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I am somewhat stealing the idea from another discussion, and it would be interesting to find out your opinions on this.
First: do you encounter those relationships often in your surroundings (a 30-40 year old woman going out with a 20 year old boy, let's say)?
Second: do you think such relationships can work?
Third: do you think of them as unnatural/inappropriate?
Fourth: what do you think is the cause for the older woman-younger man "boom" during the latest years?
I personally find this to be an unpleasant sight, for a variety of reasons (social, biological, aesthetical)... But I see it happening more and more often and the women who sustain such relationships are very determined to keep it going no matter what the opinions of others.
I once had a fight at a greek forum about it, when I said I disapproved, some dozen 40-year old women jumped on me and clawed the hell out of me, saying "who am I" to judge their relationships with younger men, and "who am I" to deny them the right to fall in love again, and so on and so forth.
I was, of course, accused of being jealous , of being deprived , of having had my man stolen by an older woman hence the bitterness (never happened ) and all kinds of rationalization imaginable.
So..........?
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