Cuckolds - should they be told the truth?

**Magnolia** · 10-26-2018, 12:04 PM

Let's say you know somebody who is constantly cheated on by own partner. The situation has lasted for several years, not only one lover - more than one.
Many people know that with one exception the person who is cheated on.
You have enough proves to open that person's eyes. Would you do that?

If you were in the position of the person who is constantly cheated on by your partner would you want to know the truth?

**gıulıoımpa** · 10-26-2018, 12:10 PM

if you are a morally sound and stoic person, truth is more important. even if it hurts

having your eyes opened by truth is Always an epiphany for your consciensce no matter what, even if it hurts.

**~~Papastratosels26~~** · 10-26-2018, 12:15 PM

Yes

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**frankhammer** · 10-26-2018, 01:23 PM

Some times these people already know but choose to carry on preferring to have that partner in their life than not. Telling them can backfire.

**Magnolia** · 10-26-2018, 01:25 PM

Yes, I agree it is always better to know.
But the finding would be really hard for a cuckold.

That awkward moment when you realize you were cheated on practically for the whole time when you were in a relationship... really sucks.

It is obvious that the person deserves something better, that the person deserves to be loved and respected and if you tell him the truth - he will get an opportunity to get it.
But that awkward moment...

**catgeorge** · 10-26-2018, 01:28 PM

He's a loser really. If you like him as a friend then you take him out to a bar and show him how to talk to girls and give him a CD of Red Hot Chilli Peppers Sugar Sex Magik and tell him to man up.

**frankhammer** · 10-26-2018, 01:36 PM

Save their life. See how it works out for you.

**de Burgh II** · 10-26-2018, 02:06 PM

**Magnolia** · 10-26-2018, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by frankhammer

Some times these people already know but choose to carry on preferring to have that partner in their life than not. Telling them can backfire.

I can imagine that it might be like that especially when people are married and have children.
But this is not that case. They are not married and he still has a big chance to get over it and to start a new relationship with someone who will have real feelings for him.