clubs with bad music. Drag your friends out to the local pubs or lounges and meet people.

[Abraxas]

Man the fuck up and stop being a pussy about it. Even here in rural North Carolina I'm able to find decent girls who date whites only.

[LeibstandarteSS]

Bad idea. You can't know with all the scam and fakeness.

True. I wonder how many of those profiles are fake. I go to the gym a lot and see lots of hot chicks but I never see guys approach them. I figure women hate being hit on at the gym.

Btw Lily you have very pretty eyes!