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    Quote Originally Posted by Calcifer
    When I was very little and I was naughty, my grandma would spank me on the bottom with a wooden spoon.

    My mom was always a very emotional person and prone to outbursts because of things happening in her life, and if you happen to cross her path (even innocently) when she is like this then it doesn't matter who is in the way.

    I'll never forget a specific day when she was like this. I was looking for my dress in my cupboard and it wasn't there. Then I went to her cupboard and in a laundry mix-up it landed there. She was already in one of 'those' moods. I should have seen it coming because I was in my early 20's already but I didn't. In retrospect I should have gotten out there as fast as possible but things escalated really fast and I ended up beaten by a coat hanger and called a 'whore'. I tried to get her off me but she threw me onto the bed and pinned my arms down with her legs and began to strangle me. When I eventually blacked out she thought she'd killed me and went straight into a fit of crying hysterics, regretting how she had killed her daughter.

    On another day when she was in one of her moods, she picked a fight with my 75 year-old grandmother. Grandmother was slapped, beaten to the ground and had a kitchen chair broken over her back. Fortunately there were no serious injuries, only bruises, but it could have turned out much worse.

    My mom was difficult to live with sometimes because she could change in an instant. She was very unpredictable. If things in her life were going smoothly she was the most awesome mother. But if things were bad she lashed out at whoever was the closest person. She has very bad coping mechanisms and externalises her emotions - so whoever happens to be standing there is fully responsible for how her life went wrong in 1974.

    All that aside, I love my mother dearly. I just don't want to live with her because she is a rollercoaster.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Borealis View Post
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    Yes! My father was a Sunni Muslim. He did not break me, though. It also made me who I am today. I broke the cycle of abuse that was handed down from generation to generation. I never beat my child, ever, only gave LOVE.

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    I was never touched, and I was never bad

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    My dad flogged me with a leather whip he made when I was 3.

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    Yes, not often but occasionally. At one occasion I (and my younger sister) became beaten exaggeratedly and exceeding justice by far by my father. I never forgave him that.

    So when I later occasionally with dislike beat my children I kept that well in mind and did pay attention to always have announced it with warnings and then execute it mildly and in an accepted by the children way. It's easy for those that do have essentially obeying kids to say that nothing of that is needed. This was legal in Germany for quite a while but later the law changed and my second wife was much against it. After some arguments I eventually gave it up completely but we have a number of problems because of that where I then can just shrug my shoulders and say that these severe misdevelopments are the consequences exactly of that.

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    Never.

    But I don't have an opinion on whether others should do it. It's up to them, and some children are bad eggs/brats.
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    yes but not often

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    I can count on fingers of one hand, how many times I’ve been slapped by my mother. I don’t consider it beating though (my brother had it tougher than me for example). And I see it as “light” compared with other stories I’ve heard about in other families. The reason for it was something like, arriving home later than being told. This was happening when I was around 10-11 yo.
    Or once I was fighting with my brother and she took a fly swatter and start slapping both of us with it to make us stop, lol.
    After a certain age she did not touch me anymore, but we would sometimes have heated arguments.

    My father whopped me literally just once. I was maybe 5-6 yo idk. He prepared me cocoa and I refused to drink it and spilled some of it into the bed. So he stroke me lightly. It was not that painful, but I remember causing quite a scene and crying just for the sake of crying.

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    Of course. I'm from the 80's

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    Not really but I was an obedient kid. My cousins did though and I'm not against it as long as it's not excessive.

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