Women More Forgiving Towards Handsome Men

[calxpal]

This is not surprising at all, and people are usually super forgiving of attractive women as well from what I've seen even for some of the cruelest and most dishonest actions. Hopefully society can eventually move more towards forgiving everyone equally.

[calxpal]

Judging a person on their looks seems like a very childish attitude, when you are a kid you are more likely to do that because you aren't mature enough, but unfortunely that are even many adults that literally judge 99% of any person on their looks.

It is yes I totally agree with this, but I've found lookism is still unfortunately very prevalent among adults. I've found that many adults who judge and choose to be friends with someone based on their looks are usually super absorbed in being social and becoming popular/improving their image more than anything else, I've also found they tend to be the cliquey immature high school mentality types and are very vain and usually lack good personality traits. Ofc this may not always be the case though, just from my observations.

[calxpal]

Everyone is more willing to put up with attractive people. Women don't even like getting complimented by men they find ugly. Today's society is lookist and the sooner you accept that, the better.

A lot of women don't accept genuine compliments from me as a fellow woman, hope that isn't a bad sign lol. And yes I definitely agree with your last point I remember as soon as I actually started putting minimal effort into my appearance and doing basic things to improve my looks (like getting rid of my glasses and wearing more fashionable clothes) I noticed a small but very noticeable change in the way people treated me and I got my foot in the door for opportunities with less effort, also less people tried to bully me and people didn't ignore me as much. But I could still never compete with very attractive women, ever. Tbh I kind of wish I would have cared about my appearance sooner, I should have accepted that society was lookist when I was a kid although I was always told and unfortunately believed that "looks don't matter" and "It's personality that counts" which I now know is one of the biggest BS lies ever to make people feel good. Maybe I'm wrong about some of the things I said but yeah just my thoughts.

[HectorOfTroy]

A lot of women don't accept genuine compliments from me as a fellow woman, hope that isn't a bad sign lol. And yes I definitely agree with your last point I remember as soon as I actually started putting minimal effort into my appearance and doing basic things to improve my looks (like getting rid of my glasses and wearing more fashionable clothes) I noticed a small but very noticeable change in the way people treated me and I got my foot in the door for opportunities with less effort, also less people tried to bully me and people didn't ignore me as much. But I could still never compete with very attractive women, ever. Tbh I kind of wish I would have cared about my appearance sooner, I should have accepted that society was lookist when I was a kid although I was always told and unfortunately believed that "looks don't matter" and "It's personality that counts" which I now know is one of the biggest BS lies ever to make people feel good. Maybe I'm wrong about some of the things I said but yeah just my thoughts.

Maybe it's different for people who are noticeably more intelligent than average, hopefully.

This is not surprising at all, and beta cucks* are usually super forgiving of attractive women as well from what I've seen even for some of the cruelest and most dishonest actions. Hopefully society can eventually move more towards forgiving everyone equally.

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[Sasaolo68]

It is yes I totally agree with this, but I've found lookism is still unfortunately very prevalent among adults. I've found that many adults who judge and choose to be friends with someone based on their looks are usually super absorbed in being social and becoming popular/improving their image more than anything else, I've also found they tend to be the cliquey immature high school mentality types and are very vain and usually lack good personality traits. Ofc this may not always be the case though, just from my observations.

Still to this day i see many adults almost worshipping some cool/"funny" guys, when in reality it is so obvious they just "like" them to improve their status LOL. It is funny that some of these same people would say that some person have a "boring personality", but well, i also don't think that copying and worshipping some guys seems like a interesting personality, wtf lol.

[Rohanspiritual]

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