Do you believe that being ugly will be a choice cause someday?

[Prinses]

Andromega as far as I remember I’ve seen a pic and you aren’t ugly at all wtf and if you’re 1.90m god bless you because being that tall as a guy is already enough like Marmara said. You should gain convidence :/

[Andromega123]

Andromega as far as I remember I’ve seen a pic and you aren’t ugly at all wtf and if you’re 1.90m god bless you because being that tall as a guy is already enough like Marmara said. You should gain convidence :/

Well, all friends of mine doesn't think like that and their opinions shaped my opinions about my look which because i don't know many people to ask. That's why i think that i have ugly, measureless features at all.
Also i am always slouching and bending my head about height situation that's all of its benefits to me right now...

Is being ugly a choice? idk is it? LOL There is no ugliness only confidence in your looks

But isn't it the proof of ugliness that if almost all people say "ugly" to someone? My situation is similar to this and i started to believe that, don't fitting in "good looking standards" of society and encounter with sanctions because of your look makes you depressive about your look.

They are not your friends then.

But i haven't got many options about getting socialize except hanging with them.

[RenaRyuguu]

Well, all friends of mine doesn't think like that and their opinions shaped my opinions about my look which because i don't know many people to ask. That's why i think that i have ugly, measureless features at all.
Also i am always slouching and bending my head about height situation that's all of its benefits to me right now...



But isn't it the proof of ugliness that if almost all people say "ugly" to someone? My situation is similar to this and i started to believe that, don't fitting in "good looking standards" of society and encounter with sanctions because of your look makes you depressive about your look.




But i haven't got many options about getting socialize except hanging with them.

well yeah there's a certain standard in society but like it's all about confidence and not all people have to look like society's standard

[Prinses]

Well, all friends of mine doesn't think like that and their opinions shaped my opinions about my look which because i don't know many people to ask. That's why i think that i have ugly, measureless features at all.
Also i am always slouching and bending my head about height situation that's all of its benefits to me right now...

Uhm don't listen to them. I've been told that I'm ugly and too tall every year untill I realized when I grew up that it was all bullshit. They just hating maybe they're short and can't stand that you're tall or they're just simply insecure about theirself and that's why they shitting believe me. The people who used to bully me are now -9342389423 compared to myself. Just be confident and hang out with people who appreciate you.

[Andromega123]

well yeah there's a certain standard in society but like it's all about confidence and not all people have to look like society's standard

Yes, you are totally right about that actually but in some groups like mine, there are powerful examples of criticize about look and they are making those criticizes as total serious. Those criticizes are even strong enough to break self esteem of a person.

Uhm don't listen to them. I've been told that I'm ugly and too tall every year untill I realized when I grew up that it was all bullshit. They just hating maybe they're short and can't stand that you're tall or they're just simply insecure about theirself and that's why they shitting believe me. The people who used to bully me are now -9342389423 compared to myself. Just be confident and hang out with people who appreciate you.

But isn't it hard to don't care about all those criticisms even if some of them may be useful for us? Also, I didn't want to be the person who takes attention and envied by someone anytime actually, That's why I don't think that they are acting like that for just jealous. Also, isn't getting confidence belongs to positive comments from the people around us? At least, I cannot find people who appreciate me which because I have limited options and limited English to find friends in this country

[Prinses]

But isn't it hard to don't care about all those criticisms even if some of them may be useful for us? Also, I didn't want to be the person who takes attention and envied by someone anytime actually, That's why I don't think that they are acting like that for just jealous. Also, isn't getting confidence belongs to positive comments from the people around us? At least, I cannot find people who appreciate me which because I have limited options and limited English to find friends in this country

There is criticism in 2 ways. The criticism what’s being used to hurt you on purpose without making you better you should not pay attention to. The other criticism contains useful sayings ofcourse, like ‘you should do you hair different because this doesn’t suit you well’. It’s just someones oppinion and you can pay attention to that in order to adjust if you feel like they’re right. About language/limited options idk. Just go out in a bar and speak to people and make new friends, your english doesnt have to be pro to do that

[Ujku]

Bruhh...if you are 1.90 you are in good position.

Just grow a beard and hit the gym to become a beast.

YOU WILL SWIM IN PUSSY MARK MY WORDS.

[Marmara]

Uhm don't listen to them. I've been told that I'm ugly and too tall every year untill I realized when I grew up that it was all bullshit. They just hating maybe they're short and can't stand that you're tall or they're just simply insecure about theirself and that's why they shitting believe me. The people who used to bully me are now -9342389423 compared to myself. Just be confident and hang out with people who appreciate you.

Too tall in Netherlands? What? You gotta be 2 meters then.

[Prinses]

Too tall in Netherlands? What? You gotta be 2 meters then.

No I'm 1.75 turks bullied because of height, not the dutch.

[Marmara]

No I'm 1.75 turks bullied because of height, not the dutch.

Ahahaha lol they must be crazy.