Were you a bully or bully-victim in your school days?

[LoLeL]

I neither was a bully, nor a bully-victim. Because I was usually friend with most of kids. Also due to my angry personality and my interest in fighting, most bullies never targeted me because I was not an easy target for them. The ones who targeted me learned their lesson.

Every time I remember my school days, I feel sorry for those bully-victims. And many bullies were actually victims themselves because they were bullied or mistreated by other kids, teachers, or their parents.

[Larali]

Both. The stuff that went on back then wouldn't fly in schools nowadays.

It can make or break a kid, and I'm glad there's been a crackdown on it.

[Maintenance]

Bully sadly.

[Xz2k9]

victim. always had to fight to try and defend myself, sometimes vs 5-10 other kids and sometimes against guys 5 years older than me

[Genovefa]

victim. always had to fight to try and defend myself, sometimes vs 5-10 other kids and sometimes against guys 5 years older than me

I was in a quite similar situation, had to fight alone against 5 guys sometimes Even though they were all my age since they came from the same class as me

[Seya]

Non. People were very nice in my high-school. I don’t remember anybody being bullied

[contributor]

Bully, i calmed down as i aged tho.

[Xz2k9]

I was in a quite similar situation, had to fight alone against 5 guys sometimes Even though they were all my age since they came from the same class as me

Did you kick their ass ?


What they did to you was not fear, especially not a girl....... I know what it feels like. I was the only immigrant and they would bully me for being an immigrant.

One time all the boys in my class attacked me , they were like 10, I had to fight them all at once ... I remember I did pretty well I got into so many crazy fights as kid but never started any... always somebody that would try and start on me.... one time this dude came and grabbed me and I remember I head butted him straight to the nose (I got this idea from watching bud spencer movies) ... he went down and started crying and screaming ''ahhhhh you broke my nose'' ..... Another time this guy came and grabbed me from behind and grabbed my arms so I couldn't move and his friend came and approached me from the front I kicked his friend in the balls and he went down crying ... and I did a trick with my hips which also hit the other guy in the balls that was holding me... they both went down .... My friend was there and when they came he got scared and started crying but when he saw I kicked their ass he got happy and laughed I was a pretty good fighter ... I would watch these movies and I would just go and do that to people that messed with me.

One time I was in a 1v1 fight against this kid that would just never give up ..... the whole school gathered around and they were just watching us fight .... I was beating him up badly but he just wouldn't give up ......... my hardest fight I've ever been in ....


1v1 most people didn't dare to mess with me ... always when they were many or somebody that was older and more mature .... they thought they maybe could take me if they were many .... I was always the guy to defend weaker people and almost never really bullied anyone. I just wanted to be left alone.


I had an Albanian friend in another class and he was also strong , we would team up and fight together and sometimes we would fight each other even ..... I remember he punched a guy that was bullying him and knocked him out so the guy went flying straight into a school christmas tree ... he had knockout power .... Only 1 punch and people would fall asleep.



In my home country in my home town it was even worse back then, kids would bring guns and bats and knives to school fights ..... Kids there were also much stronger and harder to deal with than kids from other European countries and fights were much more common and they had also more balls to fight 1v1 rather than try and gang up on you ....

[sean]

Nobody was ever "bullied" or was a "bully" in school.

A bully attacks a victim, the victim bullies another victim. And so on.

My old school friends like to think we got picked on but honestly we did our fair share of nasty shit to other kids ourselves.

The biggest problem with a victim complex is that you fail to realise when you're giving it out as good as you're getting.

Every time somebody fucked with us in school, we gave it back just as good and honestly it kept everyone entertained for another day.

[Alexandro]

I was never really bullied nor did I bully others, mostly just got along with everyone. Well, occasionally people would tell me to "cut my hair" or whatever but that was playful taunting at best, just a bunch of shithead teens making fun of each other like they always do.