Do i look morbidly obese?

[Magnolia]

Honestly, I'm not happy at all. I hate being this fat. I've struggled with my weight since age 12. I'm at the point where I truly believe this is a genetic or some kind of virus/disease. I will eat more vegetables and drink water and eat "healthy" but that doesn't mean I will lose weight.

Do you think that your looks is you major issue?
I am pretty sure that "your extra pounds" are not the cause of your other issues but it is the consequence of some deeper issues.

[Richmondbread]

Do you think that your looks is you major issue?
I am pretty sure that "your extra pounds" are not the cause of your other issues but it is the consequence of some deeper issues.

Yes, I hate how I look and now as I move on towards middle age, I feel that I never got to look as good as I could have. I could have been very good looking.

[Bobby Martnen]

I'm the same height and 240 lbs. I was 190 lbs in 2016.

[Richmondbread]

I'm the same height and 240 lbs. I was 190 lbs in 2016.

Can you post what that looks like?

[Bobby Martnen]

Can you post what that looks like?

I don't want to post pics of myself here, but I'll see if I can find some body shots.

[Magnolia]

Yes, I hate how I look and now as I move on towards middle age, I feel that I never got to look as good as I could have. I could have been very good looking.

Look there are plenty of people in the world who create a reason why they can't live the life they would like too. E.g. they feel too young for being able to live the life they would want to (they think that because of it they are not be able to be a normal member of the society, they feel to be refused by everyone). And one day they wake up and they start to think they are too old to get a normal life. First they are too young then they are too old, nothing between. Plus you added into this that nonsense about your looks - because you look the way you look you can't get a wife etc.

All these things are constructions of your mind that determinate the way you live. And there is something deeper behind it something that you suppressed. A good psychological therapist could help you with. You really have an deeper issue, it is not about your age, about your weight, there is something else behind it.

Now you are an adult men, asking if you look younger/obesse on the internet will not help you with anything, the only thing that matters is the way you perceive yourself and how it reflects your life.