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    Quote Originally Posted by Pallamedes View Post
    The sexual activities of today's children is shameful, but not the fault of the children themselves. Rather, it's a case of poor parenting and a lack of proper role models to emulate. Vacuity seems to be the norm and many young people that I see today seem almost semi-retarded in terms of right and wrong.
    Rotten children come from bad parenting, yes.
    But I have only myself to blame for my lack of bad behaviour, as I have refrained from immoral physical contact by means of my own dislike of it.

    In other words, I don't like people touching me. >.<

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    My view on sex is about the same as my view on drugs: There's nothing evil about it, but there's no need to spend your life addicted to it. And personally, I'm too shy to be that way with random people. I wouldn't say marriage needs to be waited for, but at least someone worth being that close to.

    I'd never hold anyone else to the same though; this is just my opinion.

    I guess I live an accidental straight-edge lifestyle?

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    Nothing wrong with premarital sex. In fact I would not marry anyone I hadn't slept with. Also sex is very important in relationships, during intercourse both partners produce hormones which help bond the pair together, probably one of the reasons we have sax when no children are possible/desired
    Cattle die, kinsmen die,
    the self must also die;
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    For the one who is able to achieve it.

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    Pre martial sex ... well i knew if i stayed here long enough we would eventually get to the good stuff

    IMO, my religion ( Paganism,) teaches that prematrial sex is healthy if done in safe and knowledgeable manner. I had sex on Yule at the age of 16, in the back of a car, and while i don't think it was a mistake it also helped me to understand my body and to get comfortable with what was going on with my body.

    I think that having sex is an act for reproducing and pleasure. I feel that sex is a beautiful way of showing some one you love that you love and trust them to see you nude, pretty much reveling everything to this one person. I would never have sex outside of a relationship. I only want to show my body to someone i am dating and am commited to.

    Premartial sex for me and only me is okay and is encouraged, it helps reduce stress, is a great activity for cardio and shows love and trust for one's partner.

    And that is the what the peanut gallery has to say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze View Post
    Not that it's immoral or wrong,
    it's just disgusting and retarded.
    what? why?

    What's disgusting about having sex? Or retarded?

    There are a lot of things I could say about it.
    Like picking up diseases which lie dormant til you give them to your new husband.
    Or having babies before you're married and being ditched by all of the fathers.
    Sex is for reproduction,
    not to make a fool out of yourself with.
    These days you could pick up a disease in a bus, food even hospitals, I still take buses and eat, I mean, you gotta be careful sure, but not paranoid

    I really think you're mixing having sex and promiscuity, or whoring?

    Quote Originally Posted by Absinthe View Post
    Be careful of what?
    A thunder from the sky frying you for dinner

    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze
    You could just mess around and not go all the way.
    AND how is that any better or any different?!

    And it's not like sex is all that matters in a relationship.
    Marriage is about eternal love.
    On one thing we agree, somewhat - there is so much more in a relationship than sex, but sex is a vital part of it, or should be, once that thing goes wrong, trust me, everything else does.. and I wish you were right about marriage and yet i can't deny the feeling in my head saying it still lives in Celtic fairytales only..

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    Nothing wrong with it at all. You become a better lover with practice and experience. Sex is the binding between two people. If that is not there, or is defunct in some manner, then the relationship is perched on a precarious precipice, relying mostly on what should have been built alongside the sexual encounters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze View Post
    Not that it's immoral or wrong,
    it's just disgusting and retarded.

    There are a lot of things I could say about it.
    Like picking up diseases which lie dormant til you give them to your new husband.
    Or having babies before you're married and being ditched by all of the fathers.
    Sex is for reproduction,
    not to make a fool out of yourself with.
    Just be careful, damn.
    Just be careful.
    Sex is for more then that. It also works to bind the couple closer together. That is one of the reasons why having an affair is unforgivable: it damages the bond between the couple so much that a relationship is effectively dead.



    Wake up and smell the coffee.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lawspeaker View Post
    Sex is for more then that. It also works to bind the couple closer together. That is one of the reasons why having an affair is unforgivable: it damages the bond between the couple so much that a relationship is effectively dead.
    Yes, but also sex can be just sex, so there is no reason to spoil relationship worked on for years because of a mistake if you're able to work further on it, that's it. Not everything is always black and white, but basically, you're right.

    And no, I never ever cheated in my life, not once, I've been cheated on several times and see, while once I was get the hell out of my sight the other time I did my best to get over it because relationship meant damn much to me and did not won't to lose everything cause of pushing and making farm animal voices in drunken condition for probably 10 minutes, tho, did not work out, it did ruin everything, see, some people can forgive, some can't, I can't and wish if I could

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    Quote Originally Posted by Svarog View Post
    Yes, but also sex can be just sex, so there is no reason to spoil relationship worked on for years because of a mistake if you're able to work further on it, that's it. Not everything is always black and white, but basically, you're right.

    And no, I never ever cheated in my life, not once, I've been cheated on several times and see, while once I was get the hell out of my sight the other time I did my best to get over it because relationship meant damn much to me and did not won't to lose everything cause of pushing and making farm animal voices in drunken condition for probably 10 minutes, tho, did not work out, it did ruin everything, see, some people can forgive, some can't, I can't and wish if I could
    Well.. been there too. I remember the days in which I was together with my ex and sometimes you just wanted to curl up together and eat each other alive so to speak.
    Sex for the sake of sex. Yes perhaps so-- but only with the one you love. Otherwise I'd actually be bloody scared (even with a condom): one can never be too certain in this world.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lawspeaker View Post
    Well.. been there too. I remember the days in which I was together with my ex and sometimes you just wanted to curl up together and eat each other alive so to speak.
    Regarding cheating -

    ..if i remember correctly she told me to go out and do the same just don't tell her about it which pissed me off even more so i said a lot of things including threats involving stabbing, screwdriver and gasoline, so yeah, hopeless, glad I am done with that crap.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lawspeaker View Post
    Sex for the sake of sex. Yes perhaps so-- but only with the one you love. Otherwise I'd actually be bloody scared (even with a condom): one can never be too certain in this world.
    Well, there is nothing to be scared of, and what the hell, if i die because of sex - so be it - could not wish for a better reason, people die for less.

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