Given nothing but two choices; which would you choose?

**de Burgh II** · 07-12-2018, 07:49 PM

*See bolded parts below for the main premise of this thread's discussion.*

As a disclaimer; this is an intended lead-on question. Nevertheless, this question may bring about personal cognitive dissonance to some users whom are grounded idealists in culture and in group preferences (such as preferences for their own ethnicity, nationality, race, etc.), but for others; a "no-brainer" per se whom don't feel as strongly as the former.

Nevertheless, hypothetically speaking, in this scenario, which of the two choices would you choose for your ideal spouse/partner?

A) A partner who is very culturally/racially similar to you in every sense of the word, but is the complete opposite of you personality-wise.

*As an aside; would you endure the relationship for the sake of your own firmly-held ideals of culture/nationality/personal identity? Or would break off the relationship/ being willing to break away from those ideals and pursue your own personal, individualistic preferences regardless of what is more socially accepted in your society? etc.

B) A very sexually attractive partner who satisfies you intellectually, sexually and emotionally that is like paradise on Earth, but is culturally and racially/ethnically foreign to you in every way.

* As an aside; would you still uphold/pursue the relationship even if it is culturally/societally stigmatized that is strongly looked down upon in your society. Would you risk being deemed an 'outcast'? Challenge the societal norms in order to defend your personal happiness? Pursuit/move away from the current society with like minded individuals? etc.

As you know, there is an obvious difference in each person's thinking/preferences. Merely a clash between globalist (New World) and traditionalist (Old World) mindsets in general; so between the two extremes; what would you choose personally?

These choices, in hindsight, merely tests one's resolve; to see which of the two extremes you orient towards; namely, hedonistic egoism (choice B) or resolute collectivism/idealism (choice A).

**Vid Flumina** · 07-12-2018, 09:03 PM

B.

**~~Bobby Martnen~~** · 07-13-2018, 01:38 AM

MGTOWs like myself don't have this problem.

**Mortimer** · 07-13-2018, 01:41 AM

Well I wouldnt looked down as I have the lowest standing in society, every race mixing would improve my status even if its with a nigerian woman, i would be seen as cooler and more black then i am. But my partner might get shit for being with me. I wouldnt want that my partner gets shit. And of course I wouldnt want a unsatisfying partner either, who doesnt emotionally satisfy me just for maintining social order. I would choose to stay alone.

**Mortimer** · 07-13-2018, 01:44 AM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

Well I wouldnt looked down as I have the lowest standing in society, every race mixing would improve my status even if its with a nigerian woman, i would be seen as cooler and more black then i am. But my partner might get shit for being with me. I wouldnt want that my partner gets shit. And of course I wouldnt want a unsatisfying partner either, who doesnt emotionally satisfy me just for maintining social order. I would choose to stay alone.

Every race mixing would get me a step further from being a stereotypical gypsy which is the lowest you can be and the most hated. It depends on how the community of the woman views that, whites would hate it, east asians too probably. I dont know about blacks.

**~~Kamal900~~** · 07-13-2018, 01:45 AM

Choice A..

**Mortimer** · 07-13-2018, 01:48 AM

Originally Posted by de Burgh II

These choices, in hindsight, merely tests one's resolve; to see which of the two extremes you orient towards; namely, hedonistic egoism (choice B) or resolute collectivism/idealism (choice A).

Why is having a emotionally, intellectually, sexually satisfying partner "hedonistic egoism" first everyone wants that. Or its hell on earth, and second what I own the gypsy community or the other communities who might or might not hate me for what I am? I mean in my country or place what I own them eventhough they are so hateful that they would disown their daughter for being with me? And the gypsies wouldnt attack me either, and I dont own them anything just because I am a gypsy too. I might accept the opinion of my family thats the only thing but not of strangers, and my family would accept every race who satisfies me in all those ways. They would be against if she is not a good match on all those levels, or a loose women and would cheat on me, leave me with children etc. Then they would be against so they would be against A

**Mortimer** · 07-13-2018, 01:52 AM

Given only those two options and just now I read I can leave the place I would choose B, well not if my partner is hated and my children but if i can leave the place to a more happier place then yes.

**Westbrook** · 07-13-2018, 01:52 AM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

Well I wouldnt looked down as I have the lowest standing in society, every race mixing would improve my status even if its with a nigerian woman, i would be seen as cooler and more black then i am. But my partner might get shit for being with me. I wouldnt want that my partner gets shit. And of course I wouldnt want a unsatisfying partner either, who doesnt emotionally satisfy me just for maintining social order. I would choose to stay alone.

Jeez, nice self worth you have there

**GreentheViper** · 07-13-2018, 01:54 AM

I don't think I fit into any specific race, aside from Mixed, but culture is definitely something I hold in high regard when searching for a partner. That being said, I would go with B, despite the cultural difference.