Is incelness about to become a wide social problem?

[Oneeye]

Remember women are not men. Women generally are not that into sex as men. I think some of them just live in celibate lives. If not they just have casual sex but don't go into relationships because of the fast pace life.

They just haven't met the right man if they don't desire it. Any woman who has climaxed between the sheets should want more.

[zhaoyun]

It's not that hard to get women. Simply focus on bettering yourself, for yourself, and your ambition and EARNED confidence will get you noticed.

THIS.

Dating, is not that hard. People here are giving a recipe for making toast, like they were making an 8 tier wedding cake. LOL

I think the number of socially inept, clueless, whining, self-pitying, pieces of shit have definitely gone up though. Probably because of the internet.

Also, something I've always told guys, if you're depending on the internet dating websites to date, you're probably going to be settling below your potential. Because the internet is extremely lopsided towards women because of obvious reasons.

[TheForeigner]

Hm this seems very exagerated. I am not from a Western country, but I don't believe either a majority or a large minority of men in these lands are lonely incels and even virgins. These people who write this, are trying to comfort themselves by saying their situation is either the rule now or at least very common, rather than them being part of a very small and defective minority, which makes them feel worst.

[Aviator]

This is actually a non-existent problem, at least where I am.

[Grenzland]

That is very true. Plus the fact that women generally would not date down their social status while men would. Men date not just only for serious relationships but also for simple sex. Women however usually date for something serious. Just a handful of men are professionals with masters, PHD, good looking, not gay and not a douche.

As far as I remember you were pretty, it shouldn't be that hard to find a good man for you. Or am I wrong?

[caviezel]

As far as I remember you were pretty, it shouldn't be that hard to find a good man for you. Or am I wrong?

I suppose she never met a real man who knows how to grov... to talk to women like Longbowman or Sardiniatlantis.

[Longbowman]

I suppose she never met a real man who knows how to grov... to talk to women like Longbowman or Sardiniatlantis.

Yes. All men in relationships know how to grovel to women. That way you can maintain the illusion that your social ineptitude is not your problem, but society's problem, and thus doesn't need fixing.

But brother, you will die alone and bitter, yet perhaps still convincing yourself that you are not to blame, if you do not face up to your own shortcomings.

[Belial]

Remember women are not men. Women generally are not that into sex as men. I think some of them just live in celibate lives. If not they just have casual sex but don't go into relationships because of the fast pace life.

That's a huge misconception.

[caviezel]

Yes. All men in relationships know how to grovel to women. That way you can maintain the illusion that your social ineptitude is not your problem, but society's problem, and thus doesn't need fixing.

But brother, you will die alone and bitter, yet perhaps still convincing yourself that you are not to blame, if you do not face up to your own shortcomings.

you sound like a women's magazine: if a man is alone he has to blame only himself, if a woman is alone then she can blame society and men at large.

[Longbowman]

you sound like a women's magazine: if a man is alone he has to blame only himself, if a woman is alone then she can blame society and men at large.

I didn't say that. Anyone who believes you what you do, regardless of gender, has only themselves to blame.

You just assume I said what you want me to have said because you want there to be an identifiable enemy, an opponent, when really you're only fighting yourself.

As always, I pity you, but the rate of people in the UK for instance who die unmarried is at the moment only 5%, so ask yourself: who's the real problem?