25 Struggles Only ENFPs Will Understand

**GiCa** · 10-09-2018, 09:08 PM

People keeping saying at me that I become obsessed with some things.. Because yes I become obsessed I agree.. But it s not a unhealthy obsession like they think.. My obsession is healthy because I focus and reflect a lot with a thing I m fashinated with

Basically I examinate that thing from infinite perspectives and with infinite way of doing it with the purpose to discover and learn new interesting thing about it or related to it or that connect it with other things

My same ability of obsessions happens therefore and for sure also on people as individual.. Indeed when you because acquainted to me or you are becoming a friend or a new acquaintance you don't know it but you are already under my x-ray (mataphorical!) sight.. I will analize you in infinite way and I will know you in infinite details and will know everything possible about you and on you that you ll ever will know

**GiCa** · 10-09-2018, 09:24 PM

Me forgetting where I put things and when I was a child my parents always stressing me about it and being mad at me (now is my BF that do that to me complaining I forget where I phisically put things)

Same as they being mad at me because I easyly left more things in disorder.. But me actually finding things I need in the disorder I Created.. And me continously being more obsessed with discipline and leaving less disorder

**GiCa** · 10-09-2018, 09:34 PM

When a child being mad and stressed that in a moment I didn t got to have fun and feeling bored and telling that to. My parents that I wanted less boring time and they getting impatient at my stubbornness and getting mad at me for my insistence.. "Julia.. You can have everything and instantanealy".. Me yelling "but I want to do that!" and crying.. And more anger of my parents toward me..

"Julia please, stay a bit still for now!" me: "no I want to go out now! I m bored"... Them: "you can t have everything"... And that you can t have everything always felt like the most horrible thing to me because I naturally tended to experiments the infinite things.. And the you can't felt like a condemnation

They not understanding i craved for fun and discovering new things and me not yet controlling my impulses

**GiCa** · 10-09-2018, 10:05 PM

Me being nice, because I tend to minimize the negative traits on people on focus on their positives one, but on the contrary some people not being nice at me.. And me still giving those people a chance until getting extremely hurt at the end and damaged by them.. At the end however I let live out of me those people ending me being nice on them and become naughty on them but this takes a lot of time because I keep Giving freely possibilities to people until the very last chance

**GiCa** · 10-09-2018, 10:18 PM

Some songs that some sociologists have linked to Enfp to describe this types due to the lyrics and music

Don t stop me now - queen
https://youtu.be/HgzGwKwLmgM

Grace Kelly - mika
https://youtu.be/IHisFtYwf1Y

**Peterski** · 10-09-2018, 10:19 PM

I'm not fully ENFP because I also get other things on these tests (for example ENTP), but I can relate to many of those points.

**GiCa** · 10-09-2018, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by Peterski

I'm not fully ENFP because I also get other things on these tests (for example ENTP), but I can relate to many of those points.

This is probably, just a supposition because men statistically tend more on T than F in a proportion of 60%-30% while females the reverse in the same proportion 60-30

There are also male enfp but probably if you were a woman you would have been more purely enFp

**~~Congolese Rice~~** · 10-09-2018, 10:37 PM

im also ENFP lol and 9/10 of this shit fits me

"18. Others being surprised that you hold such strong opinions and beliefs, despite your easy-going nature."

"16. People underestimating your intelligence because you lead with the fun, upbeat parts of your personality."

^ very fukkin true

**Slavic Italian** · 10-09-2018, 10:59 PM

Originally Posted by Congolese Rice

im also ENFP lol and 9/10 of this shit fits me

"18. Others being surprised that you hold such strong opinions and beliefs, despite your easy-going nature."

"16. People underestimating your intelligence because you lead with the fun, upbeat parts of your personality."

^ very fukkin true

I can relate