Unchaste Marriages?

[Unome]

What's your feeling and opinion about Unchaste Marriages, where the female does not have her virginity intact?

I think they're fake, and unworthy of respect. They're not Real marriages. What do you think?


Would you build your house and family upon a strong (moral) foundation like this:




Or like this?

[Queen B]

What's your feeling and opinion about Unchaste Marriages, where the female does not have her virginity intact?
I think they're fake, and unworthy of respect. They're not Real marriages. What do you think?

What about the male virginity?

[Unome]

What about the male virginity?

No such thing, only females can be virgins (intact hymen).

[Harley]

I think any marriage will fail unless the marriage partners have similar end goals.

Marriage to some degree is also like a business partnership. There are expectations for either partner and hopefully they can come to an agreement on the direction of the relationship before marrying.

In terms of the marriage itself, my virginity was taken by force. That means any marriage I had or will engage in will be uneven, according to you. I disagree with that notion.

What do you think of marriages in which they've been married for years(maybe like 2-3 years) and they haven't fully copulated? Is that considered an uneven foundation?

[Jehan]

No such thing, only females can be virgins (intact hymen).

It's a bit hypocrite to ask you wife be virgins if on your side you had sex with several women before.

[Queen B]

No such thing, only females can be virgins (intact hymen).

Hymen is just a body part, nothing more.She could have lost it in sport, in an accident, by many ways.
I'm talking about the actual virginity.
If a man excepts a women to never have sex till marriage, then he should be the same as well.

[TheBlondeSalad]

Some people place this mystical value on female virginity, but I think it's an obsolete, redundant concept. If a man doesn't love you regardless of whether or not you're a virgin then is he really worth your time?

OP is a massive hypocrite.

[Unome]

I think any marriage will fail unless the marriage partners have similar end goals.

Marriage to some degree is also like a business partnership. There are expectations for either partner and hopefully they can come to an agreement on the direction of the relationship before marrying.

That's the capitalistic approach to marriage. It reminds me of prostitution, trading sex for money. Marriage should be about family-building IMO.

In terms of the marriage itself, my virginity was taken by force. That means any marriage I had or will engage in will be uneven, according to you. I disagree with that notion.

It's the duty and responsibility of your biological father to protect your virginity until marriage.

But yes, I believe even rape ought to exclude young women from traditional marriage.

It doesn't matter who's fault it is or who's to blame.

What do you think of marriages in which they've been married for years(maybe like 2-3 years) and they haven't fully copulated? Is that considered an uneven foundation?

If the wife is barren then she is still the husband's responsibility.

[robar]

It is obvious sex before marriage should be illegal, like in the middle ages,no idea why that law changed?

[Unome]

It's a bit hypocrite to ask you wife be virgins if on your side you had sex with several women before.

It's not, because men and women are not equal.

People should not expect a different category to act in the same manner.

It is a challenge for a beautiful woman to remain chaste. Men have different challenges in life.