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nowadays dating someone became a real challenge at many points,and more if you are looking for a real lifetime serious relationship who could go on a marriage with family for some couples,here i'am just reporting some facts i don't speak for myself but more in a general manner but if i can have your feedback it's very welcome expecially if you are in an steady union in a strong commitment
these points are more obvious
the physical attractiveness,the sexual harmony ,the behaviour these ones are the more obvious,the capacity to be tolerant each other on certain minor things.
a bit less obvious the economical level of each partner ,the social classes,the cultural backround,the geographical distance,the age difference,the acceptation of childs from one partner,the tyrannic step-mom(always a source of conflict and of jokes),the dog,the cat the goldfish and the grand-mother
more less obvious your religious beliefs,your political beliefs
and the central feeling : love
but love could be broken also by others many differents ways also by an unfaithfull partner,a cheating partner,the erosion of time etc...
admitting than your are the same line for the main points :the physical attractiveness,the sexual harmony,that your are able to manage your more or less your cultural differences,your economical differences and your minus clashes
came the harder part:the religious and political perspectives
are you in an union where you don't share the same religion or political views,have you got big clashes about that,did you think aside cheating can cause a real break of your union,separation or did you think that love in above this kind of considerations,
i mean extreme examples: a far left with a far right,a far left atheist with a far right christian,a jewish with a muslim,an atheist anarchist with an christian monarchist,and i haven't integrate the ethnical perspective :a black atheist anarchist with a white christian monarchist and i'am sure than i can find more complicated cases,you'll see extreme microcosms who are not quantified
because a the first sight you were seduce or maybe not,what's is counting more for you,what are the values you place above all,because love itself suffer of all these complicated things,it could be became psychological,psychiatrical,very destructive
are you reproducing ancestral patterns because someone told you so or have you been invented new ones,put in back all the previous ones in a forgotten wheel
now came the metaphysical part or the cords theory :
Cords are made of astral and etheric energy and connect two people’s subtle bodies. They stretch between two people very much like an umbilical cord and transfer emotional energy and chi between the two. It does not matter how far away the other person is, as the cord is not a physical substance and distance is irrelevant, so it is still effective from the other side of the planet.
i have skip the baby/mother part
Another common cord is between two lovers. Each wants to share their energy with the other and during sex this is amplified greatly. The feelings of love and sharing are often enough to build a cord. Often these cords are between the bellies but can be in other areas like the heart or solar plexus, etc. So when two people have been in an emotional relationship for a time there is a good chance that the two people have a cord. Depending on the emotional issues of the two, the cord can become gross or can stay fairly clean and be a good thing which helps the two with emotional nurturing. If one partner is needy it is likely that they will drain the other which could eventually lead to resentment by the drained partner. Some cords that become too gross can cause serious problems for a couple and could certainly lead to a break-up. Clearing a cord can help alleviate the emotional intensity so the couple can progress to a more balanced relationship. If a breakup does occur, the cord may stay for a long time and continue to operate, making it hard to let go and to move on with another partner. In this case clearing the cord can do wonders.
Cords can be created between any two people or even groups of people that have emotional relationships. Friends, workmates, enemies can all have cords. They can be used by entities and other dimensional beings to connect with us and drain our energy. It is possible to send a cord to someone you don't know if you really want to get to know them. For example say you fall in love with someone but have not yet talked to them. It is possible that your desire to have them may send a cord into their energy. It is also possible to consciously create a cord to another person but this is in the domain of black magic. You should never use psychic means to purposely control or affect another’s energy without their permission. There are no exemptions from this rule and the karmic repercussions are enormous!
There are many types but whatever the case a cord is basically a connection between the astral and etheric bodies of two or more beings which allows for an exchange of emotional and/or etheric energy.
Fortunately all cords can be cleared fairly easily. It only takes one of the people to clear the cord and it will be cleared from the other. Through the practices learned in Past Life - Regression you can become aware of all your cords and learn to clear them. Interestingly while exploring a cord you can remember when and how it was created, how you felt about it and how it has been operating while it was there. Often cords can be seen and felt very tangibly and their effects become very apparent. As you enter the subconscious through the Third Eye you can actually remember what was happening in your subconscious during any part of your life. These can be excellent lessons in self exploration.
would you share your points of view and your perspectives?
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