Beating your children as a parent?

[Arduti]

No child should be allowed to impose himself or herself on others, especially parents and adults.
Correcting behavior harshly is the only way to get results. Try diplomacy with a child, lol. You'll see very quickly who's cuter, sweeter, and more manipulative in that case, and you'll lose.
Kids should know what respect is and today they don't. They don't respect their parents, teachers, peers, and least of all themselves otherwise they wouldn't behave so poorly.

But I think beating is too much.

[Kelmendasi]

No child should be allowed to impose himself or herself on others, especially parents and adults.
Correcting behavior harshly is the only way to get results. Try diplomacy with a child, lol. You'll see very quickly who's cuter, sweeter, and more manipulative in that case, and you'll lose.
Kids should know what respect is and today they don't. They don't respect their parents, teachers, peers, and least of all themselves otherwise they wouldn't behave so poorly.

But I think beating is too much.

Beating a kid will surely not make them respect the adult who is beating them, all it will do is make them fearful and hateful towards the parent

[magyar_lány]

No, parents who beat their children don't know who to raise the child, and how to lead the right direction to the kid. One of my female acquaintance always beat his son, he was confined to his room, where he wetted himself. Social workers took the son away.

[Drenica]

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[Arduti]

Beating a kid will surely not make them respect the adult who is beating them, all it will do is make them fearful and hateful towards the parent

I didn't advocate beatings, and I voted "No"
Read my last line, please.

But a child learns how to respect himself by watching parents and teachers demand respect for themselves. Watching an adult not tolerate testy and rude behaviors from children is part of learning how to not tolerate being walked on by others.

[Kelmendasi]

I didn't advocate beatings, and I voted "No"
Read my last line, please.

But a child learns how to respect himself by watching parents and teachers demand respect for themselves. Watching an adult not tolerate testy and rude behaviors from children is part of learning how to not tolerate being walked on by others.

Never said you did, just stating something

[Arduti]

Never said you did, just stating something

I was never beaten but I'm still afraid of my mom, hahaha

[Drenica]

Beating a kid will surely not make them respect the adult who is beating them, all it will do is make them fearful and hateful towards the parent

Yeah, this is true. Sometimes when your parents beat you, yell and curse at you etc it feels like they hate you. Atleast thats how I felt it as a kid. But really its because they are miserable themselves and let it go out on their own children or people they love

[Amor Vincit Omnia]

No , because when you are a parent what you do you teach

[Kriptc06]

only when needed, I was a kid, and my parents taught me this way. I see nothing wrong. Now, you cannot beat the shit out of them for 'sport', that's wrong, and not what im in favour of.