"Sexual Harassment" is an overused term

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

But a woman telling a man "my friend wants to suck your cock" is pretty much identical to a man telling a woman "my friend wants to eat your pussy".

So the point is feminists cry sexual harassment over nothing.

The difference is that you wouldn't be afraid of a woman saying that to you because you know she wouldn't be able to force herself on you, while a woman wouldn't know what to expect from someone bold enough to say that to her who is also physically bigger with his buddy there as well.

Think of it this way: if a gay guy came up to you and said "my friend wants to suck your cock" you would feel threatened.

[Bobby Martnen]

I think sexual harassment is unfortunately common and must be taken very seriously.

Yes, but sexual jokes and ass-smacking do not constitute sexual harassment.

[Bobby Martnen]

None of what you've said, even this, is sexual harassment unless the person being subjected to the comments is uncomfortable, feels threatened, or the sexual act is unwanted.

Exactly. These comments didn't make me feel remotely uncomfortable, so feminists need to stop bitching and moaning about when men make vagina jokes to women.

[Bobby Martnen]

Think of it this way: if a gay guy came up to you and said "my friend wants to suck your cock" you would feel threatened.

No, I'd actually find it flattering.

[SvartVarg]

Exactly. These comments didn't make me feel remotely uncomfortable, so feminists need to stop bitching and moaning about when men make vagina jokes to women.

No offense Bobby these comments don't make you uncomfortable. Then can make others uncomfortable. Think, for just a moment, of other people instead of coming across as someone who was deprived attention & love growing up and needs everything to be focused on him and him alone.

[Bobby Martnen]

No offense Bobby but really I don't think anyone could care. These comments don't make you uncomfortable. Then can make others uncomfortable. Think, for just a moment, of other people instead of coming across as someone who was deprived attention & love growing up and needs everything to be focused on him and him alone.

I wasn't deprived of love and attention growing up.

I'm not even into sex, but I loved when girls would make comments to me in high school like "you should jackoff to my picture" or "my friend wants to suck your penis", or when guys would make comments like "word on the street is that you have a big penis" and "nice sausage".

I found those comments to be funny AF and I enjoyed the attention.

[Congolese Rice]

Also I'm very insecure about my small, 5.5 inch dick, and I don't want people to know it's only 5.5 inches.

5.5 inches = 14 cm

Girls would laugh at it.

lol bro, 5.5 inches is average. Billy the Jock in ur school or whatever probably wouldnt have much of a bigger dick


Besides, having a too long dick isnt always useful either cuz if the girl aint used to it u can hurt her lmao. i have a 8 inch dick but i dont care about it that much, neither should you. dick size aint important cuz if you know how to use it ur girl will be happy eitherway LMAO

[SvartVarg]

I wasn't deprived of love and attention growing up.

You weren't deprived love & attention? I highly doubt that. You show very obvious signs that you were. Same as why kids deprived love & attention scream, cry, throw tantrums, etc. when out in public - so everyone pays attention to them.

Otherwise you wouldn't be making comments that makes you the center of attention. Otherwise you wouldn't argue with other members, even when you're in the wrong, all because your parents could not care enough when you were growing up to correct you or such disrespectful behaviour.

I'm not even into sex, but I loved when girls would make comments to me in high school like "you should jackoff to my picture" or "my friend wants to suck your penis", or when guys would make comments like "word on the street is that you have a big penis" and "nice sausage".

I found those comments to be funny AF and I enjoyed the attention.

Again none of that is sexual harassment unless you are UNCOMFORTABLE, feel THREATENED, or the attention is UNWANTED.


So? You are not uncomfortable. Does that mean other people who are made uncomfortable should be ignored?

If a woman threatened your job would you still find it "funny"? If a woman threatened to get you expelled from school would you still find it "funny"? If a woman threatened to ruin your reputation would you still find it "funny"?

If you say yes you'd still find it "funny", you got a lot of growing up to do.

[Bobby Martnen]

You weren't deprived love & attention? I highly doubt that. You show very obvious signs that you were. Same as why kids deprived love & attention scream, cry, throw tantrums, etc. when out in public - so everyone pays attention to them.

Otherwise you wouldn't be making comments that makes you the center of attention. Otherwise you wouldn't argue with other members, even when you're in the wrong, all because your parents could not care enough when you were growing up to correct you or such disrespectful behaviour.

I'm just an attention whore. I only argue when I'm convinced I'm right, I don't just argue for the sake of arguing.

My parent tried to make me into a very different man than I am.

You know nothing about my parents, so back off.

Again none of that is sexual harassment unless you are UNCOMFORTABLE, feel THREATENED, or the attention is UNWANTED.


So? You are not uncomfortable. Does that mean other people who are made uncomfortable should be ignored?

If a woman threatened your job would you still find it "funny"? If a woman threatened to get you expelled from school would you still find it "funny"? If a woman threatened to ruin your reputation would you still find it "funny"?

If you say yes you'd still find it "funny", you got a lot of growing up to do.

If you feel uncomfortable over stupid shit, you should just man up and shut up about it.

If someone smacks your ass your makes a "nice bulge" comment, you shouldn't complain.

If someone were to grab your genitals and try to kiss you, then that's sexual harassment, and the perpetrator should be punished.