Age at marriage

[Rainraven]

its not so simple for me due to issues of mind and spirit, i need more than good looks and and someone to cook dinner,
i need someone who understands my goals in life and will help support those so i can support there goals. they would need to have something in them that makes them special, i need someone who i have a connection with based on intellect and spiritual matters,
some one who has a good heart and understand me so i could be myself and not worry about putting on a show.
also where i live it is hard finding a woman of my racial background who i could marry
no i dont need to get married right now or ever i suppose but its a natural desire most humans have.
they want a family there own tribe some one to love and take care of and do the same for them, loneliness i suppose motivates these wants,

You sound too fussy for me, you want to connect on a spiritual level and you're a Christian..

[Grumpy Cat]

for real!!! oh yesss!!!! i am taking a trip to cannada!!!

Yes but it is sad.

I was with a guy for a long time, but the oil patch took him away.

[blan]

You sound too fussy for me, you want to connect on a spiritual level and you're a Christian..

i said nothing about religion i said some one i connect with.
spiritual is an expression meaning matters of heart and mind,
i am a christian by culture and personal ideals and faith not according to religious institutions,

[blan]

Yes but it is sad.

I was with a guy for a long time, but the oil patch took him away.

oil patch?? what is it? tell me the name of these villages and i will be there very soon.

[Grumpy Cat]

oil patch?? what is it? tell me the name of these villages and i will be there very soon.

The bitumen sands in Alberta.

Pretty much everywhere you go here, there is a lack of men. Good men, anyways.

[blan]

Pretty much everywhere you go here, there is a lack of men. Good men, anyways.

well i have one of those criteria covered for sure ..... seriously i will be in this village very soon.

[Bloodeagle]

I don't think a man should marry until he has made a name for himself in the world or can at least offer some financial stability towards maintaining a family.
Nothing screws a relationship up quicker than being broke all of the time.

I first married at 20 with baby in tow. I was still a kid and had no skills to rely upon to make ends meet.
After 6 years of marriage we decided that we didn't even know each other anymore. So we split up.

It was a trial by fire.
We are both much happier now.

[blan]

I don't think a man should marry until he has made a name for himself in the world or can at least offer some financial stability towards maintaining a family.
Nothing screws a relationship up quicker than being broke all of the time.

I first married at 20 with baby in tow. I was still a kid and had no skills to rely upon to make ends meet.
After 6 years of marriage we decided that we didn't even know each other anymore. So we split up.

It was a trial by fire.
We are both much happier now.

your right, my biggest goal is to be succesful and to have the money i need first

[Absinthe]

I think it's a matter of luck and circumstances, there's no such thing as an ideal age.

Many of the people who pressure themselves to get married before their 30s end up getting divorced because they did it just for the lulz.

[Groenewolf]

Ironically for some kind of reason this tread does not show any dating adds. Including that elite dating add.