Women of TA: Bad Boy or Nice Guy? What do you preferr?

[Slavic Italian]

This is more like it.

True. Even the hottest women are insecure about their looks. When someone looks hard at them they think yep I am hot. When ignored this is where the insecurity surfaces and then they have to convince this person hey I am hot. Let me convince you. This is why most women hate nice guys. Nice guys tell them what they want to hear. Bad boys tell them the "truth" and are fun to boot.

[Teutone]

Like every women they prefer a nerd with no existing muscular structure that is always nice and submissive

[Teutone]

First and foremost women and every human see the body

they like a body that is capable of fucking them a good way

[Slavic Italian]

I have a feeling women from our generation had more body issues, lower self esteem, etc. Back then, it really mattered being the 'prom queen' etc..but now everybody is told she is a queen. Now, all the rolly-polly girls think they can be instagram models. And behave like it. You should see (New-world) black women...they are all sleeping with 5% of the black male population,. Many not having problems being 'side chick' to a 5% male, then being monogamous with the 95% 'bums'

Women now a days are heavier than when I was young. They are also not very clean and much lazier than their mothers when they were young. Get them away from their phones and they have no social skills and are boring. I feel sorry for you young guys but again many of you suck too.

[MissMischief]

Nice guys can be pretty dull. That is what "nice" generally means, it's a back handed compliment, it means there's nothing wrong with you, but nothing positive to note either.
You aren't the fun guy, the smart guy, you're just the nice guy. So you don't get laid. Being "bad" in some form is at least interesting.

Being nice (and I mean actually nice, not the "nice" that people claim to be while actually being assholes who think basic manners should earn them sexual rewards) is not a particularly distinguishing trait. Lots of people, hopefully most people are nice. It's a good thing to be but not the kind of quality that makes you stand out and catches someone's attention. Plenty of nice people are winning romantically but it's because they've managed to show off something much individual and interesting about themselves.

I'm not sure what people try to get at when they talk about "bad" boys. Are they just talking about a stereotypical image or are they talking about men who actively treat women poorly? Even if it's the latter... well, it's not like women typically go "oh you look like you'd treat me really poorly, that's so hot." They're responding to other traits that came off as interesting/positive.

Finally, to add to this, many of these "nice guys" are only being nice to seek the approval of women they want to fuck. Women are very good at spotting fake men, hence why these guys don't get laid.

[Dandelion]

Nice guys can be pretty dull. That is what "nice" generally means, it's a back handed compliment, it means there's nothing wrong with you, but nothing positive to note either.
You aren't the funny guy, the smart guy, you're just the nice guy. So you don't get laid. Being "bad" in some form is at least interesting.

Being nice (and I mean actually nice, not the "nice" that people claim to be while actually being assholes who think basic manners should earn them sexual rewards) is not a particularly distinguishing trait. Lots of people, hopefully most people are nice. It's a good thing to be but not the kind of quality that makes you stand out and catches someone's attention. Plenty of nice people are winning romantically but it's because they've managed to show off something much individual and interesting about themselves.

I'm not sure what people try to get at when they talk about "bad" boys. Are they just talking about a stereotypical image or are they talking about men who actively treat women poorly? Even if it's the latter... well, it's not like women typically go "oh you look like you'd treat me really poorly, that's so hot." They're responding to other traits that came off as interesting/positive.

Finally, to add to this, many of these "nice guys" are only being nice to seek the approval of women they want to fuck. Women are very good at spotting fake men, hence why these guys don't get laid.

I believe people should just be 'nice' by default without it even getting noted. It's to be expected of a person in the first place and is no trait deserving of a medal as if it's an 'accomplishment'. It should just be nature atop of many other traits that define a character.

[nightrider+]

Nice guys can be pretty dull. That is what "nice" generally means, it's a back handed compliment, it means there's nothing wrong with you, but nothing positive to note either.
You aren't the fun guy, the smart guy, you're just the nice guy. So you don't get laid. Being "bad" in some form is at least interesting.

Being nice (and I mean actually nice, not the "nice" that people claim to be while actually being assholes who think basic manners should earn them sexual rewards) is not a particularly distinguishing trait. Lots of people, hopefully most people are nice. It's a good thing to be but not the kind of quality that makes you stand out and catches someone's attention. Plenty of nice people are winning romantically but it's because they've managed to show off something much individual and interesting about themselves.

I'm not sure what people try to get at when they talk about "bad" boys. Are they just talking about a stereotypical image or are they talking about men who actively treat women poorly? Even if it's the latter... well, it's not like women typically go "oh you look like you'd treat me really poorly, that's so hot." They're responding to other traits that came off as interesting/positive.

Finally, to add to this, many of these "nice guys" are only being nice to seek the approval of women they want to fuck. Women are very good at spotting fake men, hence why these guys don't get laid.

"Wymminz can do no wrong."

Always funny seeing women trying to rationalize their biological urges.

[Larali]

I'll just take the cats. Thanks

[War Chef]

The 2018 term for gentlemen is "simp". Women see you hold the door as they approach and they say to themselves "look at this simp using door holding tactics to get at me, puh-leeeze/roll eyes"

but if you close the elveator on them...they think "damn, this guys time is so important, he wont hold the door for my sexy ass...he must be a CEO!"

You may think Im being ridicilous, but this is EXACTLY women's thought process.

Yeah true, you're creating higher value for yourself. That may work for younger, less experienced girls, however WOMEN who have been through a series of failed relationships will not like some asshole like that, instead she wants someone who genuinely cares for her and puts her needs first.

No time for dumbass mind-games. Just be who you are.

[War Chef]

I have a feeling women from our generation had more body issues, lower self esteem, etc. Back then, it really mattered being the 'prom queen' etc..but now everybody is told she is a queen. Now, all the rolly-polly girls think they can be instagram models. And behave like it. You should see (New-world) black women...they are all sleeping with 5% of the black male population,. Many not having problems being 'side chick' to a 5% male, then being monogamous with the 95% 'bums'

Nah all women are deeply insecure. That's just their nature. On the surface they may seem confident but don't be fooled by this faux display.

When you base your confidence on such transitional things such as looks, damn right you'll be insecure (their looks aren't even real, but product of make-up cosmetics - they know very well that they are living a lie).