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    Quote Originally Posted by Kivan View Post
    In my opinion, no. You are too young and raising a family requires lots of responsabilities and might gives you a lot headaches. You should enjoy your life first, then, when get more experience/maturity, you'd think about this subject.
    if you can't enjoy your life with children, you shouldn't have any. EVER.
    it doesn't matter if you're 20 or 37. it will be the child who will pay for your unhapiness in the end.
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    YES but you must be in a secure long term relationship with your partner and financially stable...
    For me its the best thing that could happen!

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    Quote Originally Posted by crazyladybutterfly View Post
    if you can't enjoy your life with children, you shouldn't have any. EVER.
    it doesn't matter if you're 20 or 37. it will be the child who will pay for your unhapiness in the end.
    People change their priorities very much from 20 years old to 30 years old etc so attitude towards children can dramatically change too.

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    In short.

    Yes.

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    I believe so, Europe's birth rates are low, too many wait till their late thirties, or even 40's to have one kid. Anytime in your 20's is a good time to start a family (if you're financially secure).

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    Quote Originally Posted by crazyladybutterfly View Post
    if you can't enjoy your life with children, you shouldn't have any. EVER.
    it doesn't matter if you're 20 or 37. it will be the child who will pay for your unhapiness in the end.
    Can you be happy with children while not being mature and independent enough to take care of them?

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    not wise

    sometimes even just a "serious" relationship is not wise (not saying to be promiscuous or something) but at this point can take away from the shaping you want to give to your life perspectives



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    I don't know

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    Really depends on each person. If you feel responsible enough and you’re 100% sure of it, then yeah. I personally could never combine having a child in my early 20’s + studying

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    It is wise if you have the means economy to support it.

    Get married first.

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