I don't like my physical appearance and it's actually limiting my life

[Borealis]

OP you can pm me a photo and I will tell you what I think. We have the same problem so you can trust me

[calxpal]

Honestly I totally feel you as much as I do not like to paint myself as a victim I really wish I could get the same treatment attractive women do tbh It's tough comparing yourself especially with social media and also just seeing others get treated better in everyday life, and also knowing how my sister will always be ahead of me because of her looks. I still move forward and work hard though I do not mope in real life but yeah I honestly am planning to have plastic surgery on my face done of possible because why can't I become the real self I want and be more satisfied with life? I feel like I have the right to since the world doesn't treat people fairly. I mean I've never really liked my face either and it is plain looking. So I feel like it would improve my mood as well. But yeah I do also try to imagine the downsides of being attractive and also focus on improving other traits unrelated to appearance. But I would like to say stay strong, it is rough out there.

It can be hard though because I often try to imagine what my life would be like being attractive, even in my dreams on rare occasions.

[Hulu]

Honestly I totally feel you as much as I do not like to paint myself as a victim I really wish I could get the same treatment attractive women do tbh It's tough comparing yourself especially with social media and also just seeing others get treated better in everyday life, and also knowing how my sister will always be ahead of me because of her looks. I still move forward and work hard though I do not mope in real life but yeah I honestly am planning to have plastic surgery on my face done of possible because why can't I become the real self I want and be more satisfied with life? I feel like I have the right to since the world doesn't treat people fairly. I mean I've never really liked my face either and it is plain looking. So I feel like it would improve my mood as well. But yeah I do also try to imagine the downsides of being attractive and also focus on improving other traits unrelated to appearance. But I would like to say stay strong, it is rough out there.

It can be hard though because I often try to imagine what my life would be like being attractive, even in my dreams on rare occasions.

I have seen your pic, I don't think you need any plastic surgery. Just focus on better makeup and hair. Dress stylish, do physical activity so you can be toned and even your face benefits from physical exercise, eat healthy. Also work on the facial expressions. Stop complexing about your sister, you can have your own success, regardless of hers.

Can you post a pic of her or send it with a pm? I'm curious.

[HectorOfTroy]

Honestly I totally feel you as much as I do not like to paint myself as a victim I really wish I could get the same treatment attractive women do tbh It's tough comparing yourself especially with social media and also just seeing others get treated better in everyday life, and also knowing how my sister will always be ahead of me because of her looks. I still move forward and work hard though I do not mope in real life but yeah I honestly am planning to have plastic surgery on my face done of possible because why can't I become the real self I want and be more satisfied with life? I feel like I have the right to since the world doesn't treat people fairly. I mean I've never really liked my face either and it is plain looking. So I feel like it would improve my mood as well. But yeah I do also try to imagine the downsides of being attractive and also focus on improving other traits unrelated to appearance. But I would like to say stay strong, it is rough out there.

It can be hard though because I often try to imagine what my life would be like being attractive, even in my dreams on rare occasions.

I've also seen your pic and I don't think you need plastic surgery either I agree with the rest of what Hulu said. I had a crap experience in high school and junior high and it made me extremally physically insecure for a long time, surrounding myself with supportive people really helped alot. Idk I think demons/spiritual warfare sometimes try to bring in screwed up people in your path to attempt to create psychological traumas in people/derail lives like that (or you've just happened to have had bad luck in the past with shitty circumstances), but that's not indicative of what everyone else also perceives. I do see people who are not really "looks matched" at all commonly enough in real life after working in fast food drive thru window for a few months, at least definitely more common than what the internet makes believe people.

[Immanenz]

Honestly I totally feel you as much as I do not like to paint myself as a victim I really wish I could get the same treatment attractive women do tbh It's tough comparing yourself especially with social media and also just seeing others get treated better in everyday life, and also knowing how my sister will always be ahead of me because of her looks. I still move forward and work hard though I do not mope in real life but yeah I honestly am planning to have plastic surgery on my face done of possible because why can't I become the real self I want and be more satisfied with life? I feel like I have the right to since the world doesn't treat people fairly. I mean I've never really liked my face either and it is plain looking. So I feel like it would improve my mood as well. But yeah I do also try to imagine the downsides of being attractive and also focus on improving other traits unrelated to appearance. But I would like to say stay strong, it is rough out there.

It can be hard though because I often try to imagine what my life would be like being attractive, even in my dreams on rare occasions.

please dont. surgery isnt any kind of solution, maybe you should speak with a make up artist or so. Even this aint that important either, it depends on which type of man you want to attract. Right now, how you look- you have more chances to get a guy who is more deep, the more you focus on your look, you ll get more noticed by guys who are more superficial. So, if you really want that, go for it, but i doubt it will make you happier.

Trust me, the most important thing is you being healthy and studying or working in a field that gives you some kind of joy or at least importance/duty, also dont forget to develop some hobbies as well, trying new things etc. maybe you ll get to know new people, it gives some positive energy as well.

[Voskos]

A man is not supposed to like their physical appearance, it's a normal phenomenon called being heterosexual. If you like yourself too much you're probably a faggot.

[lei.talk]