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    As a Catholic, I know that the Catechism of the Catholic Church clearly states that premarital sex (fornication is the term they use) is gravely sinful. It would certainly earn me a trip to the confessional!

    I do think, though, that sexual sins are singled out too often. There are several other sins mentioned in the Letter to the Galatians that don't receive as much attention, and are equally as damning, such as jealousy, anger, selfishness and envy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze View Post
    Not that it's immoral or wrong,
    it's just disgusting and retarded.
    How is it disgusting and retarded, to make love with someone before you marry him?

    Or would you fancy marrying someone who could turn out to be, e.g. sexually defunct, impotent, and so on and so forth?

    There are a lot of things I could say about it.
    Like picking up diseases which lie dormant til you give them to your new husband.
    Or having babies before you're married and being ditched by all of the fathers.
    All that can be prevented with the use of a condom.

    Sex is for reproduction,
    not to make a fool out of yourself with.
    How does one make a fool out of oneself by doing the most natural thing for adult, heterosexual humans to do?

    By the way sex was always been for more things than reproduction, one random usage that I can think for is for sacred/ritualistic purposes.

    Just be careful, damn.
    Just be careful.
    Be careful of what?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sally View Post
    As a Catholic, I know that the Catechism of the Catholic Church clearly states that premarital sex (i.e., fornication) is gravely sinful. It would certainly earn me a trip to the confessional!

    I do think, though, that sexual sins are singled out too often. There are several other sins mentioned in the Letter to the Galatians that don't receive as much attention, and are equally as damning, such as jealousy, anger, selfishness and envy.
    Damn that mermaid in your pic, I'm so jealous of her hair! It makes me so angry I may kill all of the mermaids in the world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absinthe View Post
    How is it disgusting and retarded, to make love with someone before you marry him?

    Or would you fancy marrying someone who could turn out to be, e.g. sexually defunct, impotent, and so on and so forth?
    You could just mess around and not go all the way.

    Duh.
    And it's not like sex is all that matters in a relationship.
    Marriage is about eternal love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze View Post
    Marriage is about eternal love.
    Ah, to be 18 again...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze View Post
    You could just mess around and not go all the way.
    In my humble opinion one should stick to one principle and follow it all the way:

    either no pre-marital sexual activity whatsoever, or having no problem about it.

    This messing around without going all the way is a little...eh. Hypocritical

    (no personal offence, we're just talking)

    By the way, you can get STDs from various kinds of "messing around", as well.

    Duh.
    And it's not like sex is all that matters in a relationship.
    Marriage is about eternal love.
    Of course not!

    In fact for me, sex could be placed on the bottom of the list concerning what matters in a relationship...

    Communication would be the first thing I would seek, common interests, mutual understanding, companionship, affection...

    But sex would be the factor that would distinguish us from being good friends. And if we're not compatible in that department then what is the point of not being just friends?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze View Post
    Marriage is about eternal love.
    Not unless you're a Mormon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absinthe View Post
    In my humble opinion one should stick to one principle and follow it all the way:

    either no pre-marital sexual activity whatsoever, or having no problem about it.

    This messing around without going all the way is a little...eh. Hypocritical

    (no personal offence, we're just talking)



    Of course not!

    In fact for me, sex could be placed on the bottom of the list concerning what matters in a relationship...

    Communication would be the first thing I would seek, common interests, mutual understanding, companionship, affection...

    But sex would be the factor that would distinguish us from being good friends. And if we're not compatible in that department then what is the point of not being just friends?
    There's those things you get to do though. Like strawberries and champagne when it rains. Waking up in each others' arms to a kiss on the face and an "I love you." So many beautiful things, which require no sex.

    I will state this though.

    When me and my boyfriend get hitched if we couldn't have sex, I'd be extremely disappointed.

    But of course, I'd still be happy as a lark to be with him forever and ever.

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    No, as it implies a lack of restraint and self-control. However, one shouldn't make a moral spectacle of one's pre-marital celibacy or denigrate those who don't possess a similar belief. This goes for extra-marital sex as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pallamedes View Post
    No, as it implies a lack of restraint and self-control. However, one shouldn't make a moral spectacle of one's pre-marital celibacy or denigrate those who don't possess a similar belief. This goes for extra-marital sex as well.
    In this world, virgins at my age in my country could be called even saints
    American girls are sluts, yo!
    High school girls walking around with swollen wombs and baby carriages.
    There wasn't enough room in our halls in the first place for these tax-leeches to come in with their whorish selves and soak up every last inch of room.

    Too harsh?
    Too bad.

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    The sexual activities of today's children is shameful, but not the fault of the children themselves. Rather, it's a case of poor parenting and a lack of proper role models to emulate. Vacuity seems to be the norm and many young people that I see today seem almost semi-retarded in terms of right and wrong.

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