Why I can't have a boyfriend and why my elder brother catches me when I talk to boys?

[shlömö]

there are no virgin girls aged 15 in Romania or Ukraine but this region is also first in Europe in teen pregnancy and abortion rate. do you want to get pregnant or get an abortion? that happens when you date older boys and you are so young, because at this age you are emotionally unstable and could get in love - which is a dangerous disease

Any abortion rates are very high (actually the highest in the world) in Eastern Europe and especially Russia. Under Communism it was pretty much the only form of birth control. Modern issues are linked to sexual education/ behaviour i guess. Not like this is only Eastern European issue. Girls at that age are very vulnerable like you said and should wait, but i think you might be exaggerating Eastern European teenage behaviour, hopefully so.

I agree that teenage dating is very overrated. On the other hand meeting people and falling in love is natural and essential part of human life. This should be done in a rational way tho. There are young men who are more traditional and "safe" (usually Christians and Orthodox Jews), but most look for sex indeed. If she happens to fall in love with a young dude who is the same age as her and is serious about her then it's all clear.

[grecoroman]

Any abortion rates are very high (actually the highest in the world) in Eastern Europe and especially Russia. Under Communism it was pretty much the only form of birth control. Modern issues are linked to sexual education/ behaviour i guess. Not like this is only Eastern European issue. Girls at that age are very vulnerable like you said and should wait, but i think you might be exaggerating Eastern European teenage behaviour, hopefully so.

I agree that teenage dating is very overrated. On the other hand meeting people and falling in love is natural and essential part of human life. This should be done in a rational way tho. There are young men who are more traditional and "safe" (usually Christians and Orthodox Jews), but most look for sex indeed. If she happens to fall in love with a young dude who is serious about her then it's all clear.

What would you do if she was your sister??

[shlömö]

What would you do if she was your sister??

I would try to calm her down probably. Dating for the sake of dating is useless. But if two people like each other i don't see any issues of them hanging out together, learning to know each other better. Some people end up marrying their teenage loves. So again, i think those childish games are completely useless if not serious feels are involved. I personally believe it is smart to search for your future soul mate but how do you know you fit if you don't learn about other person? And i'm not talking about sex here.

As a brother i would personally scare away all the bums around my sister. If there is a good guy around then it's for my parents to decide as long as she is very young.

[Hadouken]

Ah abiciğim. Ama benim çevremde her kızın bir erkek arkadaşı var. Hadi Konya gibi muhafazakar bir şehirde yaşasam böyle şeyleri sorun etmezdim. Ama ben İstanbul(Avrupa) gibi neredeyse 16 yaşının üstünde herkesin erkek/kız arkadaşı olduğu, ve öyle olmayanların eziklendiği bir şehirde yaşıyorum O yüzden ben de özeniyorum. Ama annem ve abim sürekli engel oluyorlar.

digerlerinin var diye seninde olmasi lazim degil ki . özeniyorsun anliyorum da ..dedigim gibi daha ufaksin hele bi bekle zaten biraz daha olgunlastiginda ailende farkli davranir bence . ailen daha önemli sevgiliden

[Wadaad]

1) Would it be more or less tragic if she ended up like this,



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First rule of Woman fight club: talk about it

[Mary]

Your reason for posting selfporn online is "to get dick" but actually it is possible to get it much easier.

You have to be sexual or you're not going to get dick. You might get a date, but you won't get dick.

That is just your excuse for being exibitionist, "a flasher". But I don't understand why you like it, what is so exciting in it? So exciting that you forget about possible consequences of it.

It's just who I am, I don't see the problem with it.

[Moje ime]

You have to be sexual or you're not going to get dick. You might get a date, but you won't get dick.

In your world men are the ones who refuse sex on first date, right?

You should be sexual in personal contact and in right moment, that is all what is needed, maybe you're not sexy in personal contact at all.

It's just who I am, I don't see the problem with it.

I'm just interested in various psychological states of mind.

[Mary]

I guess it's her fetish. I mean, look at the gimp from Pulp Fiction.

It's just who I am. I can't help it.

[Mary]

In your world men are the ones who refuse sex on first date, right?

You should be sexual in personal contact and in right moment, that is all what is needed, maybe you're not sexy in personal contact at all.

When you're hot men get really nervous.

[grecoroman]

When you're hot men get really nervous.

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