Beating your children as a parent?

[Root]

LOL.


I was slapped in the face by my mom a few times when i was young.

slapped?

[Sui Generis]

Noooo of course..
Beating cant be solve. Even it creates new problems. You can make your child's character worse. And you cut your communication with them. If you cut this communication, they can remove you from their life and maybe they can make much worse things without your info.. So if you think you will educate them by beating you are too stupid.

This is one of important thing I learned by my father. Even not just beating he has never raised his voice volume to me lool. And he is doing same now for my niece. He is saying dont beat, dont scream, dont break communication between you.

Of course you wont do everyrthing they want too. They should know they cant have everything, they cant do what they want. But you can teach this by another methods instead beating.

[Pigling]

No.

Varg Vikernes once said that physical abuse of children make them psychopathic and bloodthirsty when they grow up.

[al-Bosni]

It's normal in Bosnian families. Kids even joke around about their moms kicking their ass and whipping them with a belt. It's love that hurts.

[Maintenance]

slapped?

Open hand slap

[Gangrel]

my dad used to beat the shit out of me lmao

[Kazimiera]

LOL.

I was slapped in the face by my mom a few times when i was young.

When I was being really impossible I had a few open hand slaps in the face from my grandmother. God, did that woman have power. She could have knocked out Mike Tyson.

I can count those slaps on one hand but I'll never forget them.

[Bobby Martnen]

Nope. Of course not.

Parents can show the limits to their kids other ways.

Your parents obviously neglected to teach you that it's important to treat others with respect, even on the internet.

[Skjaldemjøden]

My grandmother was slapped by her father once. He thought she let someone else do her homework, which wasn't true. He apologized about sixty years later when she confronted him about it. She would always get in the way of my grandfather when he intended on hitting their children.
My other grandmother was beaten by her Norwegian nanny as an infant and locked up in a dark closet. When my great-grandparents found the bruises on her body they fired the woman. They never laid a finger on her. My grandfather was hit by his mother, who was herself hit by her mother with a carpet beater as a child. The women in that family were very strict, while the men were "softer" parents.
Both my parents were slapped a few times as children by their fathers. I was slapped by both of my parents, but I could probably count the times on two hands. My grandmother slapped me once on the wrist when I climbed on the railing of a fifth story window. My mom slapped me once when I swore at her. I was in kindergarten and I had no idea what this new word meant, only that it was something you said when you were angry. My parents sat me down and explained what 'luder' meant later, and I never used that word again until I was much older.
I'll probably end up slapping my children a few times myself. It's considered taboo in Denmark, but I think it's an effective corrective measure based on my own experience.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

One should not allow their frustration to dictate their behavior and hitting a child is an example of frustration dictating behavior.

Psychological torture is more effective anyway and probably more entertaining.