Girly Girl, or Tomb Boy?

[Mejgusu]

Lol didn’t know what the last one means. Both can be annoying or attractive attributes, so it depends on individuals or lets say maybe a mix of both? Imo there are more than two kind of women, beeing just one of that could be boring for me.

[RogueState]

The dichotomy between girly girls and tomboys are both byproducts of Western postmodernity

In short, as presented by the OP :
- The so-called girly girl is the typical dumb, fake, vulgar, shallow "Instagram-oid" fashion victim, craving attention, without any authentic personality nor ideology, only driven by appearance and material wealth

- The tomboy is the counterpart opposite of the girly girl, that rejects mainstream feminity in order to embrace hysterical resentment ideologies of SJW, pro-environment, cultural "marxism" (which has nothing to do with real marxism btw), neo-feminism (not about empowering women, but hating men), pro-LGBT (often pansexual/polyamorous), provokative style (short hair half shaven, purple dye, tattoos, piercing on nose, hairy armpit, never wear skirts or yoga pants), ...

I think it's a trap to pick a choice between these two corrupted postmodern concepts of feminity

Outside this spectrum, there is simply the "natural woman" (aka next door girl in the American socio-psychology) :

- Care about her feminine appearance and strive to be elegant without the excess of vulgarity of "girly girls" nor pseudo-"couldn't care less" attitude of tomboys

- Has authentic activities, from real interests, not as virtue-signalling/showing-off mechanisms or from resentment against the normative culture, such as singing, dancing, reading, watching series, cooking, music, arts, museums, baby and animal care, ...

- Embrace natural womanhood : keeping the house clean, love to cooking, taking care of people : husband, children, family, animals