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    Default Sexual lifestyles?

    So what are your sexual lifestyles?

    Monogamy - one partner only for all of life?

    Serial monogamy - one partner only, for limited periods? How limited? Extremely short relationships, which are mostly sexual? Or longer relationships?



    Polygamy - several partners for all life?

    Serial polygamy - several different partners for several different periods?

    Pure promiscuity/libertinism - no permanent limits, just whatever you feel like?

    What are the benefits/disadvantages of these different styles? Why choose one over the other?

    Do you even question how you live? Why not?
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    Monogamy - one partner only for all of life?
    This is highly improbable in today's world. Are you gonna stay with that girl who you dated in high school for the rest of your life? Not gonna happen aside exceptions.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lutiferre View Post
    So what are your sexual lifestyles?

    Monogamy - one partner only for all of life?

    Serial monogamy - one partner only, for limited periods? How limited? Extremely short relationships, which are mostly sexual? Or longer relationships?

    Polygamy - several partners for all life?

    Serial polygamy - several different partners for several different periods?

    Pure promiscuity/libertinism - no permanent limits, just whatever you feel like?

    What are the benefits/disadvantages of these different styles? Why choose one over the other?

    Do you even question how you live? Why not?
    Most of my life I've been wading in a Bermuda Triangle with promiscuity in one corner, and serial monogamy and actual monogamy in the others.

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    I'm a serial monogamist still searching for the right companion.
    Never was a fun of so called "casual", "open" relationships, but I somehow often end up in such ones (due to the phobias that men have about monogamy and long term commitment).

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    What about you, Lutiferre?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monolith View Post
    What about you, Lutiferre?
    Agamy is not on the list

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lutiferre View Post
    So what are your sexual lifestyles?
    A combination. One real close partner and several others for some interesting hours. You could call me a monogamist with polygamous lapses.

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    Monogamy is my goal. Serial monogamy is a means of getting there; perhaps even promiscuity.

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    Do you even question how you live?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Svanhild View Post
    A combination. One real close partner and several others for some interesting hours. You could call me a monogamist with polygamous lapses.
    Arguably the healthiest arrangement: it fulfills the need for closeness - (nearly?) everyone's need - which is hard enough to achieve with a single person, while not entailing the often jeopardizing sense of claustrophobia and restriction of personal freedom that strict monogamy brings, in addition to minimizing the risk of said relationship falling into boring routine.

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