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The father who had a daughter with his daughter speaks: "My greatest crime has been to fall in love"
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Cristino and Sara as well as father and daughter are couple, have a daughter in common and fight for their custody in Mallorca. They have a sentimental relationship for three years.
Cristino and Sara as well as father and daughter are couple, have a daughter in common and fight for their custody in Mallorca. They have a sentimental relationship for three years.
The story of Cristino (37) and Sara (19), as he himself acknowledges, is difficult to explain and complicated to understand. They fell in love three years ago and does just one who was born his daughter, the sixth for Cristino, the first for Sara. But they hardly know the girl. Sara sees her girl for an hour a week but Cristino will not let her. Cristino is Sara's father. Together they have a daughter. Cristino, therefore, is the grandfather of his own daughter.
It looks like a telenovela but it's real. Sara is the oldest of five brothers, born of Cristino and her then wife. The digital cronicabalear.es published in November 2015: "A father who has had a baby with his daughter denounces moral judgment to remove the parental authority"
Cristino was born into an unstructured family. At the age of 16 he began dating with the one who later became his wife. At the age of 18, he was the first father of a girl they called Sara. The couple had four other children and according to a friend of Cristino's account "Sara took care of and protected her siblings since she was little." When Cristino and his wife (Sara's mother) separated, Sara went to live with her father.
Cristino is not allowed to see his daughter who is, at the same time, his granddaughter.
Cristino is not allowed to see his daughter who is, at the same time, his granddaughter.
At the time they began a romantic relationship and a year later Sara became pregnant. He was 17 years old. Then they decided to tell the ex-wife of Cristino and mother of Sara, who denounced her ex-husband for abuses to a minor. The case was dismissed when Sara said that these sexual relations with her father had been voluntary and therefore consensual. Cristino acknowledges that "I had to have done a little better, but the only thing I regret is that I told him. My greatest crime has been to fall in love with my daughter."
The girl carries the surnames of Sara and, a few days after her birth, the Mallorcan Institute of Social Affairs withdrew the custody of her daughter. On the morning of this Friday was held in Palma the trial in which Sara claims to be returned to her daughter. He was seen for sentencing. The only possibility for mother and daughter to be together is to take Cristino away from the minor. Sara is willing to live with her daughter in a center despite the fact that she has to stay away from Cristino, who insists that "what matters is her daughter, my daughter."
The children have never lacked anything. I'm a good person
Of its previous relation Cristino has, besides Sara, four more children, of 17, 16, 15 and 8 years. The two girls live in the same center of minors, separated from their two little brothers, together in another center; And are aware of the relationship of his father with his sister, with which they maintain, say sources close, very good relationship. According to Cristino, his children want to live with him: "The children have never lacked anything. I am a good person."
Sara and Cristino went to a private psychologist to assess the relationship, to show that, although it is a strange case, there is only what they say there is love. In her report the psychologist concluded that Sara is qualified to be a mother but that her relationship with her father, Cristino, is toxic. This Friday the specialist declared as a witness on the part of Sara.
For Cristino, it's all a matter of moral taboos: "Yes, I have committed incest, but it is not an illegality. A relationship is two-fold." He does not understand that someone outside of them decides about his destiny and feels helpless before what he considers a robbery of his own daughter.
The mother of a friend of Cristino is his real support, although it does not count on its moral approval and affirms that the romantic relation between Sara and Cristino "was seen to come, but on the part of Sara. Different from a father ". The complex of Electra carried to its final consequences, beget a son. The woman thinks that Cristino did not know how to establish the distance between a father and a daughter but recognizes that he is a good parent.
They are getting carried away by a moral taboo instead of looking for the benefit of my daughter
Sara lives with her aunt, Cristino's sister, works in the mornings in the business of Cristino's father, who is his grandfather, and devotes the afternoon to studying the course he is receiving. Cristino lives with his father.
They complain about having a relationship with my daughter and have no right to decide about the lives of others. They are getting carried away by a moral taboo instead of looking for the benefit of My daughter, "Cristino refers to his sixth daughter.
"I do not want to be a pioneer in opening sentimental relationships between parents and children," says Cristino. Denounces that they are forced to "desquererse" for Sara to return the custody of the girl. Cristino expresses that his is an isolated case, that never has been fixed in minors, that is not a pederasta nor a manipulator. And it is based on what he lived as a child, although he prefers not to go into details: "I have always seen that those who pay the duck are the children and I did not want that." He feels that not only has he been punished, but also Sara has been separated from her daughter. "
The environment of both has embedded the story in a different way. Some with surprise and resignation. Others with apparent or real naturalness. And the rest with all the questions that arise about a debate between morality and reason, head and heart, judgment and acceptance. The strength and weakness of the individual to deal with issues of exquisite complexity that open the channel of the soul of the human being.
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