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How can you cold-heartedly refer to an unborn baby as 'it'?
Childbirth is completely natural in nature and it certainly doesn't 'destroy your body' - unlike cancer!
You make pregnancy, childbirth, and having natural maternal feelings of love for children... sound like an illness in life.
Yes childbirth is a painful experience, but there's pain relief options during labour such as epidurals, gas & air, etc. (How would you know how childbirth feels when you've never had any children in life?! And how would you know what it feels like for a man to be 'kicked in the balls' to type that labour pains feels worse than that? ) Being in labour is like experiencing painful menstrual cramps with each contraction (although special breathing techniques that are learned during antenatal classes helps) except it's more intense than period pains.
If childbirth was that awful, then people would never give birth again and again. Nobody would have families and children anymore if having children 'destroyed them.' The maternity staff in hospitals often smile and say to couples who are leaving the hospital-ward to return home with their precious newborn babies... 'See you again next year!'
The way pain feels and is experienced varies in different people and the duration of the labour also varies too. But childbirth isn't as bad as people who've not experienced the pain anticipate it to be as there is different types of pain-relief available during labour.
Some females like to have relaxing water-births as a natural method of pain relief. Water-births has been practiced in Western nations for many centuries. Lots of hospital maternity wards offer these facilities and have special water-birth pools where the baby is born underwater, along with utilising breathing techniques to ease the pain. It's a soothing and nice way for a newborn to enter into the world.
There's more physically painful experiences in life than childbirth, like having an injury and severe nerve pain and requiring an emergency operation and painkillers for several months following a fall. (I found that experience was far more painful than childbirth.)
I've done balletcise classes, pilates, gym, chantraine dance classes, iyengar yoga classes (I've even gained certificates in this,) since giving birth to two children. Children keep you energetic too:
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I could post plenty of examples of famous people, top models, singers, stars, celebs, etc, all with children.... and great figures. (Some of whom of slimmer, far more toned and in better shape than some overweight and lazy people with no children.)
Top supermodel Kate Moss (in her forties in Vogue with one child)
Sophie Ellis Bextor has four children. She's in her mid thirties in the images below from her music album 2015/6.
Victoria Beckham has four children (she gave birth to all her children through her stomach and C-Section delivery) and she has kept herself slim and her muscles toned too.
An obese teenager below with no children. Childbirth didn't make her like that because she has no children! So nobody can blame her weight on having children. There's no excuses for obesity and laziness. (Ask the poster Mary who is also slim and she's very toned and has several children.)
Victoria (in her thirties below) is twice that teenager's age in the picture, plus Victoria has four children, yet she's in a healthier and better physical shape than that obese teenager.
Also see how slim and toned Nicole Kidman still is after having children, how energetic Madonna is, Angelina Jolie, and others with children are. Childbirth hasn't destroyed them either.
Some people are too vain and afraid of the natural aging process in nature (people will age anyway whether they have children in life or not.)
Elderly people with children and grandchildren are usually happier and more fulfilled in life than old people who die lonely with no children, no grandchildren, no great-grandchildren, etc, and nobody around to ever love or care for them in return for all the love and care they gave to their children in life. The thought of dying loney in the future is more scary than the beautiful feeling of creating a life.
Some people are too cold-hearted to have children and they don't realise all the happiness and love that children bring into life. (Some cynical people can only see the negative aspects in life and expect everything in life to be easy all the time.)
Sure, there's difficult times around children, sleepness nights, cleaning vomit and nappies, teething problems in infants, but loving mothers don't mind that and will take it in their stride and lovingly clean their childrens vomit and nappies out of love and care for their children. That's just second-nature to most mothers to love, protect, and care for their little ones. Just like other animals care for their young in nature.... it's just natural.
There's a special bond and feeling of closeness when cuddling your child and lovingly reading books to children, singing lullabies and watching them fall asleep. It's a very blissful, fulfilling, tranquil and peaceful feeling to experience.... just watching over your child sleeping after you've played games together and laughed together and read books together and bathed them and cuddled them... and lovingly wrapping-up their birthday and christmas presents and seeing the surprise in their eyes and sharing their pleasure and seeing the joy in their faces upon opening their presents.... and watching them sleeping and wondering about what they're dreaming when they're asleep.
It's also a very exciting feeling to be able to see the different stages of a fetus and new life developing during the ultrasound scans and being able to buy picture souvenirs.
(Some crazy people think that going out to pubs to drink all night, having a busy social life or having sex with strangers is their false idea of happiness. They don't realise all the happiness they're missing by not having any children. To me there's nothing more blissful than feeling true love and happiness with one person and settling down with them, and the content feeling of holding and cuddling your child at home and feeling secure and close to the children you love in life.)
The difficult times actually makes all the good and fun and happy times around children feel all the more sweeter. And motherhood helps females learn how to emotionally cope better in life too.
Childhood is a very special and magical time in life, and if people hate children so much - maybe they forget that they too were once a child.
Having children and breastfeeding can help reduce the risk of breast cancer later in life. Childbirth in nature doesn't destroy the body, but cancer can destroy the body.
Women who had their first full-term pregnancy after age 30, and women who have never borne a child have a greater risk of developing breast cancer. During pregnancy, estrogen levels surge so high that there is a small immediate risk of breast cancer, but the long-term effect, particularly with breast-feeding, decreases risk.
Starting at about age 45, childless women are at an increased risk for breast cancer in comparison with women who have had children, with the risk being from 20 to 70 percent greater.
Last edited by ♥ Lily ♥; 09-14-2017 at 01:10 AM.
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