Originally Posted by
MissMischief
To be fair, “toxic masculinity” does exist. It is basically the version of masculinity pushed by society which pressures men to conform to their stereotypical gender role. For instance, a man in the advert is viewed suspiciously for being alone with his own son. That's toxic masculinity; the stereotype that men who are nurturing and caring are somehow not right, not behaving in the proper way.
It is about the negative aspects of masculinity perpetuated by both men and women that harms men; expecting men not to cry (apart from anger), expecting men to take sexual, verbal and domestic abuse by “taking it like a man”, femininity seen as a bad thing for men to express (or are seen as gay).
As a result, they don't always feel they can open up to other people - vulnerability or showing emotion is weakness in these 'alpha males' eyes. Women tend to share a lot more with each other and have better support systems - men often don't have these because they feel it's too awkward to have emotional chats with friends or family.
Our society thinks men shuold be tough. Less support is given to male victims of violence because they are supposed to be better able to defend themselves than female victims. This is exactly what needs to change in society - this opinion. And that is exactly what the Gillette ad is making a start on.
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