Hetero men: what would be your reaction if you found your wife/gf in bed with another woman?

**Poncho Peanatus** · 04-07-2020, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by MsSPF

Gentlemen, "the hot lesbian mistress" fantasy does not exist

I can attest, that you are wrong, plenty of men and some women share the ' hot lesbian mistress' fantasy.

**Longbowman** · 04-07-2020, 11:21 AM

Originally Posted by Poncho Peanatus

Can I join? if not, can I watch?

Kind of cucked tbh

**MsSPF** · 04-07-2020, 11:22 AM

Originally Posted by Poncho Peanatus

I can attest, that you are wrong, plenty of men and some women share the ' hot lesbian mistress' fantasy.

Oh sure it exists as a fantasy but not as reality ;-)

**Tauromachos** · 04-07-2020, 11:23 AM

I'd be either shocked or i would have a laughflash

**Ylla** · 04-07-2020, 11:38 AM

Originally Posted by MsSPF

there's a difference between fantasies & reality... I have a very good friend who has been cheated on by his ex wife with another woman.
He also used to find that "hot" but the day he discovered it, he was really disgusted... he really hates lesbians now. Gentlemen, "the hot lesbian mistress" fantasy does not exist

I agree, I don't think the man would find it hot but feel betrayed and want a divorce. That would be the normal thing to do when you find your partner with someone else but most people in the world are awful and driven by sexual desires so who knows.

**Tauromachos** · 04-07-2020, 11:45 AM

From the poll options number (2) but without please

**Longbowman** · 04-07-2020, 12:45 PM

A lot of men who replied 2) do so from a complete lack of respect for lesbians. They hear lesbian, and they think pornhub. They don't consider female sexuality to be independent of male sexuality. In reality, if you were confronted by this, you would likely feel hurt and betrayed.

I had a friend - tall, rugby-playing bloke, great guy - whose girlfriend left him for a girl about 18 months before I met him. 2 years later, he was still hurt by it. Additionally, people apparently made fun of him for having been left for a woman. He was over the girl, but not the betrayal, and the additional humiliation, I think, of his girlfriend turning out to be a lesbian. There's a happy ending, he now has a new girlfriend, but you all have cavalier attitudes that you have not considered at all.

Betrayal is betrayal and disloyalty is disloyalty.

**~~JamesBond007~~** · 04-07-2020, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by Longbowman

A lot of men who replied 2) do so from a complete lack of respect for lesbians. They hear lesbian, and they think pornhub. They don't consider female sexuality to be independent of male sexuality. In reality, if you were confronted by this, you would likely feel hurt and betrayed.

I had a friend - tall, rugby-playing bloke, great guy - whose girlfriend left him for a girl about 18 months before I met him. 2 years later, he was still hurt by it. Additionally, people apparently made fun of him for having been left for a woman. He was over the girl, but not the betrayal, and the additional humiliation, I think, of his girlfriend turning out to be a lesbian. There's a happy ending, he now has a new girlfriend, but you all have cavalier attitudes that you have not considered at all.

Betrayal is betrayal and disloyalty is disloyalty.

I know how women think and it is not really disloyalty from a biological perspective since the lesbian does not have sperm to knock up my wife. I would have a prenuptual agreement with my wife so she could not rape me court during a divorce . When I think of lesbians I don't think pornhub I think real lesbians with hairy armpits and hairy legs because I've had sex with real lesbians before and it is not really all that glamorous.

Since I know how women think I would know exactly how to act in that situation if I wanted to keep my wife and not have a divorce. I would have sex with both of them but I would pay much more attention to the woman who is not my wife and even ejaculate in the woman who is not my wife in order to make my wife hyper jealous and more likely to want to stay with me.

**Tauromachos** · 04-07-2020, 01:51 PM

Originally Posted by Longbowman

A lot of men who replied 2) do so from a complete lack of respect for lesbians. They hear lesbian, and they think pornhub. They don't consider female sexuality to be independent of male sexuality. In reality, if you were confronted by this, you would likely feel hurt and betrayed.
.

I wouldn't meddle in with arbitrary Lesbians i would let them just do their thing but if it is my wife which is already my partner then sure
unless she says no,then divorce

There is women who do both with men and women i also had a one night stand with a woman were she confessed to me after that she has already slept with
other women

No i wouldn't felt hurt immediately if its another woman i would rather be perplexed or surpised and feel strange about it but not immediately hurt.

**Ruggery** · 04-07-2020, 04:23 PM

Originally Posted by Longbowman

A lot of men who replied 2) do so from a complete lack of respect for lesbians. They hear lesbian, and they think pornhub. They don't consider female sexuality to be independent of male sexuality. In reality, if you were confronted by this, you would likely feel hurt and betrayed.

I had a friend - tall, rugby-playing bloke, great guy - whose girlfriend left him for a girl about 18 months before I met him. 2 years later, he was still hurt by it. Additionally, people apparently made fun of him for having been left for a woman. He was over the girl, but not the betrayal, and the additional humiliation, I think, of his girlfriend turning out to be a lesbian. There's a happy ending, he now has a new girlfriend, but you all have cavalier attitudes that you have not considered at all.

Betrayal is betrayal and disloyalty is disloyalty.

That man received bullying?
I understand what you mean it's always fun to think but when it really happens it's not fun.