Female Incel

**Smaug** · 03-21-2015, 03:23 PM

Female incels exist where drunk men don't.

**Unome** · 03-21-2015, 03:23 PM

Originally Posted by Longbowman

You didn't read the OP, then.

Oh, you're right (the double-negative threw me off)

My point still stands though, an unattractive woman can get laid much, much easier than an unattractive man.

EDIT: Also the woman in the video can get laid by lowering her standards. By gender, the average female has much higher standards for sex than the average male. Because women have to stay, birth, and raise the resulting child from sex. Male and female standards for sex are not equivalent.

**Taiga Lake** · 03-21-2015, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by Longbowman

'Involuntary celibate.' A virgin that doesn't want to be a virgin. Also applies to people who have not had sex in a [very] long time, but want to.

Oh okay, another first world beta humbug term then.

**Longbowman** · 03-21-2015, 03:31 PM

Originally Posted by Lapp

Oh okay, another first world beta humbug term then.

The term is generally discussed seriously only by people to whom it applies.

**Taiga Lake** · 03-21-2015, 03:40 PM

Originally Posted by Longbowman

The term is generally discussed seriously only by people to whom it applies.

Yeah, i just watched some videos of these incel guys and if they have time to make some 10 minute videos where they self-pity and whine, instead they could use that time to actually improve themselves, but i guess some people believe making yourself look like an total loser and blaming others (and even if they are, it doesn't mean you should show it to whole world) is the key to woman's heart (or man's heart, in women's case).

**Mary** · 03-21-2015, 09:52 PM

There are lots of female incels. Not in the sense that they couldn't get laid if they really tried, but in the sense that they don't try because they're too inhibited, they result is the same as for men that can't get laid.

**Unome** · 03-21-2015, 09:55 PM

Involuntary Celibacy = Trying to get laid, but cannot

Voluntary Celibacy = Can get laid, but does not try

**Mary** · 03-21-2015, 09:59 PM

Originally Posted by Unome

Involuntary Celibacy = Trying to get laid, but cannot

Voluntary Celibacy = Can get laid, but does not try

Everyone can pay for sex. So by that standard there are no incels, right? My point is that a lot of women try to get laid, by flirting with guys for example, but they're too inhibited to pay for a male hooker. They're still female incels.

**Dandelion** · 03-21-2015, 10:00 PM

Most female incels are probably also very prude and easily scared away. At least the ones that aren't butt ugly.

**Amud** · 03-21-2015, 10:00 PM

Originally Posted by Mary

Everyone can pay for sex. So by that standard there are no incels, right? My point is that a lot of women try to get laid, by flirting with guys for example, but they're too inhibited to pay for a male hooker. They're still female incels.

No. First off, we can take hookers out of the equation since the main problem with involuntary celibacy is not lack of the physical act of sex, but lack of validation. Second, even women who are very fat, unattractive, inhibited, disabled, or deformed can find hundreds of men who will gladly buy them dinner, wine, and jewelry just for the opportunity to maybe have sex with them. Just look at the statistics from online dating sites. Even the women rated least attractive get tons of messages, while the men rated least attractive get practically none.