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    Default White aid worker raped in Haiti says she is grateful for the experience

    We are not your weapons – we are women

    By Amanda Kijera, civic journalist and activist in Haiti

    Two weeks ago, on a Monday morning, I started to write what I thought was a very clever editorial about violence against women in Haiti. The case, I believed, was being overstated by women’s organizations in need of additional resources. Ever committed to preserving the dignity of Black men in a world which constantly stereotypes them as violent savages, I viewed this writing as yet one more opportunity to fight “the man” on behalf of my brothers. That night, before I could finish the piece, I was held on a rooftop in Haiti and raped repeatedly by one of the very men who I had spent the bulk of my life advocating for.

    It hurt. The experience was almost more than I could bear. I begged him to stop. Afraid he would kill me, I pleaded with him to honor my commitment to Haiti, to him as a brother in the mutual struggle for an end to our common oppression, but to no avail. He didn’t care that I was a Malcolm X scholar [ ]. He told me to shut up, and then slapped me in the face. Overpowered, I gave up fighting halfway through the night.

    Accepting the helplessness of my situation, I chucked aside the Haiti bracelet I had worn so proudly for over a year, along with it, my dreams of human liberation. Someone, I told myself, would always be bigger and stronger than me. As a woman, my place in life had been ascribed from birth. A Chinese proverb says that “women are like the grass, meant to be stepped on.” The thought comforted me at the same time that it made me cringe.

    A dangerous thought. Others like it have derailed movements, discouraged consciousness and retarded progress for centuries. To accept it as truth signals the beginning of the end of a person–or community’s–life and ability to self-love. Resignation means inertia, and for the past two weeks I have inhabited its innards. My neighbors here include women from all over the world, but it’s the women of African descent, and particularly Haitian women, who move me to write now.

    Truly, I have witnessed as a journalist and human rights advocate the many injustices inflicted upon Black men in this world. The pain, trauma and rage born of exploitation are terrors that I have grappled with every day of my life. They make one want to strike back, to fight rabidly for what is left of their personal dignity in the wake of such things. Black men have every right to the anger they feel in response to their position in the global hierarchy, but their anger is misdirected.

    Women are not the source of their oppression; oppressive policies and the as-yet unaddressed white patriarchy which still dominates the global stage are. Because women–and particularly women of color–are forced to bear the brunt of the Black male response to the Black male plight, the international community and those nations who have benefitted from the oppression of colonized peoples have a responsibility to provide women with the protection that they need.

    The United Nations, western women’s organizations and the Haitian government must immediately provide women in Haiti with the funding that they need to build domestic violence and rape crisis centers. Stop dividing Black families by distributing solely to women, which only exaggerates male resentment and frustration in Haiti. Provide both women and men with job training programs that would allow for self-sufficiency as opposed to continued dependency on whites. Lastly, admit that the issue of racial integration might still need addressing on an international level, and then find a way to address it!



    I went to Haiti after the earthquake to empower Haitians to self-sufficiency. I went to remind them of the many great contributions that Afro-descendants have made to this world, and of their amazing resilience and strength as a people. Not once did I envision myself becoming a receptacle for a Black man’s rage at the white world, but that is what I became. While I take issue with my brother’s behavior, I’m grateful for the experience. It woke me up, made me understand on a deeper level the terror that my sisters deal with daily. This in hand, I feel comfortable in speaking for Haitian women, and for myself, in saying that we will not be your pawns, racially, politically, economically or otherwise.

    We are women, not weapons of war. Thankfully, there are organizations here in Haiti who continues to fight for women’s human rights like, MADRE, SOFA and Enfofanm.

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    The same story on OD. Comes with pictorial goodness:


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    I never understood such people. Stockholm Syndrome or liberal denial of the cold hard facts ?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Asega View Post
    hard facts
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarl View Post
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    Now that you mention it. It's too saddening and disheartening to laugh about though.


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    Not laugh??? She is mental. Just read - this is taken out of the text:

    Quote Originally Posted by Eldritch View Post
    Ever committed to preserving the dignity of Black men

    As a woman, my place in life had been ascribed from birth. The thought comforted me

    advocate the many injustices inflicted upon Black men in this world

    Black men have every right to the anger they feel in response

    Black male response to the Black male plight

    receptacle for a Black man’s rage at the white world

    If this happened at all (which I doubt), then she's adding a whole damn complex philosophy to a pretty simple thing which can be shortened to:


    violent savages... told me to shut up, and then slapped me in the face... raped repeatedly
    Simples!

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    I believe that for the sake of making sure that she doesn't spread any infections (STD's as well as ideas) she should be kept away from the general public of her home country as well as been denied re-entrance. Since she likes those people so much she might just as well being deported there- unless the has herself admitted to a mental hospital.

    Perhaps that's where her future is. Although this is incredibly disheartening.


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    Hilarious. Send her to the congo now, pretty please. The brothers need to vent their respectable rage.
    (I doubt this is true)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Asega View Post
    Perhaps that's where her future is. Although this is incredibly disheartening.
    I first encountered this phenomenon almost 10 years ago, when a friend of my ex had her mobile stolen by a Somali. Instead of adding that experience to her accumulated data vault about the way things happen in the real world, her first priority was to engage in a profound self-examination to prevent any un-PC attitudes from taking hold.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hereward View Post
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    (I doubt this is true)
    As outrageous and pathetic this story may be, I don't doubt for a minute it is true, unfortunately.

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