would you date a woman who has a child

[de Burgh II]

Initially that would be a hard choice at first. At the same time I would take pity on the woman. It depends on the situation for me. If the woman had multiple affairs before then that would send up red flags for me. But if the woman tried to settle for the guy and he left his responsibilities then I would probably take them in. I've seen to many times where guys can't take responsibility by having a one night stands and single mothers are stigmatized when their just innately following their maternal instincts.

Its quite easy in this society to point our fingers and say "that is the bad guy!" I've never viewed myself as a saint but at the same time I don't have the part of me to evade responsibility. If it was under me the kid would have to be raised right along with any other offspring for the matter that doesn't count the ghetto/thug subculture at all. To be a respectable citizen of society and make something out of it in the end.

[Dombra]

If I have kids on my own I might, it will be equally hard for us. Until then, rather not :nono:

[Kazbolat]

would date, wouldn't marry

[Shkembe Chorba]

Is the kid silent? Crying is kind of dealbreaker. For the child and the mother.

[Dr. Robotnik the Subbotnik]

No.

[MI:6]

As of now , no.

[XvThomas_LysergicV]

It depends on how many kids she has,how old they are and how often they stay with her. Maybe they stay with their father part of the time. I wouldn't care if her child was mixed race. Why should that matter? Its not like the mixed race child is an alien or deserves different treatment, I would treat a mixed race child the same way I would treat a monoracial one. To be honest I don't think I would date someone who has kids. Maybe I would if we were just casually dating or if she was a Fwb.

At this point in my life I just want to have fun and mingle. Taking care of kids would be too much for me right now. I'm too young to be thinking about settling down with someone anyway. I also don't want to raise or take of another man's child. In the future If I got into a serious relationship with a woman then I don't want her to have any kids. I would want to get with her and start a new family. A family of my own..

[Felix Volkbein]

If she has already has kids, she's damaged goods. Send 'em back.

[Annie999]

Would I date a guy with a child? Not really. Probably if I had a kid myelf I would be OK with that, but given I don't have any I don't want that extra responsibility on me, specially when the kid is not mine.
Maybe I will change my mind in a future, but right now, nope

[Prisoner Of Ice]

Probably not. Maybe if the father were dead though.