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    Considering in this time most women work, I want the chores shared. Because I am not a maid )))
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    It depends on the woman, when you try to help out like I do she doesn't want any help. I'm not even a bad cook, but I'm usually relegated to just grilling duty on the barbecue. So I try to do my part by walking the dogs and playing with the kids, or at least setting and clearing the table.

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    Staying away from helping the women with these stuff is only legit if a man earns all the money and can provide for the whole family by this. Whining about not being served as a man is not ridiculous only in those situations.
    If you seek an old fashioned girl, be at first an old fashioned guy, earn the money, build the house (or finance it) and fix the things around the house.

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    I think it also depends on the kind of work my husband does.

    If he’s working out in the fields doing some kind of hard labor I’m not going to expect him come home and do the chores. If he’s in some kind of corporate position or office setting than yeah it wouldn’t hurt him to help, especially since I’m working as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Faklon View Post
    I only cook since it's an art and women secretly pour estrogen to the food.
    Men gotta do the cooking. We have to ensure there's loads of protein on the plate.
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    The best dynamic to me is the traditional one with the man earning the money and the woman taking care of all the household chores.

    If the man is not working or both are benefits scroungers then there should be a split with who does what; there's no obligation for the woman to do all of the housework if the man is a lazy bum. Married women with husbands who work good and stable jobs, especially with children, shouldn't be working for a plethora of reasons. But that's for another thread

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    All of our chores at home are shared with the exception of ironing the clothes, which I admittedly do not do. In return, it is me who cooks at home almost exclusively. Thankfully we decided to have a minimalist decor in our house making it pretty straightforward and not that much time consuming when it comes to maintenance and cleaning, especially when done together. Few things are more annoying than tripping over bulky furniture or fighting back mountains of clutter around the house.
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    I am used to doing housework since I was a child.


    You don't have to wait to get married or live with your partner to start doing them.


    In my case, I had no choice, because I have 4 sisters, all quite older than me.

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    It is curious how "modern" stupidity only talks about sharing the "women" chores or tasks, but what about women sharing the men chores or tasks? I only read about sharing what the women wants but no men is whining everyday about hey you have to defend the house from intruders (or be prepared to destroy the skull of an assaultant), repair the car, paint the walls, lift heavy weight (2 women can do it), and hundreds other things.

    It is like when stupid feminist complain about the falacy of "discrimination" because the % of women in some sector are 35% and not 50%. It is curious because it is always for office work. They never complain about the fact that 99% of the heavy, disgusting, dangerous, risky, Works are done by men. Or even repairing roads in summer at 40ºC. It can be done by women by why don´t feminist complain about the low % of women in those disgusting Jobs? Obviously because they don´t want equality, they just want to break society.

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    And not, I am not defending that women do those kind of Jobs but stop with the stupidities. Humans have specialiced for tens of thousands of years. If women can´t do disgusting, risky, heavy Jobs or defending the house, or repairing the cars, then they should do "other tasks", like the traditional task associated with them. But hey, we only see women demanding that men do their traditional tasks. When did you hear a man saying that she wants his women to paint the Wall or be vigilante to defend the house when an assaultant enters? Never, because this dialogue have been introduced by feminists and cultural marxists. I am not saying that it is mandatory that men always do this or that and women this or that, it can be done in a more natural way without having to hear everyday that "men have to share the chores".

    By the way, men can´t be exposed to cleaning chemicals, they are estrogenic. If you want a sissy son then tell your man to do the dishes. Then we protest that the quality of sperm is 50% lower than 50 years ago and "we can´t find a cause". Yes, the cause is in the kitchen.

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    I have never done any chores, housework, etc. And to be honest, I have the deepest disgust for this kind of work. Even when I was divorced and living alone, I hired women to do this kind of work for me.

    If any woman dares to try to involve me in any household work, she will be immediately sent by me straight to the fucking mother.

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