Human relationships

[ЛыSSый]

Are you okay with the people around you? Rate your relationship with them.

I'm getting sick by the people around me.

everithing is great - who not with us - those under us.

[Arduti]

I don't relate to any of you humans!
lol

[Annie999]

This is something I noticed after I hit the 30s: I started to value quality over quantity. I used to have many friends and acquaintances but then I started to focus more on the people that were actually of some value to me and not just filling. Nowadays I don't try to please others or be so eager to befriend them like in the past. Like right now my only concern are my spouse, my family and close friends. I feel I had time to filter people in my life and ended up choosing the best. I don't know what the future will bring but right now Im pretty content.

[Maria Sharapova]

I hate 95% of people. Humans are slime. Nothing but flawed mindless zombie drones. They should be exterminated.
They are for the most part rude, obnoxious, selfish entities incapable of any kind of deep meaningful thought.
But the main reason I hate them is because deep down I am jealous of their ignorant lives. My mind is always thinking thinking thinking, never turning off with nothing but NEGATIVE destructive thoughts. I suppose this is the price I past pay for being so aware of my surroundings and the universe. They are right when they say ignorance is Bliss. I am too critical of everything and I overanalyse everything, replaying past events and simulating future events in my head to the point of madness.
Ruminating, the act of thinking about situations over and over again, has rightly been linked to health problems. There’s nothing we get out of worrying about whether we made the right choices, said the right things — or worse, the wrong things — yet many people continue to do so, as if thinking about it justifies what happened. But even as ruminating leads people down a rabbit hole of stress
http://www.medicaldaily.com/silver-l...ligence-315352

I am deficient in Serotonin and GABA (gamma-aminobutyric acid) (!)
Serotoninis called the “happiness molecule” because it’s so essential for a positive mood.

Low serotonin levels are linked to the most common mood disorders of our time — depression, anxiety, eating disorders, insomnia, obsessive compulsive disorder, and seasonal affective disorder.

GABA (gamma-aminobutyric acid) is a relaxing neurotransmitter that’s been dubbed “nature’s Valium.”
This brain chemical normally puts the brakes on brain activity on an as-needed basis, but when you’re low in GABA your mind gets stuck in the “on” position.

Typical symptoms of low GABA are being easily stressed out, overstimulated, and overwhelmed.

Other signs and symptoms of low GABA are lying awake with racing thoughts, feeling dread for no particular reason, and experiencing heart palpitations, cold hands, and shortness of breath.

Low GABA is associated with anxiety disorders and panic attacks, as well as physical disorders with an emotional component such as irritable bowel syndrome and fibromyalgia.
https://bebrainfit.com/balance-neurotransmitters/

I wish I had a normal healthy NT carefree brain like everyone else! I am never happy! In addition to this I am having issues with the health of my family members! Such luck! Even the medication isn't helping me anymore! My mind is constantly going a mile a minute! If you take one thing out of this silly rant make it this: Almost everything in your life is beyond your control and it all comes down to how the atoms in the universe interact with eachover! Take solice in and accept this fact as it is liberating to finally accept that life is nothing but a GAME of chance, some win, some break even, and others like myself simply lose

[Pennywise]

I hate 95% of people. Humans are slime. Nothing but flawed mindless zombie drones. They should be exterminated.
They are for the most part rude, obnoxious, selfish entities incapable of any kind of deep meaningful thought.
But the main reason I hate them is because deep down I am jealous of their ignorant lives. My mind is always thinking thinking thinking, never turning off with nothing but NEGATIVE destructive thoughts. I suppose this is the price I past pay for being so aware of my surroundings and the universe. They are right when they say ignorance is Bliss. I am too critical of everything and I overanalyse everything, replaying past events and simulating future events in my head to the point of madness.
Ruminating, the act of thinking about situations over and over again, has rightly been linked to health problems. There’s nothing we get out of worrying about whether we made the right choices, said the right things — or worse, the wrong things — yet many people continue to do so, as if thinking about it justifies what happened. But even as ruminating leads people down a rabbit hole of stress
http://www.medicaldaily.com/silver-l...ligence-315352

I am deficient in Serotonin and GABA (gamma-aminobutyric acid) (!)
Serotoninis called the “happiness molecule” because it’s so essential for a positive mood.

Low serotonin levels are linked to the most common mood disorders of our time — depression, anxiety, eating disorders, insomnia, obsessive compulsive disorder, and seasonal affective disorder.

GABA (gamma-aminobutyric acid) is a relaxing neurotransmitter that’s been dubbed “nature’s Valium.”
This brain chemical normally puts the brakes on brain activity on an as-needed basis, but when you’re low in GABA your mind gets stuck in the “on” position.

Typical symptoms of low GABA are being easily stressed out, overstimulated, and overwhelmed.

Other signs and symptoms of low GABA are lying awake with racing thoughts, feeling dread for no particular reason, and experiencing heart palpitations, cold hands, and shortness of breath.

Low GABA is associated with anxiety disorders and panic attacks, as well as physical disorders with an emotional component such as irritable bowel syndrome and fibromyalgia.
https://bebrainfit.com/balance-neurotransmitters/

I wish I had a normal healthy NT carefree brain like everyone else! I am never happy! In addition to this I am having issues with the health of my family members! Such luck! Even the medication isn't helping me anymore! My mind is constantly going a mile a minute! If you take one thing out of this silly rant make it this: Almost everything in your life is beyond your control and it all comes down to how the atoms in the universe interact with eachover! Take solice in and accept this fact as it is liberating to finally accept that life is nothing but a GAME of chance, some win, some break even, and others like myself simply lose

I totally get you. You seem to me suffering from anxiety and depression. People are ungrateful and tend to often fail you down. Then you beat yourself by keep asking "what am I doing wrong?", "Why am I not sufficent enough?" and etc. The problem is not with you but with the other peoples around you. You should always keep this in mind. If you give value to someone more than she/he deserves, you loose your own value in that person's eyes. I guess there is nothing much we can do about it. We can't control peoples thoughts and emotions except for hoping they will be sincere enough to pay you back equally. But if you put your expectations too high, you are more likely to get disappointed by them.

[Pennywise]

Manzikert, it seems that you have Asperger's.

Everyone else who thinks like you is probably also on the spectrum.

You are 100% like CrazyDaisy, except that she denies being an Aspie.

You also have a lot of misconceptions about people with NT brains.

Get the fuck out.

[Pennywise]

I'm not getting the fuck out, because this is not a safe-space for Aspies. If you didn't hate NTs (such as me) with a passion, you could actually make friends and get along. I do not hate people like you, I'm trying to understand people like you. And I'm not a "mindless zombie".

Polak, stop polluting this thread with your usual bullshit and disturbing others. I know the reason of your asspain and I'm being modest to you right now. You are just a sick little fuck with heavy mental problems, calling you an autist would be too nice.
Again, GET THE FUCK OUT.

[Peterski]

I do not have problems with human relationships, unlike the OP, and many TA members.

[Kazimiera]

This is something I noticed after I hit the 30s: I started to value quality over quantity. I used to have many friends and acquaintances but then I started to focus more on the people that were actually of some value to me and not just filling. Nowadays I don't try to please others or be so eager to befriend them like in the past. Like right now my only concern are my spouse, my family and close friends. I feel I had time to filter people in my life and ended up choosing the best. I don't know what the future will bring but right now Im pretty content.

Amen.

The same for me. When I was younger I was super-social. I knew everyone, visited everyone, they visited me. My flat always had a stream of people going in and out, drinking coffee, playing music, watching TV.

Nowadays I don't have the energy (or interest) for that level of socialising, nor do I care. NOBODY comes into my house. Most people don't even know where I live. I'm very territorial now. My house is open to family only. If I do socialise with other people, it is in a public coffee shop where, if I'm tired of them, I can go home. When you invite someone potentially bothersome in, you can't get rid of them without sounding rude, and WORSE - they might arrive unannounced for a visit and then you are stuck with them. I have less patience for other people's bullshit than I used to have.

[♥ Lily ♥]

Are you okay with the people around you? Rate your relationship with them.

I'm getting sick by the people around me.

A dislike of humankind is called misanthropy. If you feel this way, then you're misanthropic.

There's a difference between a person feeling lonely and who yearns for company... and a person who likes to have their own tranquil space a lot without others interrupting their thoughts and who prefers to be alone.

I find that animals (such as birds) are more trustworthy to be around than some people.

You can whisper your feelings to a loyal pet animal who will never tell your secrets to anyone, and they won't harm you or let you down if you care for them properly.