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i felt very sad when i read my previous post on this thread, then i read your response and this was so wonderfully written that i felt a need to tell you that. thank you for writing this.It's actually the other way round.
Cats like to be nurtured, independent, to go their own way, to do what they want, and come to "mommy" for cuddles, and gets annoyed when it doesn't want it but "mommy" insists.
It comes home to be fed, it makes sure that it shits and pisses in the right place, it will curl on your lap when it wants attention, but it also fucks off for a long time and you don't know where it goes or what it does.
It basically does what it wants, when it wants, so you're forever chasing its affection in the knowledge that if you don't feed it for a couple of days it will leave and never come back. Basically, a cat does the absolute BARE MINIMUM in terms of displaying love and affection, but when it does decide to show you affection, it shows you with its entire body.
Dogs on the other hand wanna please the master. They wanna do good, fetch a stick/bone, dig up treasures, protect the house, and if trained right, they do as told.
Which is how a woman will be if you display the qualities of a cat. Always waiting for you when you get home, you can teach them new tricks (like cooking and cleaning) with patience and encouragement, will stick around with owners that beat the shit out of them (whereas a cat would just fuck off), know exactly who feeds them etc.
The opposite of a cat, a dog will show affection to anybody who feeds it and gives it attention.
In human psychology this reflects the way men and women work.
Men like to go out there and hunt, lay about, make the world his oyster, do whatever the fuck we want. We can feed ourselves, but it's nice when the wife just gives us a nice meal, and when we want loving, we go find it, and sometimes when we don't want the loving but it's handed on a silver platter, we can get annoyed, not that it's the usual thing that happens.
Women on the other hand, if given attention, will move the world to please you. They'll make crafts both to occupy themselves while "master" is making money and to impress you, raise your kids for you, clean the house, do whatever it takes to please their man.
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