Premarital Sex

**Odin** · 03-16-2018, 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by Decius

Fornication is a sin.

Not really because our bodies are designed to have sexual desires so early, and society encourages marriages to be so much later in life. It's kind of not fair.

**Decius** · 03-16-2018, 10:52 PM

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**~~Bobby Martnen~~** · 03-16-2018, 10:53 PM

Originally Posted by Odin

Not really because our bodies are designed to have sexual desires so early, and society encourages marriages to be so much later in life. It's kind of not fair.

So then we should be getting married in our early 20s instead of letting girls ride the cock carousel until 30.

**Odin** · 03-16-2018, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by Decius

"not fair" isnt an excuse to sin. The bible says fornication is wrong and thats that.

God also gave us free will. Does that make it right/wrong? That's for us to decide.

**Odin** · 03-16-2018, 10:57 PM

Originally Posted by Bobby Martnen

So then we should be getting married in our early 20s instead of letting girls ride the cock carousel until 30.

This is a pretty personal issue. Whatever anyone says on here about their virginity or regrets, you can't use that as part of your decision.

**~~Bobby Martnen~~** · 03-16-2018, 10:58 PM

Originally Posted by Odin

This is a pretty personal issue. Whatever anyone says on here about their virginity or regrets, you can't use that as part of your decision.

Society needs to put more pressure on young women to stay chaste until marriage and get married young.

**Odin** · 03-16-2018, 11:03 PM

Originally Posted by Bobby Martnen

Society needs to put more pressure on young women to stay chaste until marriage and get married young.

I think the whole idea of having sex before marriage has to be a personal choice. If your okay with having sex then go for it. But don't do anything just because everyone else is doing it.

**happycow** · 03-16-2018, 11:09 PM

It should not be morally acceptable. People should be free to do as they please, but just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Sex before marriage should always be frowned upon. But asking people to keep it in their pants or keep their legs closed is too much to ask.

**Tom Cat** · 03-16-2018, 11:34 PM

Originally Posted by Odin

I think the whole idea of having sex before marriage has to be a personal choice. If your okay with having sex then go for it. But don't do anything just because everyone else is doing it.

I concur.

However, I was once involved in a relationship that involved the promise of marriage, yet she reneged on her promise and left me for another man while carrying our child, who grew-up calling this other man 'daddy'. If we had been formally married, I would have at least been able to participate in raising the little girl I was never able to be a father to. And to this day I am deeply troubled by this.

Please, don't let this nightmare happen to you.