Women who act as ‘submissive’ in BDSM sex are AROUSED by other people’s pain

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Don’t be fooled by the role play! Women who act as ‘submissive’ in BDSM sex are AROUSED by other people’s pain

Women who act as 'submissive' during the sex act BDSM are less empathetic to other people's suffering.



Females who enjoy being tied to the bed or whipped during sex are less moved when they see others in pain and even find it arousing, according to a study published in the journal Neuropsychologia.

Experts believe BDSM - bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism - makes people less empathetic to others' emotions due to them being desensitised to pain.

Researchers from Jinan University, China, analysed a BDSM web forum and found that female submissives are less likely to feel empathy towards others than female dominants or any males who take part in sex fetishes.

From this site, the scientists recruited 32 female submissives for the study. The same number of women who do not take part in BDSM were recruited from Peking or Sun Yat-sen universities.

MAN LEFT WITH SEVERE KIDNEY INJURY AFTER A VIOLENT BDSM SESSION

A man 'fiercely' strapped to a wooden bench during a violent sex session suffered a severe kidney injury while he was spanked 1,000 times with a whip and cane.

Doctors say the unnamed 61-year-old suffered the injury because he was squashed against the hard surface, which put pressure on his organs.

They also claim some of the strokes from his anonymous partner went wayward and accidentally struck his kidney area, leaving him unable to urinate.

The German man, who has been an avid fan of BDSM for seven years, was told he may have to start dialysis if his kidneys failed to start working again.

Luckily, the man, who was left with deep grazes and bruises on his buttocks and thighs, recovered after three days and was able to urinate again.

The first case of its kind recorded in medical literature was published in the British Medical Journal Case Reports by doctors in Stuttgart.

His horrifying ordeal has since convinced him to 'reduce the intensity' of his BDSM, however he has refused to give up in the habit, which he claims gives him 'joy'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/a...suffering.html

[sean]

BDSM people are generally real weirdos, who without much influence from porn ended up doing these things and were just fucked up in the head in a way that made pain enjoyable.

Submissive women don't know what it is to be a woman anymore because they don't understand their capacity to bear children. They get told constantly that women are wonderful and can do no harm whereas they experience themselves as a being with flaws and especially if they lack father figures their psyche is full of the messages that they are inherently shit and worthless and they need this to get off.

[Blondie]

The BDSM lover guys are real woman hater psychopaths, when i chat on net i get many unwanted sick pm from these guys (most are 35-50 years old) i think the world is ready for destruction.

[Celestia]

When I think of submissive that’s not what I’m thinking lol
I guess I’m a bit more prude than I thought

[Óttar]

BDSM people are generally real weirdos, who without much influence from porn ended up doing these things and were just fucked up in the head in a way that made pain enjoyable.

Submissive women don't know what it is to be a woman anymore because they don't understand their capacity to bear children. They get told constantly that women are wonderful and can do no harm whereas they experience themselves as a being with flaws and especially if they lack father figures their psyche is full of the messages that they are inherently shit and worthless and they need this to get off.

95% of women are submissive. Just recently I went to brunch with a girl, I thought everything was going great and we were on track to take it to the next level, and then when the time comes for me to serve her with massages and other things (I am a sub myself), she says that intellectually it sounds great, but that she's uncomfortable because 'She's not used to people doing nice things for her...' I've heard variations on this theme several times. Gods forbid a guy actually get off on adoring women. It's like being stuck in Purgatory. I was slightly bummed out, but I've experienced it so many times, I've turned off and gone numb. It barely affects me anymore. I guess there's no hope for a guy if he's not a billionaire sadistic psychopath like Christian Grey.

[sean]

95% of women are submissive. Just recently I went to brunch with a girl, I thought everything was going great and we were on track to take it to the next level, and then when the time comes for me to serve her with massages and other things (I am a sub myself), she says that intellectually it sounds great, but that she's uncomfortable because 'She's not used to people doing nice things for her...' I've heard variations on this theme several times.

These women are extreme outliers whose views are completely disconnected from the wants and needs of normal healthy woman, they are getting desensitised and into more and more weird shit.

Even 99% of "dommes" I knew were either normal submissive girls playing a role in order to serve their pathetic man, or those who were not desirable enough to attract the dominant man they wanted and settled for a weirdo instead, or they suffered some sort of abuse as a child which made them love pain.

They were also wired in a way that some pain translated as pleasurable. Many of the ways they perceive and get input from the world are fucked up, you get girls telling you that they want to be brutally anally fucked, choked, strangled and tied up like a pretzel, sometimes they would find sex overstimulating and basically starfish through it and ask for breaks because it was just overloading their system.

[Pascoal]

What about men that are submissive in BDSM? Are they also less empathetic?

[calxpal]

This actually doesn't surprise me, some of the women who bullied me and were the most hostile and least empathetic towards me (and others as well for some of them) were also the most submissive towards men in general, the sex part idk though. So I believe there could be a correlation to being submissive in general, but maybe I'm wrong and stretching it. Interesting though. I will say I can confirm that one of the meanest and most cruel dishonest women I ever knew was obsessed with intense sex and used it as a means to feel superior. Don't ask me how I found this out about her though....

[oszkar07]

i think a lot of woman/dommes in the bdsm community are switches , meaning they can play either domme or sub role.
otherwise there are i believe people in it who have real power/control freak issues in terms some the ones who play domme roles.
i read that supposedly people whom are into bdsm are suppose to be generally intelligent folks.
but there are all kinds generalisations for eg they say people who do ju jitsu are generally intelligent types and more so than people who do wrestling or boxing as ju jitsu tends to attract nerds more.
as for the OP im not sure i believe it but perhaps those sub women dont see certain things like maybe a rape fantasy as grose as what your avg non bdsm sub female would. but there is lot generalisation and speculating more conclusive studies may or may not confirm some truth to it.

[Pascoal]

What about men that are submissive in BDSM? Are they also less empathetic?

For some reason, i think it is the opposite on men, i was a more empathetic person when i used to like being a little mistreated by women in the bed. There are some exceptions obviously tho.